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  • Yes, but only from places like Matrimonial sites with adults involved

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  • Yes, from online or this forum if I get to know them well

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  • Maybe, depends on the situation but I"d keep an open mind

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  • Only if I had no other choice and no good apples in my area.

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  • No thanks, not my cup of tea.

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    Here's a question i've been pondering lately. Would you consider marrying someone you met online or by finding someone online? How about from this forum or any islamic forum for that matter?

    First lets get a few things clear. I don't mean you meet online and do marriage online without even meeting or seeing each other in person first. I don't mean you get all friendly with each other and then say you "fell" for each other. I don't mean you do this one on one with each other and your family doesn't know about it. What I do mean is that you find someone online that you think is a worthy potential and you would be willing to have your family involved and meet each other and see if it's something that could be possible after getting the process going.
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    Re: Marriage online

    Nope, I don't think that's what I would do...
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    Re: Marriage online

    Nope.
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    Re: Marriage online

    nope.

    i don't even want to get married.
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    Nope. I leave that to my parents.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by Periwinkle18 View Post
    nope.

    i don't even want to get married.
    ^Snap.

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    Re: Marriage online

    format_quote Originally Posted by Periwinkle18 View Post
    nope.
    same here

    format_quote Originally Posted by Periwinkle18 View Post
    i don't even want to get married.
    same here .... if the only choice was online marriage
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    Re: Marriage online

    depend solely on situation IMO
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    I think Offline Marriage is better then Online Marriage.
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    Re: Marriage online

    Slightly off topic, but the first thing I thought of when I read the title of this thread was this: http://maniacmuslim.com/2004/12/21/online-nikkah/ ...heh.

    But yeah, in response to the question, I doubt I would ever consider it, but you never know what Allah has in store for you.. I think it would depend on the specific situation.. Don't think the rents would be too crazy about it though, not even close..
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    Re: Marriage online

    I will only marry if a definitive opportunity arises(and not on the internet) but if it doesnt then im happy to stay a bachelor for life (its cost effective )
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    Re: Marriage online

    I think it depends on the situation. Some sister may not be lucky enough to have a good mate available in their area and then some might not even have a Muslim in their area. It is also help for reverts if they have someone they trust thru whom they can meet someone. For instance, a sister might not know any suitable person but might know a good sister on here who might know someone good. So all in all it depends on the situation and so long as proper precaution and islamic guidelines are taken.
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    Re: Marriage online

    nothing wrong with it, as long as you see them offline as well, families involved etc.
    I mean we live in the 21st century,internet is a method of communication, why not use it for that...
    but islamirama, who's the lucky one ?
    Last edited by alcurad; 11-29-2008 at 08:08 PM.
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    no. i would want my parents to choose
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    Re: Marriage online

    format_quote Originally Posted by alcurad View Post
    but islamirama, who's the lucky one ?
    No one, was curious to know how people on this board felt about this topic
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    hmm, alright...
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    Re: Marriage online

    Salaam..

    I very much doubt it... but never say never, dont know what Allah swt has planned for us. Why do all the sisters not want to get married? =P

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    ^ this thread scared them lol just kiddin

    yeh ur right no knows what Allah (SWT) has planned for us
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    Re: Marriage online

    format_quote Originally Posted by peãrl View Post
    Salaam..

    I very much doubt it... but never say never, dont know what Allah swt has planned for us. Why do all the sisters not want to get married? =P

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