I often get very lonely, and many of you have been advising me to go out and make some male friends, but sadly, i also have social phobia, so i am afraid to approach people or be social........ill talk about that with my therapist tomorrow....also, many of you have advised me not to have premarital relationships with girls....so what I do is, I have an imaginary girlfriend i talk to, who i pretend is a girl i know, and basically i know deep down im talking to myself, but i get so lost in it i don't care and feel some compensation for my lonliness.....wherever i go, especially in my house, i have imaginary conversations, almost simulations, in my head, and i even cuddle my pillow, pretending it's some girl i admire from afar.....i personally think it's the least of three evils......masturbating, befriending real girls, or talking to imaginary ones....also, it's not just my lonliness...i can't seem to keep myself busy at all without talking to someone.....and I often get bored due to having a low attention span from ADHD.....is this wrong? and is this a sign of jinni possession, or even schizophrenia?
Re: Is it a sin to conjure up an "imaginary girlfriend"?
The more you remember Allah, the less you get these kind of strange thoughts. Make a conscious effort to connect with your creator through dhikr and dua.
Also, you've asked this question so many times in different forms. Please look through your post history and follow the advice already given to you.
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