10 Signs of Good Manners

[strivingobserver98]

These are a great selection of points alhamdulilah . May Allah make us amongst those whom have good character and manners. Ameen.

From Abu Darda (radhiallahu 'anhu) who said that Allah's Messenger (sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said:

"There is nothing which is heavier upon the balance than the good character." [Reported by Muslim]


Yoosuf ibn Asbat said: “There are ten signs of good manners and they are:

1. Little arguing

2. Listening well

3. Avoiding searching for shortcomings

4. Covering mistakes

5. Finding excuse

6. Patience when annoyed

7. Blaming one’s own self

8. Seeing one’s own faults rather than other people’s faults

9. Having a beaming face with the young and the old

10. Saying kind words to those who are below and above one (with regards to religious knowledge, righteousness, social status, and so forth)

Yusuf ibn Asbat. [Al-Ihyaa, vol.3, p.77]

[Umm Abed]

So beautiful - we dont need anyone else as our guide, true and complete guidance comes from the ahadith of our beloved Rasul. May we all meet him in Jannah ameen.