i have seen many cases where women wants to stay at home but their father/husband forces them to work outside even though they are financially good enough.
why? has not Allah made 'us' men to care for our women relatives?
a muslim is rewarded even for a morsel he puts in his wife's mouth.
and when cases of affair/zina takes place due to not wearing proper dresses/mixing with men @ working places, the total blame is on women.
these things truly makes me so upset.
Last edited by ahmed_indian; 07-04-2009 at 01:00 PM.
I do agree it is not fair to put the blame on women. I just don't know what is wrong with people who do put the entire blame on women. :/
I was looking at myself talking to myself and I realized this conversation...I was having with myself looking at myself was a conversation with myself that I needed to have with myself.
i have seen many cases where women wants to stay at home but their father/husband forces them to work outside even though they are financially good enough.
I have seen many cases where women wants to work outside but their husband forces them to stay at home even though they are financially bad enough.
If you are Indonesian man, and you have a good health, don't ever force your wife to work, or everyone will call you sucker.
There are many Indonesian women in Saudi Arabia, but they work causes by their initiative, not forced. That because their husband's income is very small and they live in poverty. Ironically, sometime their husbands use their money that sent to Indonesia for marry another woman. Of course, without permission from them.
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