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    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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    Is beauty subjective or objective? It seems that some things are universally held by people to be beautiful: sunsets, babies, a fresh fallen snow. But on closer investigation I find that there are exceptions to each of those cases, people who don't find those things (or at least not all of them) to be beautiful. So, it got me to wondering about the saying, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." Is it true of false. Is beauty something that its presence or absence thereof is dependent on the person making the observation, so that there is no such thing as an absolute with regard to beauty. Or is there an absolute against which other things must be compared to see if they measure up to being beautiful?

    What do you think? Is it true or not: "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."


    (Clarification: This is NOT a thread about physical attractiveness, but more of a philosophical question.)
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    There are certain physical features that are in all societies regarded as beautiful. Most common is women's hair, where the richer, healthier looking hair ("because you're worth it" - yeah because I made that joke, no one else can. Ok?!) is deemed beautiful. Another common factor is body mass: broad wedge shaped for men and an hourglass figure for women (which is not a size zero, weirdos!) are typically regarded as beautiful.

    This is only the physical appearance however and thus only half of the calculation. The ''inside'' such as personality, are they charitable, sense of humour etc is also important; no use looking like the epitome of physical pefection if you behave like a complete and utter douche.

    These aren't be all and end all, just most common factors. Like most things in life, it's not a black and white matter i.e. there are cases of beauty being in the eye of the beholder.
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    What? Bro, I thind these topics reasons to why Muslim women cover or why should women cover. Sorry if I misinterpreted. however, we cover because it is a command in the Qur'aan and we follow those commands. Oh, and when Allah commands, we do not question, we just follow (submit)-is my reply to the folks.
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    yeh human beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and this is plainly obvious. it is only the society that might have brainwashed a lot of people in to thinking this is untrue though

    because of what they see on t.v and magazines etc.
    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    There's been some research done on this issue where a series of faces were shown to some volunteers and those same volunteers rated them according to attractiveness. There was some correlation between what individuals found attractive, but not an ovehwelming correlation. So in conclusion, a lot of people do find the same things attractive, but specific people are attracted to specific people for a whole host of reasons, physical attractiveness being only one factor.
    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    Of course this thread is not about human beauty per se, but about the concept of beauty. It might be a person. It might also be, as in my original examples, a sunset, a snowfall, or even something that cannot even been seen with the eyes, like for instance freedom. All of these things have also been called beautiful at one time or another. Is the nature of their beauty subjective or objective? Is it an absolute that they are beautiful, or is the truth of their beauty only found in the experience of the one observing them to be beautiful?
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    format_quote Originally Posted by Banu_Hashim View Post
    There's been some research done on this issue where a series of faces were shown to some volunteers and those same volunteers rated them according to attractiveness. There was some correlation between what individuals found attractive, but not an ovehwelming correlation. So in conclusion, a lot of people do find the same things attractive, but specific people are attracted to specific people for a whole host of reasons, physical attractiveness being only one factor.
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    whats beauty

    about 60 to 70 kilograms.....with the lower part of the body heavier, thats beauty!

    grace can back me up on that one
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    format_quote Originally Posted by Abdullahii View Post
    whats beauty

    about 60 to 70 kilograms.....with the lower part of the body heavier, thats beauty!

    grace can back me up on that one
    Lol, typical somali outlook on beauty
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    format_quote Originally Posted by Banu_Hashim View Post
    Lol, typical somali outlook on beauty
    not only somali men but sudanese and mauritanian men too
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    format_quote Originally Posted by Abdullahii View Post
    not only somali men but sudanese and mauritanian men too
    Make that all African men...
    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    format_quote Originally Posted by Grace Seeker View Post
    Is beauty subjective or objective? It seems that some things are universally held by people to be beautiful: sunsets, babies, a fresh fallen snow. But on closer investigation I find that there are exceptions to each of those cases, people who don't find those things (or at least not all of them) to be beautiful. So, it got me to wondering about the saying, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." Is it true of false. Is beauty something that its presence or absence thereof is dependent on the person making the observation, so that there is no such thing as an absolute with regard to beauty. Or is there an absolute against which other things must be compared to see if they measure up to being beautiful?

    What do you think? Is it true or not: "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
    Great thread. I seems to me that aesthetic realism goes hand in hand with moral realism - for every argument for/against aesthetic realism there is a corresponding argument for/against moral realism. Can you think of an argument against the objectivity of aesthetic values that doesn't also work as an argument against the objectivity of moral values?

    It also seems to me that statements like "Sunsets are beautiful." are more obviously true than the premises of any argument against aesthetic realism. Also, on theism, the universe is the Great Artist's Masterpiece - "The heavens declare the glory of God." To say that "Sunsets are beautiful." is not a proposition is coming fairly close to blasphemy!

    For me, the really interesting question is how such different objects (sunsets, art, music, people, mathematical theorems? God?) can all share this property "beauty"?
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    oK GUYS. A sincere advice, we shouldn't be speaking of waht we like in women, or men. Why? Well, we should preserve our hayya (shyness). No offense has been intended.

    Not a word does he (or she) utter, but there is a watcher by him ready (to record it).

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    Plus, speaking of these things is like thinking about it which may be some form of temptaion.

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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Something beautiful can be seen as ugly and something ugly as beautiful. While today skinny women are seen attractive, my grandmother told me that in the past overweight women were preferred in the area she lived in. History of art is a good example as well.

    I think there's common features which the majority of people find beautiful. I believe this comes from the natural inclination of mankind, Fitrah.
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    'Beauty is in the eye of weak minds held captive.'

    Something I read in a proverb book years ago lol
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    format_quote Originally Posted by Sister Unknown View Post
    oK GUYS. A sincere advice, we shouldn't be speaking of waht we like in women, or men. Why? Well, we should preserve our hayya (shyness). No offense has been intended.

    Not a word does he (or she) utter, but there is a watcher by him ready (to record it).

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    "Do not talk, listen or do anything vain" (23:3, 28:55)


    Plus, speaking of these things is like thinking about it which may be some form of temptaion.

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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    I see the natural world as beautiful and all the cities and man made stuff as junk and an abomination upon the Earth. A sand dune impresses me more than the finest building.
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    Cat eyes, you have changed a lot since I have been away from this forum...
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    Re: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    You have much more humility..
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