Salam, dear Muslims, how can a man get a woman and get married if he does not have parents is passed away or permanently separated?
Same like other men. He can look around, and when he see a woman who look good he can try his luck through proposing marriage. Or he can ask people around him to introduce him to a woman.
Being orphan, or being a kid from separated family does not prevents someone, man or woman, to get married.
Same like other men. He can look around, and when he see a woman who look good he can try his luck through proposing marriage. Or he can ask people around him to introduce him to a woman.
Being orphan, or being a kid from separated family does not prevents someone, man or woman, to get married.
It's difficult to find someone these days, especially in the west. In addition to try online muslim matrimonial sites, you can try tapping into your community. That means going to the masjid more regular for event and stuff so you can get to know the community and them getting to know you. Then you can ask the imam , you can ask the brothers you get to know there and they can have their wives find out, etc.
Pain and hardships allow you to grow spiritually Alhamdulilah so smile when a so called calamity befalls upon you.
Alhamdulilah Allah swt is the greatest.
Arranged marriages aren't required in Islam. Her parents don't have to meet with your parents. Although, parents should be involved it is not a requirement if you don't have any. Your chances of marriage aren't lessened due to a parent's death or them cutting you off for no reason. Also, I don't think you will never be married unless you live sort of separate from society. It can be hard finding a spouse but if Allah has willed it then it will happen in due time. In my masjid a man posted a flyer asking for someone looking for a husband to email him. I'm ashamed to admit but I thought it was comical. Then I thought 'Well why didn't I do that when I was looking for a husband?"
Last edited by sister_39738; 12-06-2016 at 05:02 AM.
He probably means they ( woman's parent) will want to do a background check about his character and they also want to talk to other Guardians in the absence of parents - eg Elders,Sibling,Uncle,Cousin etc to understand whether there is mental compatibility between the families- ( the man's family and woman's family).
He probably means they ( woman's parent) will want to do a background check about his character and they also want to talk to other Guardians in the absence of parents - eg Elders,Sibling,Uncle,Cousin etc to understand whether there is mental compatibility between the families- ( the man's family and woman's family).
Aaaaahh….. Ok, That makes perfect sense… totally missed that!
Jazakallah khair
As long as my heart does beat, I shall live, not lie
For when my heart does stop its beat, with truth, I die.
I dont know about you people, but In this generation, girls and boys are making out at school, college then they start to have intercourse and get the woman pregnant. - that is their marriage done in this day and age.
I dont know about you people, but In this generation, girls and boys are making out at school, college then they start to have intercourse and get the woman pregnant. - that is their marriage done in this day and age.
We are not from this generation alhemdulilah, and I'd rather be single all of my life than to fall into such a calamity.
format_quote Originally Posted by ah17865
The main purpose of man having a woman is simply for His pleasure, everything else is optional.
I'm guessing this is referring to your statements above, not your personal or islamic belief, correct? It would be easier if you posted everything in one post.
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IF man does not get a woman in this dunya, will he surely be granted ANYTHING he wants in Jannah? If he's in Jannah?
Absolutely.
My advice as others have suggested, is to make sincere du'a and be on top of your game in regards to your worship. Nothing in this world is willed without His consent, and that includes your destiny. Also let the people around you know that you're looking for someone, and i'm sure if they come across a person that they believe you'd be suitable with, they'd try to help out.
The main purpose of man having a woman is simply for His pleasure, everything else is optional.
I don't know if you are a troll or just shriking your abilities as a muslim to educate yourself, but what you have said is completely incorrect. Allah has put women on this earth for more than pleasing Allah's creation.
I don't know if you are a troll or just shriking your abilities as a muslim to educate yourself, but what you have said is completely incorrect. Allah has put women on this earth for more than pleasing Allah's creation.
I think he was generalizing that guys these days are impregnating women or using them for pleasurable reasons without committing to them. Allahu a'lem lool.
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