Having children prevent u from doing things u want to do, and my brothers wife is having a second baby and I want them to get rid of that baby and give that baby to someone else, I really mean it. Children are unnesesary and useless.
Lol, how do you think you got here? You were once a baby too.
Baby aren't useless, subhanAllah. Raising one can be complicated and takes lots of responsability, but that's just the things that come with when you're a parent.
If everyone gave up on babies, would there be scholors today? or Imams or even sheikhs? doctors? This just show to you that after all that hard work on raising children, they could one day inshaAllah grow up to be an imporant aspect in the world.
So glorify the praises of your Lord and be of those who prostrate themselves (to Him).
Surah al-Ĥijr(The Rocky Tract) 15:98
No, I don't believe this brother really means that he hates babies. Hate is a big word.
He's probably over reacting or something...
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ hope your right sis
Bro how can you dislike children haha they are a bundle of joy when they are young, there so cutee n that new born baby smell i need 2 bottle that stuff up .......... i guess you have 2 cut back on a few things u wanna do after having children but it sure as hell worth it
To my Akh's tryin to stay on their deen
It gets mean especially when u stay on the scene
And at the same try to stay out of trouble
But don't forget the blessing's in the struggle...
You gotta stay on your salats, your zakats, your Quran
What if the child grows up to be a loser and a complete moron, and if tried my best to raise Him or her well but yet they still turn out bad, i would give the child to some good Muslim family that would like a child.
What if the child grows up to be a loser and a complete moron, and if tried my best to raise Him or her well but yet they still turn out bad, i would give the child to some good Muslim family that would like a child.
Wait what because your child doesn't turn out to be as smart as you'd hope to be or as successful you shouldn't love them any less or give up on them well i don't intend to, as long as you've tried your best to raise them.........the rest is up to Allah isn't it
Last edited by S<Chowdhury; 06-07-2010 at 03:48 AM.
To my Akh's tryin to stay on their deen
It gets mean especially when u stay on the scene
And at the same try to stay out of trouble
But don't forget the blessing's in the struggle...
You gotta stay on your salats, your zakats, your Quran
sub7anAllah you are not born with Knowledge, you teach your child and encourage him to learn, you don't give up on him/her if they are not a genius from the get-go. Like you said, you try your best to raise your child, but you cannot know the outcome of his future life by a few slip ups or mistakes he might commit while growing up. Having a child requires you to show unlimited to support, because raising them is not just teaching them how to talk to or walk, it's being there for them and having patience through it all. That is what makes you a parent. That is also how you get part of the Ajer (good deeds).
Having children prevent u from doing things u want to do, and my brothers wife is having a second baby and I want them to get rid of that baby and give that baby to someone else, I really mean it. Children are unnesesary and useless.
Looking after them is the biggest pain
you need to learn how to deal with and understand children in order to like them. if you don't understand them, then they will seem whiny and annoying.
saying children are unnecessary and useless, is a load of ignorance in my opinion...after all, how do you think mankind continues...
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
Subhannallah istagfurullah what a insane thing you said. Children is a gift from Allah and there you are speaking ill of innocent little children.
Having children is the best thing in this dunya, your money and materials is nothing without having children.
Please brother go see doctor this is not right. If i was you leave your brothers second baby alone it does not concern you.
Tell me brother who is going to look after you when you are ill or when your old eh?
Having children prevent u from doing things u want to do, and my brothers wife is having a second baby and I want them to get rid of that baby and give that baby to someone else, I really mean it. Children are unnesesary and useless.
Looking after them is the biggest pain
Are saying someone shouldn't have given birth to and raised you?
I don't understand people who hate children and seem to forget the fact that no becomes an adult without being a child....
Also it's a horrible thing to say you want your brother to give the baby to someone else, some people wait years for a child. In fact the whole idea is ridiculous.
Someone said to the Prophet, "Pray to God against the idolaters and curse them." The Prophet replied, "I have been sent to show mercy and have not been sent to curse." (Muslim)
remember once you were a child and inshaAllah one day you will be a father and when u experience the love a father has for a child maybe youll understand.
kids rock and sure they are pains and sure its a hard job but its all worth it
Our Lord! Verily, we have heard the call of one calling to Faith: 'Believe in your Lord,' and we have believed.
Our Lord! Forgive us our sins and expiate from us our evil deeds, and make us die (in the state of righteousness) along with Al-Abrar
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..but things will change as they grow..as of now enjoy their play..
.......... i guess you have 2 cut back on a few things u wanna do after having children but it sure as hell worth it
and sure they are pains and sure its a hard job but its all worth it
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