Salam
Can we not be hostile towards our brothers and sisters, i know its a tableeghi trait, but we dont appreciate it here
Wassalam
If by that you are refering to my post, let me explain.
He asked a question. someone answered. Someone else said "prove it" - impying that he is not satisified with that answer. Therefore, my reply was a counter-question. No hostility involved thank you.
Someone said to the Prophet, "Pray to God against the idolaters and curse them." The Prophet replied, "I have been sent to show mercy and have not been sent to curse." (Muslim)
Th aim by chatting may be preaching Islam or there will be no harm to the borders of shariah. Why you prohibit it strongly? Can you bring any fatwo about it?
Else, I may be searching a girl with whom I may marry. While chatting I will be able to check how she is. Is it also prohibited?
Else, I may be searching a girl with whom I may marry. While chatting I will be able to check how she is. Is it also prohibited?[/QUOTE]
Yes, to my knowledge, and the opinions of the scholars at the Islamic University in Madinah. They say that this new revolution of 'Islamic Dating Agencies' is completely forbidden. I will try and post the fatwa soon inshallah
Wassalam
Can you stop asking me to prove things? Scholars can say what they like, so the same applies
Salam
brother I did not under stand what you are trying to point out.
Plus as for talking with sisters on the net, well it depends.
If you have work and your serious sure. But If you are there to have fun beware. You will get use to it online then when you see the opposite gender in real life you will forget and do what you did online. And no matter where the scholar is from who he is and what he did. When he says something he/she must prove it. otherwise anyone can say anything.
Salam
I was joking. As i have already stated in this thread, it is FORBIDDEN to communicate with a member of the opposite sex (non-mahram) by means of the internet, phone, text or face to face. The fatwas are out there. Ill post some in the future, but look for yourself.
Wassalam
It depends on who the sister actually is. People have different opinions about this - including sheiks. The only difference is that more people tend to follow the sheik rather than a person. I wouldn't recommend you chat with sisters - it's practically prohibited in face to face, so it would be logical to apply this ruling to all kinds of communication.
However, as a brother rightly pointed out, the female may be a future wife (as in wife-to-be-tomorrow) In which case, you are allowed to communicate with her. As far as preaching goes, well if it don't work in face-to-face, it aint gonna happen over msn.
Someone said to the Prophet, "Pray to God against the idolaters and curse them." The Prophet replied, "I have been sent to show mercy and have not been sent to curse." (Muslim)
Communication with Na Mahraam girlz is not appriciated in Islam specially ALONE. Net chatting is also the same thing. the only difference is u can't see each other(in most cases u can see now WEBCAMS.) Prophet (PBUH) says: when one man and a woman are setting alone somewhere the satan is the third one between them.
Banning with this much strict word is not suggestible. A lot of :sister:s are here in the forum and we do communicate with them.
One may talk to girlz or girlz may talk to boys only in the limitations set by the religion.
Here is the ruling on Chat between brothers and sisters.
You must limit yourself to Internet chat. Do not use voice in your conversations with these women. If you restrict yourself to Internet chat, I think it is alright for you to communicate with them on serious issues relating to Islam, especially if they may not have any other source for such information.
However, beware of going further by using voice, photos or by being attracted by Satan to discuss more and more unnecessary things.
And Allah knows best.
Do your charity in the name of Da'wah and help us out
when answering questions liket his can you please adhere to the following forum rule...
18. Do not say "Islam says X" unless your position is based upon sound evidence - which means the Qur'an and the Sunnah. Always cite your sources. If quoting the Qur'an, give suroorat (chapter) and ayah (verse) number. For ahadeeth, you must the name of the collection, volume/book number and hadeeth number. Unless you quoting from an agreed-upon authenthic collection (i.e. Bukharee, Muslim) you must also provide authenthic information.
i personally think that its haram reason being; cz their is a hadith that says when 2 of the opposite sex are alone the third person is the Shaitan, im sure many of us clearly no this bt we try to mke excuses 4 ourselves. Let's b real wid 1 n other if its 4 "education" nd we need help 4 our wrk is there jst dat 1 female/ sista dat kn provide dis help, da answer is... NO! im sure if u rly wnted dat help nd u had fear of Allah in u den ud wnt help da correct nd Halal way, by aksing da same sex as you! another thing is dat we mke da deen an excuse, we cum wid da lamest excuses "Oh, da sista/ brother needs help wid islam", or "wer jst tlkin about da deen", REALISTICALLY, hw lng will it b till ur conversations r nt about Islam, or hw lng will it be till da Shaitan whispers in ur ears, we all no dat it wnt b lng!
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