wana find out wot is a Good men.....................read here!

[Helena]

another inetersting info frm me.....hpe u enjoy reading it inshalah!

Good Men are indeed all around us.
We pass them on the streets, in the
malls, and at work.

Most we can't see because we don't know what a good man
really looks like.

He usually isn't flashy enough or rich enough to turn our
heads.

He might not wear a suit or push a Lexus. He might not have a body like Tyson with a Denzel face. But, as you mature, you realize it's better
to find someone who's got your back rather than someone who turns your head.

A good man doesn't agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, etc. he is (he won't have to because
it shows).

He has his own opinions and yours may clash, but he doesn't have
to degrade you to prove he's right. He even admits at times to being wrong,
especially if you are willing to do the same.

A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes.

He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you don't
live to catch him doing something wrong so you can declare, "Aha!, I knew you
were a dog!"

A good man isn't insecure about his woman having great achievements. In
fact, he is her number one supporter and becomes disappointed with her when

she begins to lose herself, especially for the sake of not hurting his
feelings, or only wanting to make him happy. His happiness comes with seeing
her excel in her dreams and accomplishing her
goals. For as she excels and
is exalted, a good woman will bring her good man right along with her.

A good man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentine's gift.
He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don't judge him
by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy tale. You'll miss out on
your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that our men are no good. It's
just not true.

A good man is a man of his word. He says what he means and means what
he says. His word is his bond. He never leaves you wondering if he is going
to call or show up - he is dependable. A good man has love and a
heart for God . As his relationship and love with and for God grows
so will his relationship and love with and for you grow... Our beautiful men we salute you, appreciate you and thank you for who you are and
all you've done.


Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take-but by the moments that take our breath away.

so wot u all think?

kay:

[IbnAbdulHakim]

to avoid muezzins wording of so called "homo fitna" i shall avoid replying kay:

[Sister_6038]

*tries to think of a man who fits that criteria whose not already married or closely related.....and struggles*