I'm wondering on whether a person with an heart issue should be married? If a person has heart problems and is on heart medication, should they seek marriage or give up the possibility of having a normal life? The doctors told me that with medication i am expected to live a normal life with healthy diet and exercise but if things ever get worse...i may need a heart transplant. So since there is a possibility of this and health issues, should I still seek marriage? And if so what do I tell her?
I'm wondering on whether a person with an heart issue should be married? If a person has heart problems and is on heart medication, should they seek marriage or give up the possibility of having a normal life? The doctors told me that with medication i am expected to live a normal life with healthy diet and exercise but if things ever get worse...i may need a heart transplant. So since there is a possibility of this and health issues, should I still seek marriage? And if so what do I tell her?
so sad to know this. May Allah give you complete shifa and long life. Ameen
You should apprise her of your disease. Let her decide.
Jazakallah khayran brother,
I know this all a test but I want opinion and advice. Should I still seek marriage or should I not marry because I do not wish to ruin someone else's life
I'm wondering on whether a person with an heart issue should be married? If a person has heart problems and is on heart medication, should they seek marriage or give up the possibility of having a normal life? The doctors told me that with medication i am expected to live a normal life with healthy diet and exercise but if things ever get worse...i may need a heart transplant. So since there is a possibility of this and health issues, should I still seek marriage? And if so what do I tell her?
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Jazakallah khayran brother,
I know this all a test but I want opinion and advice. Should I still seek marriage or should I not marry because I do not wish to ruin someone else's life
May Allah bless you with successful surgery so that you can do nikah after it.
If she wants to marry despite knowing it ask her to wait till then and doing dua.
Wait sorry...I'm not having open heart surgery. I am saying worst case scenario if my heart ever reaches has that point. Right now, alhamduallah I am stabilized and the medication is predicted to keep my heart strong. Doctors say with medication, I can live a normal average life. My point is should I still seek marriage when there is a possibility that my heart can go bad?
Alhamdulilah may Allah make it easy for you and us Ameen. You know you have a heart disease but there will be people with unknown hidden diseases lurking inside them. Be honest. Be open about your health situation and seek marriage. All of us have a ticking clock over our heads. Death is not in our control. In the meantime live life the best you can. Jazaka Allah.
Pain and hardships allow you to grow spiritually Alhamdulilah so smile when a so called calamity befalls upon you.
Alhamdulilah Allah swt is the greatest.
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