then what is the biggest fitnah for women? men? I THINK NOT !
Assalamu Alaikum
“I am not leaving behind me any fitnah that is more harmful to men than women "
Narrated by al-Bukhaari
“This world is fresh and sweet, and Allaah has appointed you over it, so see how you will do. Fear this world and fear women, for the first fitnah faced by the Children of Israel had to do with women.” Narrated by Muslim
‘If one of you were to be struck in the head with an iron needle, it would be better for him than if he were to touch a woman he is not allowed to.” (Reported by al-Tabaraani; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045)
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My tears testify that i have a heart
yet i feel me and shaytan never part
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then what is the biggest fitnah for women? men? I THINK NOT
could u clarify what you mean here
Our Lord! Verily, we have heard the call of one calling to Faith: 'Believe in your Lord,' and we have believed.
Our Lord! Forgive us our sins and expiate from us our evil deeds, and make us die (in the state of righteousness) along with Al-Abrar
Man = Kinda tough I guess when it comes to emotions and stuff
So although Women are fitnah for men arent men more of a fitnah for women considering their (womens) hearts are softer and they might be affected more?
Although of course I guess her gaze is less likely to fall on an ajnabee man as much as his gaze will fall on an ajnabiyyah
oh in that case i htink men are fitnah for women but women can handle and control their desires better.
Our Lord! Verily, we have heard the call of one calling to Faith: 'Believe in your Lord,' and we have believed.
Our Lord! Forgive us our sins and expiate from us our evil deeds, and make us die (in the state of righteousness) along with Al-Abrar
Oh. I thought you were implying that.
Right. Do you have the answer then or are ye gathering evidences and opinions?
i thot the answer is best received from the source - ie you sisters
So although Women are fitnah for men arent men more of a fitnah for women considering their (womens) hearts are softer and they might be affected more?
Although of course I guess her gaze is less likely to fall on an ajnabee man as much as his gaze will fall on an ajnabiyyah
Blah
the softest heart i ever knew was of a man, our nabi sallallahi alaihi wasallaam
guess so too... it works both ways init?
stay tuned! we're about to find out !
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My tears testify that i have a heart
yet i feel me and shaytan never part
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I dont see the point, *scratches head* the hadeeth is clear... but if nothing has been said about men being the biggest fitnah for women then why try to get an opinion on it. Nothing has been said. Khallas.
I dont see the point, *scratches head* the hadeeth is clear... but if nothing has been said about men being the biggest fitnah for women then why try to get an opinion on it. Nothing has been said. Khallas.
oh theres a point trust me
a huge point
but looks like, by the replies, us men truelly are harmless.
mashAllah mashAllaah
thread closed n all that i guess
Assalamu Alaikum
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My tears testify that i have a heart
yet i feel me and shaytan never part
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Personal opinion. Yeah maybe I would consider a dude as the greatest fitnah, trust so many girls I know seem to be dating or what not and they're all muslim! It's like this thing, when my mates and that turned 13/14 BOOM! Guys galore. Annoyingly they seemed to have given into temptation...
Personal opinion. Yeah maybe I would consider a dude as the greatest fitnah, trust so many girls I know seem to be dating or what not and they're all muslim! It's like this thing, when my mates and that turned 13/14 BOOM! Guys galore. Annoyingly they seemed to have given into temptation...
jazakIllah khair
honest answers like that are appreciated
and YES a rep shall indeed be given
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My tears testify that i have a heart
yet i feel me and shaytan never part
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WAIT .......so the biggest fitnah of men is women and the biggest fitnah of women is...*Cough*
ok the thread can be closed lol
And as for the onewho fears standing in front of His Lord and restrainsthe soul from impure evil desires and lusts, verily, Paradise will be his abode [79:40-41]
i wondered if materialism is a bigger fitnah for the women or not.
or perhaps smoething else im missing?
thats all
Assalamu Alaikum
So don't close the thread after 15-20min's! Leave it open for a bit, may get some interesting answers.
Last edited by Ali.; 01-29-2009 at 09:09 PM.
Reason: spelling error
Should I seek a source of law other than God, when it is He Who has sent down unto you the Book (Qur'an) fully explained? And those whom We have given them the Book know that it has been sent down from the Lord with truth, so be not of those in doubt.
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