need help urgently

format_quote Originally Posted by islamiii

عورتوں پر حجاب فرض ہے یا واجب؟

کیا انھیں چہرہ چھپانا ضروری ہے؟


(فتوى: 333/ل = 333/ل)



(۱) عورتوں پر غیرمحرم سے پردہ کرنا فرض ہے، بے شمار آیات و احادیث سے اس کی فرضیت ثابت ہے، قرآن شریف میں ہے: وَاِذَا سَاَلْتُمُوْهُنَّ مَتَاعًا فَسْئَلُوْهُنَّ مِنْ وَّرَآءِ حِجَاب الآیة، وَیُدْنِیْنَ عَلَیْهِنَّ مِنْ جَلاَبِیْبِھِنَّ، وَقَرْنَ فِیْ بُیُوْتِکُنَّ اور حدیث شریف میں هے: لیس للنساء نصیب في الخروج إلا مضطرّة یعني لیس لھا خادم إلا في العیدین الأضحی والفطر ولیس لھن نصیب في الطریق إلا الحواشي، رواہ الطبراني عن ابن عمر رضي اللہ عنہ (کنز العمال: ۸/۲۶۳)



(۲) جی ہاں! انھیں غیرمحرم سے چہرہ چھپانا بھی ضروری ہے: وتمنع المرأة الشابة من کشف الوجہ بین الرجال لا لأنہ عورة بل لخوف الفتنة (الدر المختار مع الشامي: ۲/۷۹، ط زکریا دیوبند)

واللہ تعالیٰ اعلم

دارالافتاء، دارالعلوم دیوبند

JazakAllah khayr but i think the sister has all of the above info and has no problem understanding it Alhamdulillah. I notice its a deoband veiw? Khayr, iss sey koi farq nahi parta Because the main thing is for her to pursuade and convince her father. Wassalam

format_quote Originally Posted by Abida

Thank you. Its true that I have a fear of standing in front of Allah swt. What willl I tell Him when Ill be asked why? Its all the time in my head.. Oh.. I just hope in His mercy..

Allah is the most Merciful, and He's the one who knows what's in our hearts and what our intentions were. He knows what happend, what's happening and what will happen. Putting your trust in Allah first and foremost will help you the most. You have to trust that Allah will give you a way and a chance to practice Islam.

Sis, I kinda know what you're going through, although both of my parents accepted and love the hijab, elhamdulillah!! But when I went to Kosovo and met relatives - I instantly could see some of their negative views on hijab, and I got truly hurt, for what did I not hear them say about me, subhanAllah, May Allah forgive them and guide them inshaAllah.


Sister, how old are you? I do agree with those above, you have to stay strong and still try to talk to your father about it, inshaAllah. But if the situation is that bad, that he would do something to you or your sisters or other relatives, I suggest you to not go over excited with this. After all the hijab should make you feel safe...

But don't loose hope. I asked earlier how old you were, because to be honest, if there is no way to get him into other thoughts, I'd suggest move from home to an own place or to a good Muslim relative...

But right now, I can only recommend pray, pray and pray! You're in my duas sistah!

format_quote Originally Posted by Abida

islamii, i cant read any of the things uve written to me. i think i dont have arabic letters or what...

its because it wasnt arabic, it was urdu

sister
MashAllah how wonderful that you are trying to wear Hijab
I am very sorry your father is giving you such a hard time with this topic. But you know you are on the right path and you know it is the right thing to do.
I don't want to create any trouble in your family but if you ask me just do it. I am revert and of course my parents did not like the fact that I am wearing Hijab as well. But I couldn't just not wear it because they didn't like they idea. To me it was important to obey to Allah and follow what he has commanded us to do. I also had many discussions with my parents and at times they were very upset. But alhamdullilah they got over it and so will your father inshAllah.
I will make Du3 for you so Allah will make it easy for you and inshAllah your father will become a good Muslim as well.

format_quote Originally Posted by Al-Zaara

Allah is the most Merciful, and He's the one who knows what's in our hearts and what our intentions were. He knows what happend, what's happening and what will happen. Putting your trust in Allah first and foremost will help you the most. You have to trust that Allah will give you a way and a chance to practice Islam.

Sis, I kinda know what you're going through, although both of my parents accepted and love the hijab, elhamdulillah!! But when I went to Kosovo and met relatives - I instantly could see some of their negative views on hijab, and I got truly hurt, for what did I not hear them say about me, subhanAllah, May Allah forgive them and guide them inshaAllah.


Sister, how old are you? I do agree with those above, you have to stay strong and still try to talk to your father about it, inshaAllah. But if the situation is that bad, that he would do something to you or your sisters or other relatives, I suggest you to not go over excited with this. After all the hijab should make you feel safe...

But don't loose hope. I asked earlier how old you were, because to be honest, if there is no way to get him into other thoughts, I'd suggest move from home to an own place or to a good Muslim relative...

But right now, I can only recommend pray, pray and pray! You're in my duas sistah!

is he so merciful that he will overlook having a boyfriend as long as she moves out and wears niqaab or whatever passes for hijab in her country?

interesting to say the least!

format_quote Originally Posted by NoName55

is he so merciful that he will overlook having a boyfriend as long as she moves out and wears niqaab or whatever passes for hijab in her country?

interesting to say the least!

Haha, no I didn't say that. Good you pointed that out, I overlooked her saying she has a boyfriend!!! My bad really.

Sister, having a boyfriend is haram. And some duas aren't answered when the person is still doing the harams... So I seriously suggest you get married/engaged or take your distance from him... There is no other way sis... I know it might be hard, but the punishment one will get for such sins are even harder. But NoName55, brother, Allah is merciful over lots of things, elhamdulillah, and if one has repented sincerly I am positive Allah will not overlook it...