Salam Aleykum brothers and sisters!
I'm in love with a girl, she is in the same age like me, but she isn't muslim.
I'd like to know what things are allowed in love? I know that I must not have sex with her. But what else can I do with her? Kissing? But this kissing is going for a long time... Or can I do anything with her, except have sex? So, please help me!
Brother you’re not supposed to indulge in any sexual activities with another girl. This can only take place within marriage and you are not allowed to marry a non-Muslim, unless if they are a Christian/Jew but that is a different issue. Dating in our religion is haram.
I was looking at myself talking to myself and I realized this conversation...I was having with myself looking at myself was a conversation with myself that I needed to have with myself.
maybe you could both meet with significant others and pray namaz as a group,im not sure if ok, but it would be right direction i think
Assalmu Alikum.
She isn't a muslim. :/
Peace.
I was looking at myself talking to myself and I realized this conversation...I was having with myself looking at myself was a conversation with myself that I needed to have with myself.
what do you mean you didnt know how hard Islam is?
Do you think the pious don't sin?
They merely:
Veiled themselves and didn't flaunt it
Sought forgiveness and didn't persist
Took ownership of it and don't justify it
And acted with excellence after they had erred - Ibn al-Qayyim
lol it seems hard when you're not used to it bro.. but as you learn more and you take note of how premarital relationships affect society as a whole where they are allowed, you will begin to realise that prevention is better than cure
oh ok, sorry. Brother speaking as a convert, when you begin to really love Allah, Mohammad(peace be upon him) and Islam, I can honestly say that you will have no deire to marry a non muslim girl, Sorry if it sounds conceited but they are not good enough for us bro, or maybe a better way to put it is, the relationship would be far from good enough for Allah. May Allah guide you, and may you begin to realise what a truly incredible journey it is to become a Muslim, Ameen
"O ye who belive! Endure, outdo all others in endurance, be ready, and observe your duty to Allah, in order that you may succeed"
oh ok, sorry. Brother speaking as a convert, when you begin to really love Allah, Mohammad(peace be upon him) and Islam, I can honestly say that you will have no deire to marry a non muslim girl, Sorry if it sounds conceited but they are not good enough for us bro, or maybe a better way to put it is, the relationship would be far from good enough for Allah. May Allah guide you, and may you begin to realise what a truly incredible journey it is to become a Muslim, Ameen
I feel for you bot brother, have you discussed Islam with her at all ? I think maybe you should put the hand brake on but I get how hard it will be, perhaps you can tell her of Islam somehow without being in a haram situation, but bottom line is your beleif in Allah and fulfilling your covenant with Him is more important than anything now bro. Maybe some of the other brothers here can guide you better than I, I will make dua for you. Peace and respect bro
"O ye who belive! Endure, outdo all others in endurance, be ready, and observe your duty to Allah, in order that you may succeed"
I feel for you bot brother, have you discussed Islam with her at all ? I think maybe you should put the hand brake on but I get how hard it will be, perhaps you can tell her of Islam somehow without being in a haram situation, but bottom line is your beleif in Allah and fulfilling your covenant with Him is more important than anything now bro. Maybe some of the other brothers here can guide you better than I, I will make dua for you. Peace and respect bro
Sound make me sad. But I promised I don't want to make Allah angy at me.
But I didn't tell her yet that I'm a real muslim now. She was my gilrfriend before I converted. But then I have to tell her that I promised her I will never tell... It's really hard now.
Sound make me sad. But I promised I don't want to make Allah angy at me.
But I didn't tell her yet that I'm a real muslim now. She was my gilrfriend before I converted. But then I have to tell her that I promised her I will never tell... It's really hard now.
Brother I will pray foryou at Fajr. And welcome to Islam, Assalamu aleiykum
"O ye who belive! Endure, outdo all others in endurance, be ready, and observe your duty to Allah, in order that you may succeed"
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