..the thread I know a lot of you have been waiting for.
I almost didn't do it, but I decided to go ahead and take the plunge anyway. So I took my shahada today.
I feel like a big weight has been lifted from my heart. The old order of my life has passed away, and the old life is gone. This is the dawn of a new day for me.
I know it won't all be easy from here, but I feel at peace right now. For the first time in a long time, I feel good about myself.
Just a Girl is only 13 years old, if I'm not mistaken. Just a Guy is 22 years older than her! Not quite sure if they are interested in each other. lol.
salam
This site is for people to find out the truth and glad to have non Muslim members share their conversion & IB is part of it. alhamdollelah
P.S.
But it is not very dangerous for an OLD GUY to marry a MUCH younger girl, IF THE girl accepts????
Lol Just kidding around brother
But I do hope you will find a right Muslim woman for you, I am sure it will be alot easier to practise Islam if you have a supporting wife, inshallah. I will make Duaa
The HIGHEST accomplishment I can achieve in this worldly life is to be a TRUE MUSLIM. (me)
salam
This site is for people to find out the truth and glad to have non Muslim members share their conversion & IB is part of it. alhamdollelah
P.S.
But it is not very dangerous for an OLD GUY to marry a MUCH younger girl, IF THE girl accepts????
Lol Just kidding around brother
But I do hope you will find a right Muslim woman for you, I am sure it will be alot easier to practise Islam if you have a supporting wife, inshallah. I will make Duaa
Well my life right now is a mess and I can't ask a sister to share that burden with me at this time. Perhaps one day, but right now I must walk alone, inshallah.
Well my life right now is a mess and I can't ask a sister to share that burden with me at this time. Perhaps one day, but right now I must walk alone, inshallah.
Salam
Its not a mess, pls dont say that (you have to pls delete this idea in your mind)
Being Muslim is the most stable and peaceful state of our life
Besides, we all have fate, we dont know that yet so we can only offer a sincere duaa for you, inshallah you will have a wife with a beautiful heart (like me ), intelligent (like ms flame) & so on (i must stop before anyone accuse me of conspiracy)
For me I would risk anything just to be a real Muslim.
The HIGHEST accomplishment I can achieve in this worldly life is to be a TRUE MUSLIM. (me)
Don't get me wrong; I am glad I decided to take shahada. I feel at peace in my heart about that.
Well what I mean is this: at some point, I will have to tell my parents about my conversion/reversion to Islam. Being Christians, they're not going to like that. If I was to find a Muslim wife, she would have to deal with their wrath as well as me, and my parents will likely blame her when it would not be her fault. That's not fair to a sister. I can't ask anyone else to deal with this for me. I must do this alone.
After all is said and done, then maybe I can find a Muslim wife. But right now, no. I just can't.
Don't get me wrong; I am glad I decided to take shahada. I feel at peace in my heart about that.
Well what I mean is this: at some point, I will have to tell my parents about my conversion/reversion to Islam. Being Christians, they're not going to like that. If I was to find a Muslim wife, she would have to deal with their wrath as well as me, and my parents will likely blame her when it would not be her fault. That's not fair to a sister. I can't ask anyone else to deal with this for me. I must do this alone.
After all is said and done, then maybe I can find a Muslim wife. But right now, no. I just can't.
salam again
I understand from the beginning, what I am saying is that we have fate and inshallah good one for you, Allah will give what we deserve
pl take one step at the time or just leave it till they discover, relax and enjoy the moment of being Muslim, its all between you and Allah & Allah knows your intention, in time inshallah everything will be okay
a real Muslim wife, yes in time inshallah
The HIGHEST accomplishment I can achieve in this worldly life is to be a TRUE MUSLIM. (me)
salam again
I understand from the beginning, what I am saying is that we have fate and inshallah good one for you, Allah will give what we deserve
pl take one step at the time or just leave it till they discover, relax and enjoy the moment of being Muslim, its all between you and Allah & Allah knows your intention, in time inshallah everything will be okay
a real Muslim wife, yes in time inshallah
Well I have decided that I will show my parents through my actions that I am becoming a better man. Then maybe they will be more open and respect my decision. I pray every day that Allah will open their hearts and minds.
Well I have decided that I will show my parents through my actions that I am becoming a better man. Then maybe they will be more open and respect my decision. I pray every day that Allah will open their hearts and minds.
Ameen, you are still lucky, people who converted before does not get any assistance from anyone
Pls remember that this process will test your faith
and once you pass all these, you can pass everything inshallah
your family is all that matters, the rest (friends, colleagues etc who does not respect) has nothing to do with your chosen life.
The HIGHEST accomplishment I can achieve in this worldly life is to be a TRUE MUSLIM. (me)
Yeah, I know it won't be easy. Even today, I was tested. Bad thoughts kept coming into my head all day and I had to keep asking Allah to forgive me for them.
Anyway, I'm going to bed now. Have to get up for fajr in a couple of hours.
Yeah, I know it won't be easy. Even today, I was tested. Bad thoughts kept coming into my head all day and I had to keep asking Allah to forgive me for them.
Anyway, I'm going to bed now. Have to get up for fajr in a couple of hours.
Be patient inshallah, at the end the Satan/His followers will not find away to you, and they will consider you as a 100% hopeless case and leave you for ever inshallah.
This case shows one of the benefits of the marriage, because when you have another Muslim soul with you, you will strength each other in your weaknesses.
Inshallah Allah will strength your faith and keep the bad ideas away of you.
Yeah, I know it won't be easy. Even today, I was tested. Bad thoughts kept coming into my head all day and I had to keep asking Allah to forgive me for them. Anyway, I'm going to bed now. Have to get up for fajr in a couple of hours.
Salaam Brother
ALhamdulilah that now you are Muslim, i hope you have now a much more of a peaceful life,
About the problem you are facing this is something very normal just keep doing the good things and stick to your faith insha Allah everything will be better.
Salaam
I have to admit that I am torn on whether or not to find a wife right now. I know it would help to have support from someone close to me, but you know my situation, and I cannot ask a sister to bear that burden.
I didn't quite make it up for fajr. I was too tired I guess. But I prayed as soon as I woke up and now I'm on the way to the new Muslim class at the masjid.
Be patient inshallah, at the end the Satan/His followers will not find away to you, and they will consider you as a 100% hopeless case and leave you for ever inshallah.
This case shows one of the benefits of the marriage, because when you have another Muslim soul with you, you will strength each other in your weaknesses.
Inshallah Allah will strength your faith and keep the bad ideas away of you.
ya salam
nice advise
The HIGHEST accomplishment I can achieve in this worldly life is to be a TRUE MUSLIM. (me)
Today I have to admit that all this talk about wives has me feeling a little lonely. I keep thinking about some of the women from my past and how if things went differently, I could be with them now. Of course, that would present an extra problem now since they most likely would not be Muslim and I'd have to leave them. So I guess it is good that things turned out like they did.
Still though, I'm feeling kind of down today. Tired and lonely...
Bad thoughts kept coming into my head all day and I had to keep asking Allah to forgive me for them.
Sorry bro, I am a bit late but I thought this hadith might be beneficial.
Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "Allah has accepted my invocation to forgive what whispers in the hearts of my followers, unless they put it to action or utter it."(Sahih Bukhari: Book #46, Hadith #705)
It seems that you are being tested. I know it's not easy but keep in mind that maybe a time will come when you will remember this time thank god that this time passed. I just wanted to say you try to be patient cause Allah is with the patient.
Except for those who are patient and do righteous deeds; those will have forgiveness and great reward. (Hud 11:11)
Remember there are many people who love you and need you. See these videos if you have time. I hope they will somewhat beneficial to you .
Today I have to admit that all this talk about wives has me feeling a little lonely. I keep thinking about some of the women from my past and how if things went differently, I could be with them now. Of course, that would present an extra problem now since they most likely would not be Muslim and I'd have to leave them. So I guess it is good that things turned out like they did.
Still though, I'm feeling kind of down today. Tired and lonely...
Heyyy!!! Is that brother Just a Guy feeling down and lonely? Awwww!!!!
Never fear! Flaminator is here! lol.
There's something you can do to boost up your spirits right at this very moment. Guess what it is??????????
Nah! I won't tell you. I'll wait until you guess.
It is pointless to watch other people's houses crumbling when our own house is in need of repair and attention.
Today I have to admit that all this talk about wives has me feeling a little lonely. I keep thinking about some of the women from my past and how if things went differently, I could be with them now. Of course, that would present an extra problem now since they most likely would not be Muslim and I'd have to leave them. So I guess it is good that things turned out like they did.
Still though, I'm feeling kind of down today. Tired and lonely...
I'll make it. This too shall pass, inshallah.
Hey bro, just forget about the past, that's what I've decided to do, what ever happened, happened for the best. You never know what Allah is guiding you to, but I think once this whole business with your parents is out the way you'll easily find a wife inshaAllah.
no need to feel lonely, go and do something you enjoy doing and brings you pleasure, for me it's playing sports, find a hobby that will bring you pleasure then you won't feel lonely I think. Get a pet also if you don't have one.
“Who said that guidance requires there to be someone accompanying you"
Hey bro, just forget about the past, that's what I've decided to do, what ever happened, happened for the best. You never know what Allah is guiding you to, but I think once this whole business with your parents is out the way you'll easily find a wife inshaAllah.
no need to feel lonely, go and do something you enjoy doing and brings you pleasure, for me it's playing sports, find a hobby that will bring you pleasure then you won't feel lonely I think. Get a pet also if you don't have one.
Yeah man, you're right on that. I don't know how long it will take to deal with my parents, but I pray every day that Allah's will be done, that He will guide my thoughts and my deeds and that He will open the hearts and minds of my family so that they may see that I am a better man.
I'm going home to take a nap and when I wake up, I plan on doing some praying and reading some more books about Islam.
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