Salam everyone
Happy to be a member of this forum..Hope i meet many good islamic brothers & sisters here.Alhamdhulillah..!!
I was searching for good islamic forum where i can share my feelings and make myself in peace & patience.Yes i lost my new born boy baby last month(which was my first baby)
Whole family was eager to welcome the baby.It was a cesarian,at Feb 10th(thursday) 9:30pm,once the baby was born i heard him crying,i could realise it well.So,i thought my baby was fine,but then the baby was unable to breath once it was clamped from my placenta.the baby had some congenital anomalies.The baby changed into blue.They rushed taking it to the nearby hospital.It was ventillated and kept in incubator.But in vain,Dr. lost the hope and conveyed to my husband that the baby is abnormal and cannot survive anymore.So,Dr. left the decision to my husband.The baby left the world at Feb11th(friday) 3:00pm.Once discharged,the baby was brought home,it was given bath,given a name as "Mohammed Arshad" and was taken.The time was around 4:30pm,Asr Prayer,Fortunately,the mosque was filled and all those brothers took part in my son's funeral.Alhamdhulillah..!!
But the only thing was hurts me is that i have not seen even my baby's face once.I lived with him for almost 9months to see its beautiful face.But allah,the almighty took him for for some goodness,I beleive him strongly.I pray that he should give me a healthy and long-living child in future soon.Keep me in our duas..!
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Walaikum-As-Salaam sis ♥. Welcome to IslamicBoard it's a wonderful place. I am sorry for your loss sis, you are a strong and faithful person for acknowledging that Allah took him for some goodness. He is the all knowing. Your beautiful baby will be in heaven =). I will surely keep you in my duas, and will pray that you are given a healthy child.
"Make the most of your life before your death." ~Islamic Quote
ina lilahi wa ina ilahi rajoon, I feel how much in pain you are dear sister, may Allaah give you lots of patience, inshallah your reward will be in the next life
In the Qur’an, in Surah Baqarah (2: 155), Allah States unequivocally that He will test us:
Be sure we shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods or lives or the fruits (of your toil), but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere,
I wonder why you didnt have the chance to see your beautiful baby?
may Allaah give you good health and pious children, ameen
WELCOME TO IB, Have a nice stay!
O Allah Wash away my sins with the water of snow and hail, and cleanse my heart from sin as a white garment is cleansed from filth, and put a great distance between me and my sins, as great as the distance You have made between the East and the West.”
Thanks a lot khadija sis...I was given Anesthesia,and the Dr. said they have shown me the baby once born but i really dont remember it since i was out of concious state..
But anyways waiting with patience for the forecoming happenings.;-)
Welcome to the forum sis.Hope you'd benefit from your stay here.
“An hour’s reflective thought is better than a year’s worship” Hadith
"We Muslims, who are students of the Qur’an, follow proof; we approach the truths of belief through reason, thought, and our hearts. " Bediuzzaman Said Nursi
Re: Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh..!!Pls read
Wa'Alaaykum As'salaam Wa Rahmatullaah Wa Barahkaatuh
Inna lillaahi wa innah ilaayhi raji'oon.
Subhaan'Allaah, that is really sad to hear sis, may Allaah increase you in goodness and patience and grant you the best in this dunya and akhirah, Ameen
However, i hope that your stay here keeps you happy and also find the forum beneficial towards yourself insha'Allaah
"Allah! La ilaha illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He), Al-Hayyul-Qayyum (the Ever Living, the One Who sustains and protects all that exists).".."[Al Qur'aan 3:2]
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My dearest Sister and to the humble forum.
Im really sad and feeling sorry for your baby "Muhammad Arshad".Such a cute name and i know your baby is now one of the most beautiful flowers of Heaven inshallah and you will meet him on the day of judgment.May Allah swt lighter your pain,console you in the best way and He SWT is the most Merciful.May He SWT bless you with health,happiness and a healthy family with lovely and obedient kids and bless you with success in both Dunyah and Aakhirah.Amen.
I will keep you in my doaa and i strongly believe that Allah SWT will bless you with someone better soon.
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welcome to the forum, may allah make things easy for you.
ask if anyone took a photo of you baby?
No,my husband didnt allow anyone to take photo of my baby as it will affect me badly if i see his face.Since it was Cesarian,Dr. asked me not to weep/cry at all.Really im thankfull to allah,the almighty to give me such a caring husband who stood back of me as a moral support.
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No,my husband didnt allow anyone to take photo of my baby as it will affect me badly if i see his face.Since it was Cesarian,Dr. asked me not to weep/cry at all.Really im thankfull to allah,the almighty to give me such a caring husband who stood back of me as a moral support.
thats good sister. Photos are not allowed. and surely if u have this photo, ur this wound heal with difficulty and makes u impatient as u see the photo. Allah SWT give u more strength in eman and award u from nice cute and practicing children...
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My dearest Sister and to the humble forum.
Im really sad and feeling sorry for your baby "Muhammad Arshad".Such a cute name and i know your baby is now one of the most beautiful flowers of Heaven inshallah and you will meet him on the day of judgment.May Allah swt lighter your pain,console you in the best way and He SWT is the most Merciful.May He SWT bless you with health,happiness and a healthy family with lovely and obedient kids and bless you with success in both Dunyah and Aakhirah.Amen.
I will keep you in my doaa and i strongly believe that Allah SWT will bless you with someone better soon.
Take care
Thankyou sooooo much..Iam really thankful to allah to show me such a many bro's & sis's via this forum,which really makes me feel much more stronger and confident given by you..I sometimes think god has punished me for something which i have commited unknowingly and allah wanted me to carry this baby all way throughout these 9months and give it to him,otherwise he would have shown atleast in any of the scans which i have taken thro' out.But now im happy that my baby is in heaven staying happily.Love you 'Muhamed Arshad'...
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Thankyou sooooo much..Iam really thankful to allah to show me such a many bro's & sis's via this forum,which really makes me feel much more stronger and confident given by you..I sometimes think god has punished me for something which i have commited unknowingly and allah wanted me to carry this baby all way throughout these 9months and give it to him,otherwise he would have shown atleast in any of the scans which i have taken thro' out.But now im happy that my baby is in heaven staying happily.Love you 'Muhamed Arshad'...
We are also happy to have another loving and sweet sister among us,my dearest
For no doubt this is Allah swt who show us the right path,who bless us with the company of Noble people.His Mercy is beyond our thoughts sis Sometimes,when we are in extreme pain,we start thinking like Allah SWT punish us for something.At these moments,i always think of this Ayah of Surah Al-Ftir.The Originator of Creation.
035.045 If God were to punish men according to what they deserve. He would not leave on the back of the (earth) a single living creature: but He gives them respite for a stated Term: when their Term expires, verily God has in His sight all His Servants.
He SWT is enough to punish us all but his Mercy is even more greater than his Anger,Subhanallah.So,never think that the sad things happened in your life are a result of any of your sin.This is life and life is about Pain and sorrows and happiness and joys.Death is a reality and we all will die one day,not even the most beloved Prophets of Allah SWT stay alive.You have Muhammad Arshad,Muhammad SAW had Tahir,Qasim and Ibraheem RA.All three noble sons of Muhammad SAW died in young ages.
I know,there are no words enough to console a Mother who lost her son but as a Muslim,i believe that Allah SWT have someone better for you,Inshallah.
May He SWT bless you with what ever you want in life and what is good for you.May the Blessings and Mercy of Allah SWT be with you always and never a grief or sorrow come near to you.
Take care my dearest Sister
I love you for the sake of Allah SWT
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