Rasulullaah (SAW) said, “The best of you is the one with the best character, while the worst of you in the sight of Allaah on the Day of Qiyaamah will be the one whom people have shunned out of fear for his abusive language and evil.”
[Bukhaari 6029, 6032, from Hadhrat Aa’isha (RA)]
ORCHARD OF KNOWLEDGE
Last edited by Ridwaan Ravat; 11-14-2015 at 04:20 PM.
ALWAYS bear a persons status, age and relationship with you in WHEN addressing him. NEVER speak to a teacher, parent or elder in the manner that you would speak to your friends. Also KEEP the status of children in mind when SPEAKING to them and DO so with love and compassion.
When two people are talking to each other, NEVER interrupt by cutting off their talks. IF it is NECESSARY to interrupt, do so AFTER taking THEIR permission.
[اسلامی آداب]
Last edited by Ridwaan Ravat; 11-14-2015 at 04:18 PM.
ALWAYS speak gently, while SMILING and in a SOFT tone. NEVER speak too loudly, or TOO softly so that the person being addressed is neither at a loss to hear or inconvenienced. The Qur'aan declares that the worst of all sounds is the braying of a donkey, which is harsh and loud
[اسلامی آداب]
Last edited by Ridwaan Ravat; 11-14-2015 at 04:18 PM.
Think WELL before replying to a question, because it is FOOLISH to reply WITHOUT prior thought. Also NEVER give a reply WHEN the question is posed to someone else.
[اسلامی آداب]
Last edited by Ridwaan Ravat; 11-14-2015 at 04:17 PM.
NEVER interrupt what a person is saying by SAYING that you ALREADY know it because it is very POSSIBLE that he will state something that you DO NOT KNOW or that his SINCERITY may have a special effect on you.
[اسلامی آداب]
Last edited by Ridwaan Ravat; 11-14-2015 at 04:16 PM.
Speak when NECESSARY and ALWAYS speak what is MEANINGFUL because FUTILE speech does NOT behove a respectable person. REMEMBER that one has to ACCCOUNT to Allâh for EVERYTHING one says.
NEVER make FALSE promises, NEVER tease people, NEVER boast and NEVER speak WITHOUT thinking. NEVER call people DEROGATORY names, and NEVER take oaths UNNECESSARILY.
Do NOT be TWO-TONGUED; expressing views in the presence of a person to please him, but when in the company of another, holding a different view from the latter, then speaking to please him too.
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