iam jus wondering is it haram instant chating wid a guy 4 any reason? and i also hav a friend and she chat wid a guy she intends to marry later on in the future and is dat haram? when she asked me i jus told her idk really..
ps.i jus need educated advice.
I dont know but I think its HALAL BECAUSE
we are both male and females talking on a public forum so its the same concept on IM BUT it depends on what your chatting about if its formal that MITE be ok but im not sure
but your freind is looking to marry this person? Has she met him ?
I'd just like to quote the following from a brother, talking about free-mixing on forums:
Refrain from engaging in a personal, off topic and irrelevant conversation. Let it be clarified that engaging in a personal, off topic and irrelevant conversation with the opposite gender is free mixing, engaging in a personal, off topic and irrelevant conversation with the same gender is leaving the floor open to free mixing and should be avoided.
Abdullah ibn Umar (ra) narrated that the Prophet (saw) said: "Indeed haya (modesty) and Iman are Companions. When one of them is lifted, the other leaves as well." (Baihaqi)
Read it Insha'Allah and ask yourself, on MSN its two people chatting...alone...shaytaan is the third...on forums at least we know we have mods looking out for us and members reading every word we say...Now ask yourself...which one seems more dangerous? If the brother warned against free-mixing on forums, what do you think the response for IM'ing would be? I'm not saying the quote is from a scholar...and that I'm giving you a definite answer, just something to think about Insha'Allah.
One must therefore never look at engagement as a license to engage in endless chats on the phone or exchange emails because in the Shari`ah they are still considered strangers. Failure to take this into account amounts to violating the principles of the Shari`ah."
And that's for ENGAGED PEOPLE. So it's haram for them, it will definitely be haram for non mahrams.
What would a man understand better than a woman? It's no excuse in the shari'a.
Allah said:
And come not near unto adultery. Lo! it is an abomination and an evil way[17:32]
Allah didnt say: Do not commit it, he said do not come NEAR it, Dont do that which might lead to zinah. And the Prophet sallaLlahu aleyhi wasallam has informed us of various ways of commiting zinah, the worst being the one when the private parts commits it.
Zinah with hands - touching that which is forbidden or doing that which is forbidden with the hand
Zinah with legs - going to a place that is forbidden
and so on.
And we all probably have heard about the hadith of rasulullah salallahu aleyhi wa salalm about when two persons are alon the third is shaytan,
There is also a narration where the prophet orders us not to talk women even if its to learn them quran. (that is when alone)
So tell us... is that chat more honorable than the act of teaching others the kalamullah? and yet we are not allowed to be alone or chat with women in that sense? Dear sister, we all need to fear Allah, for surely, what will help us feedunya, if its notAllah teala.
yaa..but i mean i understand..well how bout if dt other gender take u as a sis/bro and ntt do such thing dat is harmful o talk such thing lik dat..and u jus tlk normal whc lead no sin..o prob tlk bout religous stuff..
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well sister thread-starter, I'd advise you not to test that one out.
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