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    Would you get offended...

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    okay would you consider this as offensive;

    if someone you knew was trying to tell you about Islam and said:

    ''If you're a Muslim then you should know that this life is temporary we should be preparing for the afterlife''


    on the topic of time/having nothing to do/being bored...
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    erm.. not at all. If he is helping me improve my akhira then why would I get offended?
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    Nope! Wouldn't be offended, would be pleased if my mate said that! Definitely worth having as a friend!
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    Re: Would you get offended...



    I would if my mood was totally off.
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    no not realy offending , he/she is remindin me so i appreciate that even if there is a lil exaggeration..
    But also the tone , the approach is important , if you say it an nice and friendly waayy
    it feels waaaaaaay more comfortable then someone who is angry and irritated..then ofcourse i would be a LITTLE offended


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    Re: Would you get offended...

    format_quote Originally Posted by DaNgErOuS MiNdS View Post
    okay would you consider this as offensive;

    if someone you knew was trying to tell you about Islam and said:

    ''If you're a Muslim then you should know that this life is temporary we should be preparing for the afterlife''


    on the topic of time/having nothing to do/being bored...
    nope i wouldnt be offended.

    but most would
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    is it the beginning of a philosophical debate or a portal to insult the friend over things s/he is doing incorrectly?
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    "If you're a Muslim then you should know that this life is temporary we should be preparing for the afterlife."

    Me: "Are you reading my mind?"
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    wudn't be offended, but they COULD use a better approach
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    nope......I will look it as a reminder...thats all
    and by the way it always happened to me, either someone told me or I told someone else
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    Hmm...depend on the situation...we can't be offensive.if we are offensive maybe someone tryin' to screw you up....!..
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    Well when i didnt practice , i said to my friend, because i dont pray i dont see my self as muslim, and if someone came up to me and said your not my muslim bro, then i wouldnt argue with them.
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    format_quote Originally Posted by Skye Ephémérine View Post
    is it the beginning of a philosophical debate or a portal to insult the friend over things s/he is doing incorrectly?
    nope, the reason I asked is because someone got really offended and saw it as an accusation of being called non-Muslim because of the word 'IF' being used.
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    Re: Would you get offended...

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    Re: Would you get offended...

    format_quote Originally Posted by DaNgErOuS MiNdS View Post
    okay would you consider this as offensive;

    if someone you knew was trying to tell you about Islam and said:

    ''If you're a Muslim then you should know that this life is temporary we should be preparing for the afterlife''


    on the topic of time/having nothing to do/being bored...
    Of course not!


    I wish there would be someone to tell me that everyday..

    every muslim should keep reminding others nd HIMSELF of that FACT
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    Depends how it was said? and who said it to who?

    The tone is very important to me.
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    format_quote Originally Posted by DaNgErOuS MiNdS View Post
    okay would you consider this as offensive;

    if someone you knew was trying to tell you about Islam and said:

    ''If you're a Muslim then you should know that this life is temporary we should be preparing for the afterlife''


    on the topic of time/having nothing to do/being bored...
    That's not offensive.

    This is offen-

    Well, I was about to link to something, but then I remembered my manners.

    In the context of being bored, I'd be more likely to find an answer like 'Only boring people get bored' offensive in a tongue-in-cheek manner that facilitates much ribbing and merriment.
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    Re: Would you get offended...

    Of course not..it is true this life is temp. we should all be preparing for the afterlife. This life is only a test.
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