lol yeh , i do like to tick you off me my YO in all da titles....YO! lol
neways
assalamu alaikum
ok well dis is actually for the sisters.
yeh i got gut. now.
k well, what age do you think is good to marry at, or would you marry at?
and feel free to comment. FOR GIRLS, not boys. kk
K i need dis so plz do dis.
IMO,it depends on the person...twenty-five isn't necessarily better than nineteen...who knows,a nineteen year old might be more mature/ready for marriage than any 25 year old.It's all in the circumstances...anyway,speaking generally,
IMO,it depends on the person...twenty-five isn't necessarily better than nineteen...who knows,a nineteen year old might be more mature/ready for marriage than any 25 year old.It's all in the circumstances...anyway,speaking generally,
I guess 20-21 would be a good age.
K jazakallah khair
format_quote Originally Posted by snakelegs
i don't know if i count, as a non-muslim, but i voted 20+.
of course, it depends on the girl, whether or not they're going to uni, etc.
She can go to uni after marriage tho. if she young and her 'person' is young mayb together
And thanks for answer
format_quote Originally Posted by Afraa
I would say from 21-24 would a good age to marry
Jazakallah khair
Wow you all choose such high ages!
i was actually thinkin 16-ish but woww lol.
stil thinkin 16-ish of course
format_quote Originally Posted by raOnar
IF its for the sisters it goes in the sisters section YO! ok? YO!
and for you...
I knoooo dat ..YO! i dont have access. i kno. sucks dont it. ...yo!
now ppl stop pickin on my "yo"s YO! Or i mess u up YO! coz i aint stopiin dis talk dis title type yo! i cn speak da ghettoist in da forum yo! so try and try and mess wit me and u gna go down...like a yo yo! I will be maiggin yo talk like meh if u dont shut yo mouth...YO! peace yo!
At 20+ its the best because your way of thinking its settled down. I read an article on the issue which says at 20+ you are mature enough to know what you like. If you will marry at this age, the marriage could last because you know exactly how to choose the husband. For instance, in your 18, you will consider the look its very important and you will go to have an handsome and ghetto husband. At 20+ yoiu will realise his brain counts, so the chance to divorce for him are really high.
Under 13- its not good because your body its not prepaired- everyone should enjoy childhood at this age.
Above 35+ appear the complications, especially at the baby health. Doctors says, the women should avoid to have baby after this age.
For me? Duno. Maybe around 25. And when I'm 25, I'll push it further. Seriously tho, whenever I become mature and can handle responsibilities and no longer feel the way I do towards men and marriage in general. Hehehh...
For others. Same...whenever they're mature and responsible and find somebody compatible. There's no age...some can handle it younger and others can't. And some can handle goin to uni and marriage at the same time. It's all dependant on the individual's capabilities. You gotta know yourself before you get married so you know what you're gettin into.
"...You are my Walî in this world and in the Hereafter. Cause me to die as a Muslim, and join me with the righteous." [Surah Yusuf 101]
She can go to uni after marriage tho. if she young and her 'person' is young mayb together
And thanks for answer
Jazakallah khair
YO of course she can, but i don't think that's a great idea. i think 20+.
16 way is too young - at least in many cultures, certainly in the west.
what is the hurry? after she's 20+ she'll be more mature and can make a better choice. better she get her education first. then, if it turns out that she marries a no-good jerk, or he dies or becomes disabled, she will have a career to fall back on so she can provide for herself and her kids. always, the more options you have, the better - and education gives you those options.
enough of my opinionated opinion YO!
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When I'm about 30, that would probably be perfect. Or maybe even at the age of 25, but not below it.
I'm inshaAllah going to university and I want to be well concentrated in my studies and inshaAllah I may even work at the same time and so on.. There's no room for a man.
.. Allahu Aleem!
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