asalm u alikum wa rehmatulahi wa berkathu
AlhamdulilALLAH for all the answers
sister amani shukran for increasing my knowledge about the sahabiyaats (may ALLAH be pleased with them all)
as you rightly said that societies then were different from this day and age but Khadija RA never used to go on expeditions herself did she?can you confirm that the other sahabiyaats(may ALLAH be please with them all) did they do the work as you have mentioned before embracing islam or after.It obviously depends on the family but my point is that, and what i have seen is that women are putting their career before ANYTHING else.They are practicing muslims but still there career is the MAIN PIRORITY in there life, are they not contradicting themselves because in islam whatever your husband says goes(offcourse he cannot say unjust things he has to be fair) but when you think of it what is more important to you?
your kids growing up and one day you hear your teenage girl saying ''BUT I LOVE HIM'' or your kids growing up in the islamic way.
Will you like to have your son runaway from the house and live with a girl as friends and commit adultry, all because parents were busy in there CAREERS.i personally think bringing up kids is more of a responsibilty of the mother as she is always with them.Offcourse dad has a massive responsibilty as well but if he busy in earning the bread and butter then it leaves the responsibilty to the mum.
What is the most important thing in ones life after the deen, family???if the family aint tight then nothing is right - - - do you agree???
i donot want my wife(havent found her yet
)to work not because i want her to be my slave(ASTAGFIRULALLAH),what i donot want is that both of us are so busy that we are not fulfilling the duties towards eachother and trust me it happens a lot where both of them donot even have time to sit down and have dinner together i mean COME ON where is the islamic way of life in that??brother is working days sister is working nights wow awesome you might have money but HELLO will you have the islamic family.Will your kids grow up as being righteous and pios??I think brothers will agree with this.
Having a career should not be the focal point.
Sister clover your right that husbands just sit at home and do nothing then the sisters have to go out and work but these husbands should be embarssed.
These husbands are called
benefit thiefs in UK thought i will put this in here.
Jazak ALLAH for the lively debate.
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