im taking arabic class in madrasa and the teacher is also a student.I dont like him but his arabic skills,like they way he talks and the way he quotes from the holy Quran is incredible and so im nervous around him.i am almost 100 percent positive that i dont like him yet my hear races kind of when i see him.I lovebeing in his class b/c i am very passionate about arabic.I am trying to learn to i can be closer to ALLAH AZAWAJAL but ami comitting a sin by feeling this way.
im taking arabic class in madrasa and the teacher is also a student.I dont like him but his arabic skills,like they way he talks and the way he quotes from the holy Quran is incredible and so im nervous around him.i am almost 100 percent positive that i dont like him yet my hear races kind of when i see him.I lovebeing in his class b/c i am very passionate about arabic.I am trying to learn to i can be closer to ALLAH AZAWAJAL but ami comitting a sin by feeling this way.
marry him then?
So remember Me; I will remember you. And be grateful to me and do not deny Me.
wa alaykum us-Salaam
as poster above said, maybe you should consider him for marriage? if not, i would consider changing classes. don't fool yourself by convincing yourself you dont like him...don't underestimate attraction for even a sec
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
Alhamdulillah there are SO many Arabic courses out there insha'Allah if you just switch classes then nor will this confusion remain nor will the doubt of "Lust/love" remain
lol... Just lower your gaze... and you cannot control your heart pounding.
This normally happen in students and teachers thing...huhuhu.
25:36 And the true servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk the earth with humility and when the ignorant address them, they respond with words of peace.
wow i NEVER said i like/loved him..just a little nervous around him...i cant change classes,the deadline has already passed....im not attracted to him,i dnt find him (physically) atrractive AT ALL,i just get happy when i come to that class b/c i love arabic n he is very nice thats it.but yes i lower my gaze n i Pray to ALLAH AZAWAJAL to forgive me for comitting Zina of the eyes
yeah this is terrible advice. you're basically telling the sister to go lust after him.
see if you can transfer to another class, sister.
im apologies for a terrible sister but i thought she liked him by her heart so I gave her my thoughts. anyway AnonymousGender says she didnt like/love him.
Forgive me for my error, Ameen
So remember Me; I will remember you. And be grateful to me and do not deny Me.
wow i NEVER said i like/loved him..just a little nervous around him...i cant change classes,the deadline has already passed....im not attracted to him,i dnt find him (physically) atrractive AT ALL,i just get happy when i come to that class b/c i love arabic n he is very nice thats it.but yes i lower my gaze n i Pray to ALLAH AZAWAJAL to forgive me for comitting Zina of the eyes
you don't have to be physically attracted to someone to find them attractive.
as i said b4: dont underestimate attraction
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
im taking arabic class in madrasa and the teacher is also a student.I dont like him but his arabic skills,like they way he talks and the way he quotes from the holy Quran is incredible and so im nervous around him.i am almost 100 percent positive that i dont like him yet my hear races kind of when i see him.I lovebeing in his class b/c i am very passionate about arabic.I am trying to learn to i can be closer to ALLAH AZAWAJAL but ami comitting a sin by feeling this way.
change the class.. you won't be concentrating if your to much intoxicated by his voice so it would be sin really if you look at this way, your not concentrating whats he reciting from the holy qur'an which are Allah swt beautiful words rather your taking interest in his voice which means your putting him on a higher position then Allah swt... believe it or not some scholars would say this is minor shirk and if he is beautifying his voice on perpis so that girls will take notice this is also minor shirk on his side
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