salaam aleykum wr wb,my sisters in islam
firts i thought i shoul not write about this topic then i thought why not because i have a efew friends and spoke to them about this subject a few who did not wear hijaab are now wearung through encouragement to wear it alhamdulilah :thankyou:
Many muslim sisters weather they are from muslim housholds or not and are reverts.
These days are finding it very hard to wear hijaab and islamic dress
(eg,loose clothing and scarf)
Sometimes through the lack of encouragement , lack of understanding and pride,and media and pop stars play a role also so friends who are not muslims(who can dress as they please)and even in some households where where islamic rules and not taught and are laspe and libreal often you find even in some religious familys don't advice thier daughters and sisters to wear hijaab and cover untill much older .
Then the girl has great difficulty in ajusting to wearing the dress code they are sometimes forced to wear and without encouragement.
Even some sisters whom are reverts or have been muslims all thier lives give excuses and answer " sister the hijaab is of the heart we don't have to wear hijaab " or we feel suffacated by it......
but then some sister will explain to them that it is a command and law of Allah .s.w..t and a requirement for us also.
We often get sway by western media and no muslim who say liberation!!!! liberation!!!
You don't have to wear it -it's old fashioned, its an old law, laws are ment to be broken.
Even you see muslim sisters these days wearing very tight clothing (to reveal thier figures)showing thier legs (this is also not allowed)but loose fitting garments.
let me ask you a question?
IF our prophet came and knocked on your door and you answered it,would you feel pride or embarrassed in front of him do you really think he would enter our households??? why we are dressed like that.
my dear sisters in islam this is the dunya its only a tempory life for us our strive insha'allah is jannah hopefully insha'allah
Do we as muslim sisters of this family of islam want to flaunt the laws of our beloved Allah s.w.t. and prophet s.w.s
we need to remind each other with love and respect and encouragement especially those sisters whom are having a hard time with this humberley explaining to them that this is a request from our beloved Allah and also a law he gave us to forfil.
And do we really want to disobey our beloved Allah.s.w.t we should forfil this small but important law with hope in doing so Allah is happy with us
I pray and hope that Allah guides all my sisters in islam to stand firm and ignore the whispers of shataain to wear thier hijaab and islamic dress with pride for Allah.s.w.t and may Allah guide us to jannah ameen
(i am happy wearing mine alhamdulilah)
you know..i'm not really the girly type of girl ifyounowatimean
i try and wear skirty stuff most of the time but do you think its okay to wear like a skirt to your knee and jeans under that-coz like if i see a tree i'll climb it(jokes thats a little far fetched) but i don't like sitting down with the aunties and listen to them exchange recipies ...i don't no i just cant seem to sit still!
my friend wear skirts which are knee length over her trousers...
i am a english revert who wears hijab i only had the encouragement of my husband to wear hijab as when i frist reverted i dident know eney muslim sisters but alhamdulillallah i do now and enjoy the forum encouragement is the way to help others pushing sisters in to things that they are not ready for is not the way to help the deen was not made hard for us allah (swt) made it easy becouse as human beings we some times find it hard to stick to thing my husband always told me dont rush in to things go slowly becouse allah (swt) wants muslims to stay muslims not rush in to things then afther a week say this is to hard then give up which does happen gental encouragement is best show sisters who do not wear hijab books about hijabs revert stories hadeeth tell her how you started wearing yours
Well, most people here, in Brunei wear jeans and hijab...
It was okay about 5 years back...But now, it looks horrible. I mean the jeans have become tight and the hijab has become shorter, some even reveals the neck!
Their idea is to cover the hair...a really big misconception!!!
But if your jeans are not tight, your top isnt against the chriteria of Hijab for Muslimah than i think its ok to wear jeans...better than wearing 3/4, which i saw teenagers in Malaysia wearing...I just wanted to get out of there!!
Even some sisters whom are reverts or have been muslims all thier lives give excuses and answer " sister the hijaab is of the heart we don't have to wear hijaab " or we feel suffacated by it......
but then some sister will explain to them that it is a command and law of Allah .s.w..t and a requirement for us also.
one of my friends used those excuses but due to da jilbaa. she wears a scarf but is not too keen on stopping wearing trousers and jeans and instead wearing a jilbaab saying that she is ''not ready''.
Even some sisters whom are reverts or have been muslims all thier lives give excuses and answer " sister the hijaab is of the heart we don't have to wear hijaab " or we feel suffacated by it......
but then some sister will explain to them that it is a command and law of Allah .s.w..t and a requirement for us also.
one of my friends used those excuses but due to da jilbaa. she wears a scarf but is not too keen on stopping wearing trousers and jeans and instead wearing a jilbaab saying that she is ''not ready''.
i.a allah will guide her on the right path
u mean she does not wear jilbab well my sister u are allowed to wear jeans but not tight ones and trousers but if they are tight and revealing this is no good because it reveals the contours of the body which is not a mode of dress in sialm for ladies :sister: but loose fitting garments and long ( i dont mean to the floor) but as long as it covers your back and not transparant either ask her a simple question would she answer almighty Allah that she was not ready to wear jilbab:sister: kay: because if we were to die without forfilling the commands of our beloved Allah won't we be sorry :X speacially if we don't recieve the shade of Allah on the day of kiyamaat but my sweet sister talk nicely to her and pass ur small piece of dawah to her from time to time saying u would look so beautiful and you would please Allah because as we remind others we also remind ourselves because every time we remind something good to do insha'allah it goes in our good dees and when we tell someone thats bad and remind ourselves also that it is bad we are removing insha'allah shataain :sister: cause we don't want him around us but with ur love and encouragement to her i am sure she will wear it :sister:
m/salaam for now :sister: :thankyou:
u mean she does not wear jilbab well my sister u are allowed to wear jeans but not tight ones and trousers but if they are tight and revealing this is no good because it reveals the contours of the body which is not a mode of dress in sialm for ladies :sister: but loose fitting garments and long ( i dont mean to the floor) but as long as it covers your back and not transparant either ask her a simple question would she answer almighty Allah that she was not ready to wear jilbab:sister: kay: because if we were to die without forfilling the commands of our beloved Allah won't we be sorry :X speacially if we don't recieve the shade of Allah on the day of kiyamaat but my sweet sister talk nicely to her and pass ur small piece of dawah to her from time to time saying u would look so beautiful and you would please Allah because as we remind others we also remind ourselves because every time we remind something good to do insha'allah it goes in our good dees and when we tell someone thats bad and remind ourselves also that it is bad we are removing insha'allah shataain :sister: cause we don't want him around us but with ur love and encouragement to her i am sure she will wear it :sister:
m/salaam for now :sister: :thankyou:
j.a for that but mayb i didnt mke my self clear. sometimes her jeans are very tight and i heard soemwhere that it is obligatory upon muslims to wear a jilbab..wheteher in a muslim or non-muslim country.aint this true?
Your faith depends entirely on a swath of fabric? You'll just dissolve into the sea of humanity as a disbeliever?
I have to admit I'm confused. Or concerned. Or both.
she didnt say faith. she said identity
Our Lord! Verily, we have heard the call of one calling to Faith: 'Believe in your Lord,' and we have believed.
Our Lord! Forgive us our sins and expiate from us our evil deeds, and make us die (in the state of righteousness) along with Al-Abrar
As-salamu aleikum! I dress hijab, indeed this fard. And I be proud of the fact that I dress it! Without hijab it would feel itself naked. In my country not all muslim woman can dress it, someone because of the parents (if they are not Muslims), someone because of the work.
jazakallah sis. Yes I did say Identity.
If you saw a woman without hijab would you say to yourself: 'that is a muslim woman who just doesn't wear hijab'?
I'm- Muslim woman, who, as millions of other muslim women of the terrestial globe, selected for herself the carrying of hijab. In the essence, our matter - to cover entire body, except face and hands. But if you from those, who look popular films, you, possibly, thought about us as about the girls in the harem, about the women, whom they hold in the imprisonment, letting out only for the intimate pleasures of their owner- man, and they recalled the dance of stomach. However, in the Islamic dogma there is place for anything, besides truth. And the concept of hijab, in spite of the conventional opinion, this, in the essence, one of the fundamental moments of the self-determination of woman. When I cover itself, people cannot judge about me by how I appear. i'm no longer I can be classified according to my attractiveness or on the absence of the afore-mentioned. You will compare this with the life of today's society. We constantly compare each other, being based on our clothing, adornments, to hair-do and to make up. What depth must be in this peace? Yes, i have a body - physical manifestation of my terrestrial origin. But it is the vessel of rationality and hardness of spirit. It not for the spectator, who looks with the longing, and not for the advertisement to sale in all, from the beer to the machines. The superficiality of the peace, in which we live, leads to the fact that the extrinsic ethos so strongly extols that the value of personality barely is taken into the calculation. This is myth, that the woman in today's society has a freedom. What freedom can be, if woman cannot pass along the street without each part of her body not would be being studied? When i'm burden of hijab, I can secure itself from entire this. I can rest, confident, that no one looks at me, studying my nature, being based on the length of my skirt. I place the barrier between my exploiters and by me. One of the bitter realias of our time - myth about the beauty and the female means. Reading popular youth periodicals, you can immediately find, what type of figure in the mode, but which is not. But if you have the incorrect type of figure, then indeed you you do be going it to correct, not then whether? In any case, you never will be able, having excess weight, to be confident, that they are beautiful. You will look to any advertisement. Perhaps is not used woman for sale of the different kind of products? It is how much by her years? How it is attractive? In that it is dressed? Most frequently, this there will be woman of approximately twenty or only more, high, ordered, only more attractive than the established average level of the standard of beauty - it is dressed in the covering clothing. The ninetieth years of the twentieth century drove on woman under the desired template, she wanted that or not. It they force to be sold, to reject itself. And we have cases, when 13- summer girls press by fingers inside the throat in order not to get well, or when complete girl- adolescents end life with suicide. My body - this is my matter. No one can tell me, as I must appear, it is beautiful or not. I know that to me it is not necessarily more than this. I also can say "no", when they ask me, I do feel itself sexually oppressed. I found control over its sexuality. Glory to god, for me now already never it is necessary to experience fate, trying to "lost or got" weight or to select that shadow itself under its color of the skin. I made a selection in favor of the fact that is more important, and already there is no place for bylomu. I'm not in the imprisonment and not in the captivity in the "barbarians of Arab deserts". I'm - freed by Islam.
jazakallah sis. Yes I did say Identity.
If you saw a woman without hijab would you say to yourself: 'that is a muslim woman who just doesn't wear hijab'?
My identity is not based on the opinions of other people. If they know I am a Muslima, it will be because of my excellent behaviour.
If I feel the need to announce to the world I am a Muslima, I can wear a shirt that says it.
But my identity isn't based on my outward appearance.
Why shouldn't one's personal character be manifest in their outward conduct? The modesty of an individual should be reflected in the way they conduct themselves and their external appearance. For example, someone who does not keep themselves clean is not reflecting the Islamic teachings of purity and cleanliness, even though this is only their outward appearance. People who say things like, "But faith (imaan) is in the heart!" display a misunderstanding of the Qur'anic and Prophetic teachings because we know that in Islam, imaan has three components - imaan of the heart, imaan of the tongue (speech) and imaan of our actions.
The Qur'an itself tells us, in Surat Al-Ahzâb that the modest clothing worn by Muslim women is so that she be known (thâlika adnâ ay-yu'rafna) and recognized by the society for who she is; for her chastity, modesty and devotion to God. So this is part of her identity as a Muslim woman.
Likewise, the same thing is true when we come to the issue of the beard. The Prophet Muhammad pbuh specifically instructed Muslim men to maintain the beard to distinguish themselves, so it is again part of the Muslim identity. The simple fact is, yes, Islam has provided guidance on our external appearance, which is reflective of our identity.
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My identity is not based on the opinions of other people.
Of course your identity is not based on the opinions of other people, it is based upon your obedience to your Creator. But how you are identified in society is inherently connected to the opinions of the people, which may or may not be correct.
If they know I am a Muslima, it will be because of my excellent behaviour.
And somehow you feel that the manner in which a person displays themselves in society is not part of their behaviour? What is it, then?
If I feel the need to announce to the world I am a Muslima, I can wear a shirt that says it.
As opposed to following the Qur'anic directive to veil yourself?
But my identity isn't based on my outward appearance.
The point your missing is that the way one maintains their outward appearance is part of their behaviour. A filthy appearance is reflective of one's identity, especially with regard to the importance they place on cleanliness.
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "Surely I was sent to perfect the qualities of righteous character" [Musnad Ahmad, Muwatta Mâlik]
i am a muslim and do wear a hijab + jilbab....but does anyone here know how i could bring my friend to wearing a scarf, she thinks it isnt compulsory in the UK because we could suffer for it
If I had to take a bullet in my heart I would but I would not take off my Hijab
i am a muslim and do wear a hijab + jilbab....but does anyone here know how i could bring my friend to wearing a scarf, she thinks it isnt compulsory in the UK because we could suffer for it
my mum used the same excuse on ma beard.
NO DONT GROW IT, THEY'LL DEPORT YOU. lol but im like.... well all the better the reward .
PS: Its more fard in a kuffar country coz more digusting people. Man they will stare at just your face if thats all thats showing, SIKNESS!!!!
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i am a english revert who wears hijab i only had the encouragement of my husband to wear hijab as when i frist reverted i dident know eney muslim sisters but alhamdulillallah i do now and enjoy the forum encouragement is the way to help others pushing sisters in to things that they are not ready for is not the way to help the deen was not made hard for us allah (swt) made it easy becouse as human beings we some times find it hard to stick to thing my husband always told me dont rush in to things go slowly becouse allah (swt) wants muslims to stay muslims not rush in to things then afther a week say this is to hard then give up which does happen gental encouragement is best show sisters who do not wear hijab books about hijabs revert stories hadeeth tell her how you started wearing yours 
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