If you see nothing but BAD in others thats cause deep down YOU got it BAD.
If you can't TRUST nobody thats probably because YOU only want to SEE the WORST.
If you always expect others to say SORRY first n u never ever bother saying it thats because YOU are SELFISH.
If all you DO is DISH IT OUT and wen one word is said about you, u start to FLIP that's cause you THINK that you are BETTER then everyone else.
If everytime you see 2 people talking and the first thing that comes to ur mind is "it's about me" thats Cause YOU talk BADLY bout others and think that others DO the SAME.
If you wear a Niqaab and think those who dont wear it are weak..It's because you are STUCK UP.
If you are a beardo and think all the non-beardos aren't good muslims, You have FAILED to make EXCUSES. Because a good muslim actually bothers making excuses for his/her fellow muslims.
If you are crossing the street and u come across a sister who isn't really covered as well as u are and you withhold your SALAM from her just because you think "why shud I" thats probably because u dont follow the prophet ( saw) way as well as u shud. Cause he was patient and showed kindness to all even the JEWS not to mention a Muslim!
Quote:
"Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great." -Mark Twain
Learn Patience from Asiyah, Loyalty from Khadijah, Sincerity from Aisha and Steadfastness from Fatima.
Sister, Thank you. Many of the quotes are something that I have done before in the past, may Allah Almighty forgive me. Insha'allah we can all learn from this and become better.
Thank you for informing me of this. Jazak'Allah Khairan Sister Yanoorah.
Great thread sis, Jazakillah khair for sharing... May Allah guide us all...
" Its sometimes better people don't get to know you..
Cuz the more they know you, the less they understand & accept you..
Alone is better, what say " - SRK
jazaki allah khair sis for this post, I like them all especially this one
format_quote Originally Posted by Yanoorah
Some thoughts, My surroundings, The things I see.
If you are crossing the street and u come across a sister who isn't really covered as well as u are and you withhold your SALAM from her just because you think "why shud I" thats probably because u dont follow the prophet ( saw) way as well as u shud. Cause he was patient and showed kindness to all even the JEWS not to mention a Muslim![/B] Quote:
"Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great." -Mark Twain[/CENTER]
If you are a beardo and think all the non-beardos aren't good muslims, You have FAILED to make EXCUSES. Because a good muslim actually bothers making excuses for his/her fellow muslims.
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Aslaamu Alikum Sista~!
Very Lovely Mashallah~! Jazakallah for sharin' but Sis this one confuses me shouldn't be doesn't bothers making excuses ??? Just asking ? ...
Aslaamu Alikum Sista~!
Very Lovely Mashallah~! Jazakallah for sharin' but Sis this one confuses me shouldn't be doesn't bothers making excuses ??? Just asking ? ...
Wa'alaykum salam
It means we should always think the best of our brothers and sisters, and rather than thinking bad of them we should make excuses for them....Its a hadeeth also but I cant seem to remem it.
thats the trouble i think everyones good, and trusting and thats when i get hurt or used, its just people always tell me dont trust people too much, i wouldnt wana change but i see where their coming from, be too nice and you get too advantage of in this world
thats the trouble i think everyones good, and trusting and thats when i get hurt or used, its just people always tell me dont trust people too much, i wouldnt wana change but i see where their coming from, be too nice and you get too advantage of in this world
AssalamuAlaykum Warahmatullah
Akhee its true that we shouldnt be too trusting...It has been mentioned in a hadeeth:
Narrated Abu Huraira
The Prophet said, "A believer is not stung twice (by something) out ofone and the same hole."
Which means a believer does not suffer from the same situation more than once for he learns from his mistakes, but that doesnt mean we should see the bad in everybody instead. No! All it means is being careful before opening up to somebody and getting by with wisdom and patience. May Allah (swt) protect you bro. Ameen.
A good post mashaa'Allaah But I think that its from wisdom to 'see' things in people that may not always be from goodness...that way you can save yourself from it. The bottom line though remains... not to judge what you yourself may be judged for or to pass judgments so quickly if at all, on people for what may be there weakness...for we all have them.
...I wonder at the one who extends his right hand
To his beloved at the time of seperation and he hastens therein!
I felt weak and incapable of saying farewell when I saw him
So my heart shook his hand whilst my eye wept....
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You ARE what you SEE in OTHERS.
Some thoughts, My surroundings, The things I see.
But I think that its from wisdom to 'see' things in people that may not always be from goodness...that way you can save yourself from it. The bottom line though remains... not to judge what you yourself may be judged for or to pass judgments so quickly if at all, on people for what may be there weakness...for we all have them.
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