salaam aleykum wr wb,my sisters in islam
firts i thought i shoul not write about this topic then i thought why not because i have a efew friends and spoke to them about this subject a few who did not wear hijaab are now wearung through encouragement to wear it alhamdulilah :thankyou:
Many muslim sisters weather they are from muslim housholds or not and are reverts.
These days are finding it very hard to wear hijaab and islamic dress
(eg,loose clothing and scarf)
Sometimes through the lack of encouragement , lack of understanding and pride,and media and pop stars play a role also so friends who are not muslims(who can dress as they please)and even in some households where where islamic rules and not taught and are laspe and libreal often you find even in some religious familys don't advice thier daughters and sisters to wear hijaab and cover untill much older .
Then the girl has great difficulty in ajusting to wearing the dress code they are sometimes forced to wear and without encouragement.
Even some sisters whom are reverts or have been muslims all thier lives give excuses and answer " sister the hijaab is of the heart we don't have to wear hijaab " or we feel suffacated by it......
but then some sister will explain to them that it is a command and law of Allah .s.w..t and a requirement for us also.
We often get sway by western media and no muslim who say liberation!!!! liberation!!!
You don't have to wear it -it's old fashioned, its an old law, laws are ment to be broken.
Even you see muslim sisters these days wearing very tight clothing (to reveal thier figures)showing thier legs (this is also not allowed)but loose fitting garments.
let me ask you a question?
IF our prophet came and knocked on your door and you answered it,would you feel pride or embarrassed in front of him do you really think he would enter our households??? why we are dressed like that.
my dear sisters in islam this is the dunya its only a tempory life for us our strive insha'allah is jannah hopefully insha'allah
Do we as muslim sisters of this family of islam want to flaunt the laws of our beloved Allah s.w.t. and prophet s.w.s
we need to remind each other with love and respect and encouragement especially those sisters whom are having a hard time with this humberley explaining to them that this is a request from our beloved Allah and also a law he gave us to forfil.
And do we really want to disobey our beloved Allah.s.w.t we should forfil this small but important law with hope in doing so Allah is happy with us
I pray and hope that Allah guides all my sisters in islam to stand firm and ignore the whispers of shataain to wear thier hijaab and islamic dress with pride for Allah.s.w.t and may Allah guide us to jannah ameen
(i am happy wearing mine alhamdulilah)
I refuse to wear a hijab... in fact YOU'RE NOT GOING TO MAKE ME! :blind:
Assalaam o Alaikum
Dear sister:Hijaab is Fudh in Islam.Doing or not doing a thing is absolutely another matter.For example Salaat is Furdh but many Muslims do not perform.But it does not mean it has not remained Furdh anymore.
Even if someone changes his/her religion who can force him/her??
None or us is responsible for the deeds of others.
Best of luck
Originally Posted by England
I refuse to wear a hijab... in fact YOU'RE NOT GOING TO MAKE ME!
Assalaam o Alaikum
Dear sister:Hijaab is Fudh in Islam.Doing or not doing a thing is absolutely another matter.For example Salaat is Furdh but many Muslims do not perform.But it does not mean it has not remained Furdh anymore.
Even if someone changes his/her religion who can force him/her??
None or us is responsible for the deeds of others.
Best of luck
Brother England is a...brother...and I think he is not a Muslim...so the hijab is not fardh on him at all. :X
Love my hijab, I refuse to take it off, and NOBODY IS GOING TO MAKE ME! InshaAllah!
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Personally, I don't like to assess other people's levels of faith, because doing so properly would require information that I don't have access to. If I were to presume someone else's level of faith, I'd do so on more reliable indicators of character, such as patience, kindness, generosity, etc.
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Sister, when is it agood time to introduce your daughter to hijab? for one im expecting a child and it may be a girl.Some people say eleven,some say fourteen im not sure. Then im a man teaching my wife about islam how do I teach her about the hijab and the womans aspect of islam?
What I can tell you is that it has to be a decision she (wife or daughter) in order for it to stick. I have friends (Westerners) who took an Islamic class in college, these people drank and did all you can imagine, and I saw them with me through high school years etc.. But all it took was a college class! Isn't that amazing?? It's the fastest growing religion.
Also note, I have known people to take the hijab off after wearing it at a young age, because they "did their time".
You don't want that to happen. I love being Muslim, and I more than many hijabi friends will not certain things simply b/cI understand (or try to) Islam.
When I was young, I was told stories in a formal and informal setting. In grade 5 or so, I took a religion class, and my teacher basically was a young "hip" guy, no beard no long clothing, wasn't old, he looked like someone I saw on the street everyday.
He asked us to read the holy Qu'raan and then he would explain it in a funny manner. He would tell us stories associated with a particular verse, and it was exciting casue it was like talking to someone who CHOSE to teach Islam.
He showed us that we didn't have to follow a certain look or whatever the media puts out.
INFORMALLY, my mom and dad were big in making available to me material. I like magazines (popular kids stuff you know) and my dad brother and I had a special thing every friday, we went and bought this magazine and fought over it. It was an arabic kid friendly thing, but it had some sort of content on positive issues. I loved it. SO DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT WITH YOUR DAUGHTER, choose an Islamic magazine and make it your speical thing, she'll feel comfortable with asking you stuff and with the religion.
NOt to go on and on, my fun from the calss room was supported by SMALL easily readable books that would tell ONE story in depth from the Qur'aan. Give it to her one dose at a time. I had to digest it slowly BY MYSELF.
MOST IMPORTANTLY, and I mean this in the best way, don't freak out if she doubts it sometime and at your desicretion, let HER figure out why it's good/bad, logical/not, etc.. It's why I don't do x, y and z, b/c I know the reasons AND if I don't I have the thought to figure them out.
For any woman trying to be introduced into womanly duties in Islam, it's not the easiest thing, but nothing worth doing is ever easy. Don't come across over bearing, or really eager to shuve it down their throat, thy'll just resist.
Take one thing at a time, bring it up casually, whenever they're interested in something integrate an Islamic principle
OH AND SHOW THEM THE MOVIE "Al-Rissaleh" starring anthony Quin great medium.
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Sister, when is it agood time to introduce your daughter to hijab? for one im expecting a child and it may be a girl.Some people say eleven,some say fourteen im not sure. Then im a man teaching my wife about islam how do I teach her about the hijab and the womans aspect of islam?
BROTHER
THE BEST TIME FOR A GOUNG GIRL TO START WEARING THE HIJAB IS AT THE AGE OF 1 OR 2. I AM TELLING U THIS BECAUSE I HAVE LITTEL COUSENS WHO ARE 5 3 AND 1 YEARS OLD WHO ARE ALL GIRLS AND THE 5 YEAR OLD JUST STATED PRE-SCHOOL THEN THAT LITTEL GIRL IS GOING TO LOOK AT OTHER GIRLS WHO DONT WEAR THE HIJAB AND FEELS DIFFERENT WALLAHAY HER MOTHER FORCES HER TO WEAR IT. AND IF U DONT START INFORCEING IT AT AN EARLY AGE THEN IT WOULD BE A BATTEL TO GET HER TO WEAR THE HIJAB LATTER ON IN LIFE.
I THINK THE AGE OF 11 OR 14 IS WAY TO LATE TO GET A GOUNG GIRL TO START WEARING THE HIJAB BECAUSE BY THAT TIME THEY ALREADY HAVE MOST OF THIER MIND MAD UP ABOUT WHAT TO WEAR AND WHAT NOT TO WEAR. YOU ARE TRYING TO RAISE YOUR FAMLIY AS A MUSLIM HOUSE HOLD AND TEACHING YOUR CHILDREN ABOUT ISLAM STARTS AT A VERY EARLY AGE . NOT OH YOU ARE OFFICIALY MUSLIM AT AGE 14 OF 15 OR SOME PEOPLE THINK IT IS TO EARLY TO INTRADOS ALL THAT TO A CHILD BECAUSE THIER YOUNG BUT CHILDREN LEARN MORE WHEN THERE YOUNG AND ARE MORE EXCEPTING AT THAT AGE MORE THEN THEY ARE WHEN THEY GROW UP.
AS TO YOUR WIFE TEACHING HER THE MEANING OF THE HIJAB IN THE QURAN THAT IT IS NOT A PIECE OF SCARF BUT A PIECE OF THE QURAN SHE IS WEARING THAT WAS BROUGHT DOWN BY ALLAH WICH IS ONE OF THE MOST BEUTIFUL SYMBOLS AND MODESTY TO SHOW YOUR LOVE FOR ALLAH THAT IS GOING TO BRING YOU MUCH MORE CLOSER TO ALLAH IN THE DAY OF JUGEDMENT. BROTHER I WISH THE BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. AND FEEL FREE TO ASK ANY OTHER QUESTION THAT U MAY HAVE. I AM NOT A SCHOLAR I GREW UP AS A MUSLIM ALL MY LIFE I AM FROM A STRONG MUSLIM BACK GROUND AND I WOULD BE HAPPY TO ANSWER ALL YOUR QUESTION. I PRAY THAT ALLAH GIDES YOUR FAMILY.
[S]Even if someone changes his/her religion who can force him/her??
None or us is responsible for the deeds of others.
Best of luck[/QUOTE][/S
yes it is our resposablity to direct them in the right way and my brother if the prophet s.w.s had not done that where would islam be today weak????????????????? think may Allah guide u ameen
[MOUSE]brother salaam i think if u start easy with young children by giving them hats to wear also putting bandana on them the will get used to it and go easy in to hijaab which personally i think should be introduced to them at around 7 years old because u know girls grow up so quick these days when u look around girls having babies and drinking i am talking even about some muslim sisters who like to dress futile like non believer we are asked not to look like them to dress like them so with the world so mixed up today best to start early around 7-9 years old [/MOUSE]
what you are talking about is called "hijab al sha3r" or " hijab al raas"
or "khimar al raas" but hijab means barrier and khamr means covers , same for khimar ( any clothes because it covers the skin ) as for khamr ( anything that covers the mind ) .
no other hijab
where did god mention in the quran either women's hair or head ?
[42:51] Wama kana libasharin anyukallimahu Allahu illa wahyan aw min wara-ihijabin aw yursila rasoolan fayoohiya bi-ithnihima yashao innahu AAaliyyun hakeemun
وما كان لبشر ان يكلمه الله الا وحيا او من وراء حجاب او يرسل رسولا فيوحي باذنه ما يشاء انه علي حكيم
It is not fitting for a man that Allah should speak to him except by inspiration, or from behind a veil, or by the sending of a messenger to reveal, with Allah's permission, what Allah wills: for He is Most High, Most Wise.
did the prophet wear a hijab while he was inspired ?
or is it just a barrier , the hijab we know today was given that name after the quran and not the other way round.
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