Well, I am an convert from Christianity til islam, alhamdulilah
I do not wear hijab, because I am afraid how peolpe will act, particularly my family..!!! So what can I do, to get the courage?? My husband (who also is muslim from Lebanon, alhamdulilah) says that inshallah I will get the courage one day, and he will support me 100%, alhamdulilah... but can you understand me, that I am afraid that I will "lose myself" ..that one day I will wake up in the morning and dont recognize myself. I LOVE islam, and I want to be a good muslim I am very serious about islam, så I will not take the hijab on one day, and the next day i wont, I want to be safe with my choice..!!
Salam Aleikum from Trine. I hope you all can understand my english
Perfect English Masha Allah. Congrats. Verily Allah guides to His light whom He wills. Take it step by step sister. Don’t rush Insha Allah. Every day aim to cover a bit more and Insha Allah one day you’ll find yourself wearing the complete and correct Hijab
Perfect English Masha Allah. Congrats. Verily Allah guides to His light whom He wills. Take it step by step sister. Don’t rush Insha Allah. Every day aim to cover a bit more and Insha Allah one day you’ll find yourself wearing the complete and correct Hijab
Thank you
well, i have some hijab at home, and have them on sometimes( at home) but when it comes to going out, then its hard. my family, took it wery well, when i told them that i was a muslim now, so the next step is the hijab But yes i will take one step at the time, and some day i cant take it of inshallah!!! thank you for your time
Salam
Sis i already love. I can tell you are really striving. Wearing hijab, especially in the west. is tough. I myself live in the west and I wear jilbab. Inner strength can only come from Allah. As for your family, they are slaves of Allah too sis, and we must all fear and obey Him alone. Hijab allows a woman to be recognised for her mind and not her beauty, as it is intellect and character that matter, not superficial attractiveness. I will make du'a for you sis, that's the best gift I can give you.
May Allah help you in your struggle, and forgive us all,ameen.
p.s masha-Allah congrats on converting! :rose:
Alhamdulilaah. Sister wear your Hijabs to the masjid (Mosque). Stay with sister's that wear the Hijab One day Allah will give you the courage to put it on. Read the stories of the sahabiyaat (women companion), when Allah revealed to them that they should wear the Hijab they tore sheets and warped themselves with it. Insha Allah Allah will give you that iman (faith) to do as they did. Also make du’a (supplication) to Allah. When you ask, ask for Allah. Allah will never fail you. Also attend islamic study circles, where you learn Islam from Quran and sunnah
Sis i already love. I can tell you are really striving. Wearing hijab, especially in the west. is tough. I myself live in the west and I wear jilbab. Inner strength can only come from Allah. As for your family, they are slaves of Allah too sis, and we must all fear and obey Him alone. Hijab allows a woman to be recognised for her mind and not her beauty, as it is intellect and character that matter, not superficial attractiveness. I will make du'a for you sis, that's the best gift I can give you.
May Allah help you in your struggle, and forgive us all,ameen.
p.s masha-Allah congrats on converting! :rose:
Thank you very much for your kind words. it is nice to have someone to help me i know that a woman should be recognised for her mind, and i do not wear make-up, and close that are showing to much inshallah some day, i will wear hijab
it is very nice of you, that you will make du´a for me, alhamdulilah.
Salam
Thank you very much for your kind words. it is nice to have someone to help me i know that a woman should be recognised for her mind, and i do not wear make-up, and close that are showing to much inshallah some day, i will wear hijab
it is very nice of you, that you will make du´a for me, alhamdulilah.
Salam
Alhamdulilaah. Sister wear your Hijabs to the masjid (Mosque). Stay with sister's that wear the Hijab One day Allah will give you the courage to put it on. Read the stories of the sahabiyaat (women companion), when Allah revealed to them that they should wear the Hijab they tore sheets and warped themselves with it. Insha Allah Allah will give you that iman (faith) to do as they did. Also make du’a (supplication) to Allah. When you ask, ask for Allah. Allah will never fail you. Also attend islamic study circles, where you learn Islam from Quran and sunnah
You believe that you should have put on hijab, but you have a feeling of being ashamed of it as you will be identified as a Muslimah. This feeling is like telling that you are a Muslim and at the same time you are ashamed of being a Muslim. If you feel it is necesary for you to wear hijab, you have to do it now for the sake of unpolluted faith, or else your tomorrow may never come to you and you may find yourself in the grave as a hesitant believer who felt shy of of being a Muslimah.
You believe that you should have put on hijab, but you have a feeling of being ashamed of it as you will be identified as a Muslimah. This feeling is like telling that you are a Muslim and at the same time you are ashamed of being a Muslim. If you feel it is necesary for you to wear hijab, you have to do it now for the sake of unpolluted faith, or else your tomorrow may never come to you and you may find yourself in the grave as a hesitant believer who felt shy of of being a Muslimah.
Well i want to show the world that i am a muslim, but it is hard, there are so many things! hope you understand!!!!!!!!!! Thank you!
sista i have converted two years ago and am practising islam and becuming a gud muzlim i know where your coming from cause it's hard to explain to your family when they are NOT asians/converted. like same here my mum is a christian whereas i've converted but i'm just praying all the time to god that he the one leads me family to the right path and also me that's all i worri about sis. i know it's hard to where a scarf but i do wear it well i've started to wear it recently,there for at times i do wana take it off and i do tho to be honest but i be brave and always pray to god that he leads me to thre right path that's all i care about me religion....and i ONLY fear the one lord and no one else!
sista i have converted two years ago and am practising islam and becuming a gud muzlim i know where your coming from cause it's hard to explain to your family when they are NOT asians/converted. like same here my mum is a christian whereas i've converted but i'm just praying all the time to god that he the one leads me family to the right path and also me that's all i worri about sis. i know it's hard to where a scarf but i do wear it well i've started to wear it recently,there for at times i do wana take it off and i do tho to be honest but i be brave and always pray to god that he leads me to thre right path that's all i care about me religion....and i ONLY fear the one lord and no one else!
i hope you understand what i mean
take care
I understand sister and it is nice to write with you because you know how i feel. but some day i will wear hijab, inshallah! Do you know if we can write together on msn messenger, if you have one ???
Salam aleikum sister.
I understand sister and it is nice to write with you because you know how i feel. but some day i will wear hijab, inshallah! Do you know if we can write together on msn messenger, if you have one ???
Salam aleikum sister.
that's gud that you understand me sis . yes sis i do have msn but i'm not going to give it on the tread if you know what i mean i can p.m you bt you've got less than 50post so i can't p.m you
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I am very serious about islam, så I will not take the hijab on one day, and the next day i wont, I want to be safe with my choice..!!
Wa Alaikumusslaam
. I can tell you are really striving. Wearing hijab, especially in the west. is tough. I myself live in the west and I wear jilbab. Inner strength can only come from Allah. As for your family, they are slaves of Allah too sis, and we must all fear and obey Him alone. Hijab allows a woman to be recognised for her mind and not her beauty, as it is intellect and character that matter, not superficial attractiveness. I will make du'a for you sis, that's the best gift I can give you
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