Salaam, I pushed away someone I really cared for because I was afraid of committing myself to marriage.Now I have learnt she is engaged to be married and am feeling physically sick and I'm not eating, Insha'Allah I will be able to forget about it in the future. I pray to Allah to give me strength am hurting.
ameen ya rabb.. hang tough.. it is adversity that shapes our character for the better..
may you find your one true love and complete your state of iman..
"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love"
- Washington Irving
Last edited by جوري; 12-30-2010 at 03:00 AM.
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Salaam, I pushed away someone I really cared for because I was afraid of committing myself to marriage.Now I have learnt she is engaged to be married and am feeling physically sick and I'm not eating, Insha'Allah I will be able to forget about it in the future. I pray to Allah to give me strength am hurting.
Salaam, thank you for all your kind words god is great (Allāhu Akbar) I just feel it's such a shame but I suppose Allah challenges us from time to time.
I'm praying for you even though I'm in a worse position myself (having never even had the option in the first place, no matter what I do or how good-looking girls always find me).
Peace be to any prophets I may have mentioned above. Praised and exalted be my Maker, if I have mentioned Him. (Come to think of it praise Him anyway.)
They merely:
Veiled themselves and didn't flaunt it
Sought forgiveness and didn't persist
Took ownership of it and don't justify it
And acted with excellence after they had erred - Ibn al-Qayyim
Salamu alaeikum
Inshallah you will have a better wife, there is alot of GOOD when you lose something!subhanallah! dont despaor and keep on doing good deeds.Everything will go fine.
May Allah give you a beautiful loving wife and make you stronger and help you to pass this hardship.
Salaam, I pushed away someone I really cared for because I was afraid of committing myself to marriage.Now I have learnt she is engaged to be married and am feeling physically sick and I'm not eating, Insha'Allah I will be able to forget about it in the future. I pray to Allah to give me strength am hurting.
Its just because her partnership was'nt in your fate.We cant change our fate,brother.Dont get hurt.Allah swt qill give her a better partner than you and will give you a better partner than her,Inshallah.May Allah swt bless you with peace of heart and mind.Amen.
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