What's taking the brothers so long, I wanna see the results!
they got scared of the sisters:laugh::laugh:
Three simple rules in life:
1) If you do not go after what you want, you will never have it
2) If you don't ask, the answer will always be no.
3) If you do not step forward, you'll always be in the same place
simple question, want a second wife n how long you been married for?
plz dont move to bros section, i dont have access and im sure a lot of other brothers dont eiva !
I'll see and tell you after Ramadan insha Allah .. but promise me! the voters' names are hidden huh?!
Atheists this is you situation now:
the Unbelievers say: "These are nothing but tales of the ancients." (25) Others they keep away from it and themselves they keep away; but they only destroy their own souls and they perceive it not. (26)(Translation of surat Al'anam)
I have been married for over 22 years. I can see some benefits of having more than 1 wife, but I see way more difficulties that would be difficult to manage. I would not want a 2nd wife.
ARE YOU SERIOUS????!!!!!!!
Dear beloved brothers in islam...
I plead with you for the sake of Allah swt, to put in the effort and make your wives happy do it for Allah swt's sake and for pleasing Him, one woman in your life is enough, try your bestto keep her content and happy in your marriage and forget about getting married again NOT A GOOD IDEA!
how would you feel to share your wife with another man???
Andif ny brother here does not mind then i suggest they go and seek help cos they may have serious issues.
I know that at times i may be annoying or mistaken when i say some things or it may unintentionally God forbid offend u & if that is the case then i sincerely apologise from the bottom of my heart & ask Allah swt's & ur forgiveness, so please do Insha'Allah forgive me and correct me.
ARE YOU SERIOUS????!!!!!!!
Dear beloved brothers in islam...
how would you feel to share your wife with another man???
Andif ny brother here does not mind then i suggest they go and seek help cos they may have serious issues.
sister, calm down
whether you may not personally like the idea, it is something permitted for them..
whether you may not personally like the idea, it is something permitted for them..
iam calm $
I know that at times i may be annoying or mistaken when i say some things or it may unintentionally God forbid offend u & if that is the case then i sincerely apologise from the bottom of my heart & ask Allah swt's & ur forgiveness, so please do Insha'Allah forgive me and correct me.
something like, what kind of bodily harm will you inflict on your husband would be informative
well those who are raised culturally will be ignorant of the islam on this and will be totally against it. Believe it or not there are sisters out there who not only don't mind a co-wife but actively help their husband find one for them.
Just yesterday I heard of an iranian sister born and bred in UK looking for a co-wife. She lived like the rest of the culturally minded muslims, enjoying duniya and then Allah guided her. Now she does niqaab, gloves and everything, married a chinese convert and is looking for a co-wife for him.
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ARE YOU SERIOUS????!!!!!!!
Dear beloved brothers in islam...
I plead with you for the sake of Allah swt, to put in the effort and make your wives happy do it for Allah swt's sake and for pleasing Him, one woman in your life is enough, try your bestto keep her content and happy in your marriage and forget about getting married again NOT A GOOD IDEA!
how would you feel to share your wife with another man???
Andif ny brother here does not mind then i suggest they go and seek help cos they may have serious issues.
Who died and made you the leader of Islam? Why don't you go tell that to sisters are who divorced, infertile, handicap, or just normal but like to follow the sunnah and have a co-wife.
Brothers don't need to know "how i wouldd feel if wife had another man" cuz that wife will be in hellfire along with that man. Islam has given men permission to marry more than one wife, not the woman. It is right of men to excise if they wish, women have no say in it. So if any girl here minds then i suggest they go get some help coz they may have serious issues.
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