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    searching for my brother... (OP)


    peace,

    i am daniel pramudito from Indonesia

    few days ago i have lost my brother. he was killed in military helicopter personnel casting exercise. when i read his log book, he mentioned this forum and he loved to be here (he said that 'it was where peace was nurtured among the users'). i don't have any clue about his profile or his username here. i would appreciate your help so that i can trace back his posts. here is some clues about him:

    1. he was indonesian native
    2. he was a catholic and embraced islam in his teen
    3. he was an oral surgeon (graduated from University of Indonesia and took his postgrad at Hong Kong Uni)
    4. his real name (if he ever mentioned to you) was Richard Stanley Pramudito, we called him Richie, and he changed his name recently into Rehmat Salahuddin Pramudito.
    6. he was in marine force in 2004, being discharged, and being redrafted (until he got the accident).

    thanks for your helps and it is my pleasure to be here.

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    Re: searching for my brother...

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    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    now i know why he loved this forum. you all are full of love, care, and attention.
    we hope u can stay and be an active user here insha'Allaah (God Willing)

    12 February,

    "....Malaysian people, agnostics, atheist, and muslims with beautiful usernames, scattered like a firefly to warm and light my thought. so this is Islam. I knew it, and i have no desire to leave LI..."
    tht was one beautiful quote.... May Allah Bless him
    Last edited by piXie; 07-12-2007 at 11:57 AM.

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    Ameen, n May Allaah have mercy upon him and give his family patience.
    That quote was touching, subhna Allaah.
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    ليس من مات استراحا بميت * انما الميت ميتة اﻻحياء

    انما الميت من يعيش كئيبا * كاسفا باله قليل الرجاء

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    Inna lillah wa inna ilayhi raji3oon

    This is so shocking. He was such an active member too

    May Allah grant him jannah ameen.

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    Re: searching for my brother...



    May Allah have mercy upon brother Asyur an-Nagi.

    He was such a nice brother masha'allah...I'm really shocked to hear about this Inna lillah wa inna ilaihi raaji'oon...

    May Allah grant him Jannah al-Firdaus Ameen..


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    SubhanAllah...

    Innaalillaah wa inaa ilayhi raaji'uun, I'm lost for words wallaahi.

    Aameen to the previous ad'iyahs.

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    inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oon

    ameen to the adeyah


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    Innanillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un.

    Ameen to all the du'as mentioned above.

    that...that quote from his log book... it was amazing. Just... amazing.
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    Innanillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un.

    Ameen to all the du'as mentioned above.
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    Re: searching for my brother...

    Innalillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon

    Im so sorry to hear of ur loss i didnt really no him well, but still... he was a fellow brother
    May Allah (swt) bless him with the highest place in paradise. ameen.
    Ameen to all previous du'as.

    May Allah (swt) also ease urs and ur families suffering. ameen.

    be strong brother..u are in all of our thoughts and prayers.

    peace bro

    p.s welcome to the forums.. it was a place ur brother loved, and im sure u will grow to love it too

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    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May you and your family find peace in these trying times.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by Umma Wasat View Post
    ^^ Ameen i'm so sorry! just pray for him Dan.

    Innalillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon :'(

    ‘O Allaah, forgive and have mercy upon him, excuse him and pardon him, and make honorable his reception. Expand his entry, and cleanse him with water, snow, and ice, and purify him of sin as a white robe is purified of filth. Exchange his home for a better home, and his family for a better family, and his spouse for a better spouse. Admit him into the Garden, protect him from the punishment of the grave and the torment of the Fire.’

    ‘O Allaah, Your servant and the son of Your maidservant is in need of Your mercy and You are without need of his punishment. If he was righteous then increase his reward and if he was wicked then look over his sins.’

    Ameen.
    Ameen Ameen Allahumma Ameen
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    Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oon. May Allah forgive him and save him from the punishment of the grave.

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    Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi raaji3oon...

    He was an active user too... :'( Amin to the Du'as! May Allah make it easy for you and your family and protect him from the punishments of the grave... Amin..

    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post

    a quotation from his log:

    12 February,

    "....Malaysian people, agnostics, atheist, and muslims with beautiful usernames, scattered like a firefly to warm and light my thought. so this is Islam. I knew it, and i have no desire to leave LI..."

    Lovely quote subhanallah..

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    Innalillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon!
    I am very sorry to hear the loss of your brother. He was our Brother too in Islam, I hope and pray that Allah makes him of the Ahlul Jannah. Ameen.
    Ameen to all the previous prayers! May Allah bless you and guide you too.
    salaam / peace.
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    وَإِن كُنتُنَّ تُرِدْنَ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ وَالدَّارَ الْآخِرَةَ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ أَعَدَّ لِلْمُحْسِنَاتِ مِنكُنَّ أَجْرًا عَظِيمًا

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    thanks for the support, dear friends.
    he was a lovely, humorous, and spontaneous person

    yes, i visited his LI clinic, and i read about it also from the log:

    '....Alhamdulillah. i just opened a clinic. not that expensive (no money, just idea, hahaha). now i can serve my bros and sis...for free (ahhhh, lovely!)..."

    before he was being redrafted to the marine force:

    '...the commander called me again to be his corpsman. it is not as scary as being a rifleman surely. they need me to stitch, cut, inject, or scrub. no big deal (no shooting or killing). but death sees no rifleman or corpsman. i have been living my life as a surgeon not to prevent the death. i am just stalling it. ahhh...don't wanna be cheesy. marine corps need no puppy tears...hahahaha! i just wish that if someday i was face to face with my Creator, i would be able to say that i've lived my life decently....''

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    he sounds like a brave man mashaAllah
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    His LI clinic was a great help! May Allah reward him for that!
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    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    thanks for the support, dear friends.
    he was a lovely, humorous, and spontaneous person

    yes, i visited his LI clinic, and i read about it also from the log:

    '....Alhamdulillah. i just opened a clinic. not that expensive (no money, just idea, hahaha). now i can serve my bros and sis...for free (ahhhh, lovely!)..."

    before he was being redrafted to the marine force:

    '...the commander called me again to be his corpsman. it is not as scary as being a rifleman surely. they need me to stitch, cut, inject, or scrub. no big deal (no shooting or killing). but death sees no rifleman or corpsman. i have been living my life as a surgeon not to prevent the death. i am just stalling it. ahhh...don't wanna be cheesy. marine corps need no puppy tears...hahahaha! i just wish that if someday i was face to face with my Creator, i would be able to say that i've lived my life decently....''


    Awww I think I am going to cry!!! He sounds like such a wonderful man. Once again I am sorry for your loss.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    i just wish that if someday i was face to face with my Creator, i would be able to say that i've lived my life decently....'' [/I][/COLOR]
    InshaAllah..

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    format_quote Originally Posted by tomtomsmom View Post
    Awww I think I am going to cry!!! He sounds like such a wonderful man. Once again I am sorry for your loss.
    You think? I was in tears with the first quote. Subhan'allah.
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