SubhanAllah, is there somebody who wants to act like that?
A sister is telling us..
He went and left me. He left me while i wiped the tears away.
Ya Muslimeen this is a truth which happened to me and i want to tell you about it.
I married a young man. Nobody on this earth existed for me who was like him. After two months he said to me that he loves another women, and that he loves her more than he loves me.
And that she is very beautiful and enjoyable.
I thought about it and contemplated for a while and then i asked him: ''Do you love her more than you love me?" he answered: "yes, i love her more than i love you.'' I said: "oh my darling go and marry this girl. Because your happiness is my happiness and your gladness is my gladness.'' He answered that he wouldn't have enough money to marry this girl. I said to him: "Take my gold which i hold, go sell it and then marry the girl which you love.'' He declained it and said that i would maybe need it one day..But my dedication and inveteracy got him to accepted my gift.
He took it and sold it and then he departed to look for his beloved.
He left me, though it didn't pass a lot, after we get married.
It passed one month.. two months.. one year.. two years.. three years.. but my beloved husband didn't visit me. He told me through the phone that he would be bounded with work and that he couldn't visit me. I wipped my tears, day and night, by tasting the bitterness of the breakup. Do you think that i would be resentful at him??? No.... never... never. He is my beloved.. I stand behind him and trust in him because he is truthworthy and faithful.
I'm missing it to talk with him. My ear rejoices then i hear his nice words. His sweet voice appeases my ear and my body. Sometimes it passes one month and he doesn't call me. Oh how cold-hearted and unfeeling he is! Oh how cold-hearted and unsensible you are. How do you brave is without talking with me? I can't brave it longer, but so are the men. Always stronger. They brave more and are less worthy. When he's calling me, i'm feeling like holding the whole world in my hands. I hided my tears and my atremble voice to show him that i'm not sad. I'm talking and the tears creep over my cheeks. My voice is affected by the traces of the sorrow. I hide my sorrow to myself. I've closed the groaning and suffering inside the four walls in my heart but the hearts grieves caused by the suffering. I've shown myself strong so that i don't sadden my husband.
What a man he is, who leaves his newly wed women to look for another one? What a women she is, who sells her gold to wed her own husband? Im amazed... Im astonished at you both..
On a dark and sad day, nor a happy day.. the phone rings.
Heyya is in hurry to pick up the phone. A wide voice: "I want to talk to sister Heyya." ''yes, I am Heyya.'' He said: '' I'm a brother from Chechnya.. be patient and hope of Allah's reward... Because your husband died as a shaheed after a hard war with the Russians in Chechnya today........
...be patient and hope of Allah's reward.''
I hold off myself and say: ''alhamdulillah.''
I come off the phone and get into an hysterical bearing. Suffering, pain, happiness..all emotions come at the same time. But my mother is sad. ''Heyya, Heyya, what's up, who was on the phone?'' I couldn't talk to her. I cried and laughed.. she embraced me by saying: ''Heyya, tell me what has happended, please.'' I tell her and went into my room. Along the way i said to my mother: ''oh my mother, who wants to congratulate me is welcome.. and who wants to console me isn't allowed to come into my room.'' Allahu Akbar, those who came where a few, which u could count on your fingers. Subhanallah.
O my husband finally you has found your beloved one. O my husband you are the groom now and you will marry with 72 Hoor el Ayn. All of them are more beautiful than Heyya and more joyable than Heyya. Oh my husband i wish i could share the bearing with this beautiful and joyable Hooris.
Have u forgetten Heyya? never... i don't think that you had forget her. I've never forget you you will stay forever in my heart. Three years i've tasted the bitterness of our breakup and haven't beautified my eyes while i was regarding but i hope for myself, I hope for myself that i will meet you in Jannatul Firdaws. My beloved you are a hero and a shaheed. You have left your most beautiful house to live in the mountains and caves of Chechnya under the falling bombs and grenades. You have left a young women to sleep in the snow and the hills. I remember as you said to me: ''Heyya, i can't sleep calmly, the situation of our sisters in Chechnya has degraded because of this situation my heart grieves and the tears flow from my eyes.''
O my husband, you were a man with a good character, the destiny of the ummah annoys you and you troubled over the muslimeen. I congratulate you for your Jannah bi idnillah. I congratulate you for you companionship with Hamza.. Ja'far... Abu Bakr.. Mus'ab.. radia allahu 'anhuma wal ardda. I congratulate you for your attendance of our beloved prophet: Muhammed, salla allahu 'alayhi wa sallam. I wish you a unresisted way...
jazakAllah khair for sharing reminds me of the tabieen who left his newly wed wife to go for jihaad also and came back to see that she had spent all the wealth he had left in raising her son to be a great alim of islam.
Allahu Akbar
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My tears testify that i have a heart
yet i feel me and shaytan never part
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As I understand it, the "72" thing comes from a medieval, false hadith and for those who died with loving spouses the houris are the resurrected spouses. Even Wikipedia gets that right, and Wikipedia never gets anything right. I guess pure emotion is the point, though. Whatever.
Peace be to any prophets I may have mentioned above. Praised and exalted be my Maker, if I have mentioned Him. (Come to think of it praise Him anyway.)
Some of the things in the article are not quite right.
First of all a pious wife is way better then any huur could ever be, and she will actually become their leader more beautiful and gorgues then any of them. Also a pious wife of this world you will be with in this dunyah and the aakhirah. The Huurs are only in the aakhirah.
Morever when our Messenger who we should strive to follow was asked who do you love the most? He did not say the huurs rather he said, 'aisha his wife in this dunyah and the here after.
Some of the things in the article are not quite right.
First of all a pious wife is way better then any huur could ever be, and she will actually become their leader more beautiful and gorgues then any of them. Also a pious wife of this world you will be with in this dunyah and the aakhirah. The Huurs are only in the aakhirah.
Morever when our Messenger who we should strive to follow was asked who do you love the most? He did not say the huurs rather he said, 'aisha his wife in this dunyah and the here after.
Just my two riyals
One of my threads was recently deleted since I didn't post a "source". Do you have one? I'm not attacking your post, just wondering where you learned this.
Some of the things in the article are not quite right.
First of all a pious wife is way better then any huur could ever be, and she will actually become their leader more beautiful and gorgues then any of them. Also a pious wife of this world you will be with in this dunyah and the aakhirah. The Huurs are only in the aakhirah. lol assuming any of us go to heaven why would any women want to be the leader of other women they have to share with their husband? I have never understood that as if being the most beautiful is some sort of appeasement to make us feel better about having to share our husbands in heaven. Polygamy in this life is a different issue. I have heard this hadith before as to the validity I am no ulama but it just makes it seem that heaven is mainly a place for men and that even in heaven the pious women of this world are put on the same level as women who were made in paradise and did nothing to get there and are mainly there to fulfill the desires of men.
salaam
Brother OurIslamc, this is what the scholars on Islam qa say
The situation of the believing woman in Paradise will be better than the situation of the hoor al-‘iyn; she will be higher in status and more beautiful. Several ahaadeeth and reports have been narrated concerning that, but none of them can be proven to be sound. But if a righteous woman from among the people of this world enters Paradise, then she will do so as a reward for her righteous deeds and as a honour from Allaah to her for her religious commitment and righteousness. As for the hoori who is one of the delights of Paradise, she has only been created in Paradise for the sake of someone else, and has been made the reward for the believing man for his righteous deeds. There is a great difference between one who enters Paradise as a reward for her righteous deeds and the one who was created as a reward for one who did righteous deeds. The former is a queen and a princess, and the latter, no matter how beautiful she is, is undoubtedly lower in status than a queen, and she is subject to the command of her believing master for whom Allaah created her as a reward.
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked: Does the description of the hoor al-‘iyn include the women of this world?
He replied:
It seems to me that the women of this world will be better than the hoor al-‘iyn, even in outward appearance, and Allaah knows best.
Fataawa Noor ‘ala al-Darb.
We ask Allaah the Almighty to give us the best of that which He gives to His believing slaves.
And Allaah knows best.
Sister Lisa0 this is not true, Jannah is not only for men. What you have to keep in mind is that in Jannah Allah will remove from any ill feelings in our hearts and no one will be upset in Jannah. The many hooris for the men is a reward just as women will have their reward, our Lord is just and since He created us He knows us better then we know ourselves, we might try and frown upon it and think whats this? Only sex and food in Jannah? But if one reads the Qur'aan and hadith you will quickly realise that this is only a portion of the blessings.
Brother OurIslamc, this is what the scholars on Islam qa say
Sister Lisa0 this is not true, Jannah is not only for men. What you have to keep in mind is that in Jannah Allah will remove from any ill feelings in our hearts and no one will be upset in Jannah. The many hooris for the men is a reward just as women will have their reward, our Lord is just and since He created us He knows us better then we know ourselves, we might try and frown upon it and think whats this? Only sex and food in Jannah? But if one reads the Qur'aan and hadith you will quickly realise that this is only a portion of the blessings.
Do not compare this world with the here after.
I understand that heaven is not meant only for men and I firmly believe that Allah is just and that all muslimeen who enter heaven will recieve their due rewards. However the problem was with that specific quote you wrote and I wont attribute it to you because I have read it in other places that the wife will be the leader of the hoors and be the most beautiful as if the main concern with women is being more beautiful compared with the 72 other houris it's a very simplistic way to look at women really although beauty is important and women care more about beauty then men it's not the most important thing.
your husband will have 72 houris but don't worry you will be the most beautiful of these, give women some credit subhanAllah I can't speak for all women but I find it a very strange thing to say.
salam
Some of the things in the article are not quite right.
First of all a pious wife is way better then any huur could ever be, and she will actually become their leader more beautiful and gorgues then any of them. Also a pious wife of this world you will be with in this dunyah and the aakhirah. The Huurs are only in the aakhirah.
Morever when our Messenger who we should strive to follow was asked who do you love the most? He did not say the huurs rather he said, 'aisha his wife in this dunyah and the here after.
Just my two riyals
i am not in disagreement with what you said
and its very possible that everything you have said was well known by the brother who attained martyrdome and this is shown by his calling his wife whenever the opportunity arrised.
And why he said what he said is unknown to us but if Allah truelly gave such a brother martyrdome then he must have done something right.
Assalamu Alaikum
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My tears testify that i have a heart
yet i feel me and shaytan never part
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Got this from another forum, i really appreciated it, hope you also shall appreciate it.
'I wed my husband to 72 Hooris''
the story of a sister..
is this story true? i dont have a problem with men (or women) who desire martyrdom, however desiring martyrdom carries etiquette and adaab so telling your wife that you love another woman and even affirming this after she asks you, is seriously not right (not unless she wouldn't have a problem with it :$). i also find it strange that her gheerah wasn't stirred as letting your husband marry is something, but not knowing who she is, and completely trusting him "blindly" is something else. i dont mean to back-bite or judge or anything, and im not saying he or she is bad in character, but that is a little odd...i would have thought her sense of gheerah would have driven her to inquire/say something...women dont give up their husbands oh so willingly...
Last edited by Ummu Sufyaan; 11-14-2009 at 08:38 AM.
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
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