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    peace,

    i am daniel pramudito from Indonesia

    few days ago i have lost my brother. he was killed in military helicopter personnel casting exercise. when i read his log book, he mentioned this forum and he loved to be here (he said that 'it was where peace was nurtured among the users'). i don't have any clue about his profile or his username here. i would appreciate your help so that i can trace back his posts. here is some clues about him:

    1. he was indonesian native
    2. he was a catholic and embraced islam in his teen
    3. he was an oral surgeon (graduated from University of Indonesia and took his postgrad at Hong Kong Uni)
    4. his real name (if he ever mentioned to you) was Richard Stanley Pramudito, we called him Richie, and he changed his name recently into Rehmat Salahuddin Pramudito.
    6. he was in marine force in 2004, being discharged, and being redrafted (until he got the accident).

    thanks for your helps and it is my pleasure to be here.

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    To Allaah we belong, and to Him is our return. may Allaah bestow His Mercy upon him, and grant him paradise. ameen..



    He was a dentist wasn't he? And a great brother..

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    format_quote Originally Posted by - Qatada - View Post
    He was a dentist wasn't he? And a great brother..
    yeah he was bro, he gave me miswaak advice... subhanAllah. he was brave enuff to be in the battle field man, think bout that... what inspiration... he was somethin else man...
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    ameen to all the duas!

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    pramudito,

    Just wanted to add my condolence..

    Just as you have lost a brother, we have also lost a brother. Brother Asyur seemed to be a very valued member and we all hope and pray that his hereafter is made easy for him.

    Surely to him we belong and to him we will return, and the brothers time was up. His loss should be a reminder for us all who have another chance. How long will we be busy chasing the material goods of this world when it is useless for our hereafter?
    Last edited by gladTidings; 07-12-2007 at 07:00 PM.
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    Ameen to the Du'as that have been said. Sadly I did not get to read many of his posts. Like with all things we never know what is the will of Allah(swt). We just need to know that Allah(swt) is the best of planners and that all will happen when it is supposed to happen. we can not understand, but we can take comfort in the knowledge that our Brother had found Islam and had said the Shahadah.



    Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oon.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by Woodrow View Post


    Ameen to the Du'as that have been said. Sadly I did not get to read many of his posts. Like with all things we never know what is the will of Allah(swt). We just need to know that Allah(swt) is the best of planners and that all will happen when it is supposed to happen. we can not understand, but we can take comfort in the knowledge that our Brother had found Islam and had said the Shahadah.



    Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oon.
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    Subhan'Allah, Alhamduillah, Allahu Akbar
    May Allah Ta'ala forgive him for his sins, May he be protected fromt he punishment of the grave and the torment of the hellfire. Ameen Ameen Ameen.

    When Allah Ta'ala takes something away from us he replaces it. Allahu Akbar.
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    SubhanAllaah, it's sad to have lost one of our brothers on LI, but Alhamdulillah, as mentioned before, he passed away having the greatest gift of this life and will Insha'Allaah find rest and peace after a life of hard work. Indeed, it is a reminder for all of us, and his story shows us the importance of good company and friendship. Thank you pramudito for joining the forum and letting us know of this important news.

    May Allaah shower His mercy and blessings upon this brother, and bestow guidance and patience upon his family, Aameen.

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    my condolences....sorry to hear about the loss of ur brother...
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    Re: searching for my brother...

    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    peace,

    i am daniel pramudito from Indonesia

    few days ago i have lost my brother. he was killed in military helicopter personnel casting exercise. when i read his log book, he mentioned this forum and he loved to be here (he said that 'it was where peace was nurtured among the users'). thanks for your helps and it is my pleasure to be here.
    That's such sad news, Daniel. My condolences to you and your family.

    How are you finding it, reading your brother's posts here in LI?

    May God grant you and your family peace and strength at this difficult time.
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    inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raajiun may allah(Swt) bless him with heaven and not hell did he pray?

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    inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raajiun

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    I don't believe it.. I just don't believe it.. la 7wla wla qiwta ilah billah.. inna lilah wa'inna ilyhi raji3oon... I am so in shock.. I can't believe it..
    I am really sorry for your loss... are you sure he is gone? it can't be... he was just on recently.. so smart and full of life.. wow.. oh my God... I feel really sad... I am not even sure what to say.. I just can't believe it... Sobhan Allah...
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    Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un

    I'm so sad!!!

    * He promised me that he would bring me to Es Teler 77 in Jakarta... if I visit him in Jakarta next year.

    * He is the only person teaching me Batavian and making me interested in rediscovering my Batavian ancestry.

    May Allah grant him jannah...

    I really missed him.... alot!!!!!

    My condolences to his family in Indonesia, and to his wife and in-laws in Malaysia.
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    Assalamualaykum... I am back!!

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    format_quote Originally Posted by north_malaysian View Post
    Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un

    I'm so sad!!!

    * He promised me that he would bring me to Es Teler 77 in Jakarta... if I visit him in Jakarta next year.

    * He is the only person teaching me Batavian and making me interested in rediscovering my Batavian ancestry.

    May Allah grant him jannah...

    I really missed him.... alot!!!!!

    My condolences to his family in Indonesia, and to his wife and in-laws in Malaysia.
    I know you will be sadest of them all. Your are his best friend. I'm sure he mentioned your name in the log book.

    I'm not sure how is his fiancee is coping. Has anyone break the news to her yet.

    I cried all the way from work yesterday. Coincidently i stayed back at the office late i read the news. I seldom stayed back.

    He is only 26 or 27 years old right. As i remember it. Not sure though. But i know he hasn't married.

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    format_quote Originally Posted by syilla View Post
    I know you will be sadest of them all. Your are his best friend. I'm sure he mentioned your name in the log book.

    I'm not sure how is his fiancee is coping. Has anyone break the news to her yet.

    I cried all the way from work yesterday. Coincidently i stayed back at the office late i read the news. I seldom stayed back.

    He is only 26 or 27 years old right. As i remember it. Not sure though. But i know he hasn't married.

    ..................
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    Assalamualaykum... I am back!!

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    format_quote Originally Posted by glo View Post
    That's such sad news, Daniel. My condolences to you and your family.

    How are you finding it, reading your brother's posts here in LI?

    May God grant you and your family peace and strength at this difficult time.
    no. he always let me read his log book. and he mentioned this LI forum sooo often.

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    format_quote Originally Posted by north_malaysian View Post
    Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un

    I'm so sad!!!

    * He promised me that he would bring me to Es Teler 77 in Jakarta... if I visit him in Jakarta next year.

    * He is the only person teaching me Batavian and making me interested in rediscovering my Batavian ancestry.

    May Allah grant him jannah...

    I really missed him.... alot!!!!!

    My condolences to his family in Indonesia, and to his wife and in-laws in Malaysia.
    so you are the nm brother.

    yes, he loved teler.

    From his log:

    '....Farhana (his wife) took me to north Malaysia. i smiled and wondered if i could meet NM, the forum man there...."

    '...i just got bored. i log in and have some brapbrapbrap with my bro NM. he sure has Batavian blood somehow......

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    format_quote Originally Posted by syilla View Post
    I know you will be sadest of them all. Your are his best friend. I'm sure he mentioned your name in the log book.

    I'm not sure how is his fiancee is coping. Has anyone break the news to her yet.

    I cried all the way from work yesterday. Coincidently i stayed back at the office late i read the news. I seldom stayed back.

    He is only 26 or 27 years old right. As i remember it. Not sure though. But i know he hasn't married.

    he mentioned your name also.

    "...malaysian food is soooo spicy. syilla gave me a recipe of kari lala. maybe i a malaysian should cook it for me, since mom made it too spicy..."

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    format_quote Originally Posted by IbnAbdulHakim View Post
    yeah he was bro, he gave me miswaak advice... subhanAllah. he was brave enuff to be in the battle field man, think bout that... what inspiration... he was somethin else man...
    he always preferred to be called as a dentist or surgeon. so many people got amazed that he is, like what you've said bro, " a somethin else man"

    he had never shared anything from the battlefield even to me his only brother.

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    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    he mentioned your name also.

    "...malaysian food is soooo spicy. syilla gave me a recipe of kari lala. maybe i a malaysian should cook it for me, since mom made it too spicy..."
    Jazakallah khayr (Thank you) for sharing with us.

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