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    searching for my brother... (OP)


    peace,

    i am daniel pramudito from Indonesia

    few days ago i have lost my brother. he was killed in military helicopter personnel casting exercise. when i read his log book, he mentioned this forum and he loved to be here (he said that 'it was where peace was nurtured among the users'). i don't have any clue about his profile or his username here. i would appreciate your help so that i can trace back his posts. here is some clues about him:

    1. he was indonesian native
    2. he was a catholic and embraced islam in his teen
    3. he was an oral surgeon (graduated from University of Indonesia and took his postgrad at Hong Kong Uni)
    4. his real name (if he ever mentioned to you) was Richard Stanley Pramudito, we called him Richie, and he changed his name recently into Rehmat Salahuddin Pramudito.
    6. he was in marine force in 2004, being discharged, and being redrafted (until he got the accident).

    thanks for your helps and it is my pleasure to be here.

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    Re: searching for my brother...

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    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    but the cost of being hospitalized after the long swim would be atmospherically high
    hehe thats true too!!

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    alhamdulillah

    it was hard and miserable, but life is going on.

    thanks kitty (i just bought a kitten and i named her kitty...ps:no offense, dear sis. it was a coincident). may Allah bless you
    I understand it's a very hard time. I mean when my mom left me i was very upset indeed it was like ma life has gone and everyone has left me. The time i reverted to Islam i felt the blessing from my Lord (Allaah) Subhan'Allaah.

    We are here and we will leave as well, we have no choice dude. We need to remember this life is a test for us. Everyone is tested in each and different ways.
    I pray your brother achieved to Janah and you meet him one day Insha'Allaah.

    Look after yo self and your family. It's a very upsetting thing once lost a love'd one i understand how yo feel. But please stay strong. Memories will approach but don't ya think memories are a good thing. Remember your beloved brother is in yo heart ALWAYS no matter what! He has not gone far from yo. TRUST ME. Same goes for my Mom she hasn't gone far from me.

    I have 6cats along with 2 puppies,1parrot and ma nephews 4hamsters. Would have had 7cats but one got run over by a car.(By a drunken dude).
    Aww no ofence taken but thats cute. Im a big big big fan over cats. I LOVE CATS TO BITS & ALL ANIMALS

    Take care dude, anytime yo need help just ask

    BTW, i'll rather would like being called Jodie or Snowy. Thanks
    Last edited by Kittygyal; 09-05-2007 at 05:17 PM.

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    format_quote Originally Posted by Kittygyal View Post
    I understand it's a very hard time. I mean when my mom left me i was very upset indeed it was like ma life has gone and everyone has left me. The time i reverted to Islam i felt the blessing from my Lord (Allaah) Subhan'Allaah.

    We are here and we will leave as well, we have no choice dude. We need to remember this life is a test for us. Everyone is tested in each and different ways.
    I pray your brother achieved to Janah and you meet him one day Insha'Allaah.

    Look after yo self and your family. It's a very upsetting thing once lost a love'd one i understand how yo feel. But please stay strong. Memories will approach but don't ya think memories are a good thing. Remember your beloved brother is in yo heart ALWAYS no matter what! He has not gone far from yo. TRUST ME. Same goes for my Mom she hasn't gone far from me.

    I have 6cats along with 2 puppies,1parrot and ma nephews 4hamsters. Would have had 7cats but one got run over by a car.(By a drunken dude).
    Aww no ofence taken but thats cute. Im a big big big fan over cats. I LOVE CATS TO BITS & ALL ANIMALS

    Take care dude, anytime yo need help just ask

    BTW, i'll rather would like being called Jodie or Snowy. Thanks
    oh, sis. i am so sorry to hear that. but Allah granted you an exceptional strength.

    aaaa, got it...got it! animal lover eh?

    sure, i would ask anything anytime, Jodie...or...Snowy (how come you have both different names?)

    all the best

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    oh, sis. i am so sorry to hear that. but Allah granted you an exceptional strength.

    aaaa, got it...got it! animal lover eh?

    sure, i would ask anything anytime, Jodie...or...Snowy (how come you have both different names?)

    all the best
    Ya indeed dude. Im an animal lover, Yo got that right.

    Jodie = Ma christain name.

    Alisha = Ma muslim name.

    Snowy = what me mom called me cause as my mom used to say 'Jo-jo yo white as snow and fluffy and snow-white'

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    format_quote Originally Posted by Kittygyal View Post
    Ya indeed dude. Im an animal lover, Yo got that right.

    Jodie = Ma christain name.

    Alisha = Ma muslim name.

    Snowy = what me mom called me cause as my mom used to say 'Jo-jo yo white as snow and fluffy and snow-white'
    masha Allah! Christian name? are you a revert?!

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    masha Allah! Christian name? are you a revert?!
    LOl. Yo are funny because i said im a revert in ma first post.

    Yesh bro im a revert to Islam

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    format_quote Originally Posted by Kittygyal View Post
    LOl. Yo are funny because i said im a revert in ma first post.

    Yesh bro im a revert to Islam
    aaaah...i see...i see! it is good to hear that

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    Wow I'm so sorry to hear that. I wish you the very best in finding it.


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    Re: searching for my brother...

    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    aaaah...i see...i see! it is good to hear that
    Alhamduliah it is.

    Are yo a revert?

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    format_quote Originally Posted by Kittygyal View Post
    Alhamduliah it is.

    Are yo a revert?
    sure. i signed up at this forum as a catholic

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    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    sure. i signed up at this forum as a catholic

    is it ok to ask about the reaction of ur parent & other family members ?
    searching$for my brother...

    Christ will never be proud to reject to be a slave to God .....holy Quran, chapter Women , 4: 172

    recitation:http://quran.jalisi.com

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    format_quote Originally Posted by Muslim Woman View Post





    is it ok to ask about the reaction of ur parent & other family members ?
    sure, sis. they are always showing me how think in open mind, and told me to live my new life a hundred percent.

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    sure. i signed up at this forum as a catholic
    Salam.
    So you was a catholic before? Now you have reverted?

    Masha'Allaah. Need help just ask away . May god bless you amin.

    Hope ur okay

    Btw may i ask where ur bro was burried?

    :thankyou:

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    Re: searching for my brother...

    format_quote Originally Posted by Kittygyal View Post
    Salam.
    So you was a catholic before? Now you have reverted?

    Masha'Allaah. Need help just ask away . May god bless you amin.

    Hope ur okay

    Btw may i ask where ur bro was burried?

    :thankyou:
    he was buried at jakarta under an apple tree (just as he always wished)

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    format_quote Originally Posted by pramudito View Post
    he was buried at jakarta under an apple tree (just as he always wished)

    Oh Kewl.

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    Salaamu Alaikum...May Allah (swt) bless u upon accepting the truth & forgive us all for our errors in life, Aameen. Wasalaamu Alaikum
    searching$for my brother...

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