most of the time our parents will over look and forgive our faults and not tell you as to not upset you, they wont show you when they are angry or upset. but i want to know is there some way you can tell your parents are upset with you if they dont say anything? how can you tell? sometimes i cant help but feel that my mum is upset with me, but she doesn't say anything.
and the thing is, if you do ask, then they like to play with your mind abit by telling you that they are upset with you when in fact they arent so can you differentaite between the real thing? im a simple minded person and most of the time understand things at their face value only.
and also, can parents find you too affetionate, or too worrysome over them? does it annoy them when you worry too much? they are all alone and you ask them if anything is the matter? like sometimes i see my mum acting out of character, so i ask her what the matter is, and she will repsond with a falt tone but i dont know if that means "im annoyed" or "im annoyed, spot invading my privacy" how do you know when to "back off" and if you do "back off" how do you deal with them feelings of guilt or upset that your parents are upset and you cant you cant do nothing about it.
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Talking is the best way to clear away any misconception.
agreed
To my Akh's tryin to stay on their deen
It gets mean especially when u stay on the scene
And at the same try to stay out of trouble
But don't forget the blessing's in the struggle...
You gotta stay on your salats, your zakats, your Quran
You're so nice to wanting to know if you have hurt your parents feelings. I'm so absorbed in my own life...that i couldn't see/care whether my mother is hurting. I should change my attitude
25:36 And the true servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk the earth with humility and when the ignorant address them, they respond with words of peace.
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by telling you that they are upset with you when in fact they arent so can you differentaite between the real thing? im a simple minded person and most of the time understand things at their face value only.
Talking is the best way to clear away any misconception.
I should change my attitude
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