Closer to mother or father.

**syilla** · 08-25-2006

Just want to check wheter girls are closer with their father and the guys are closer with their mom.

I think girls usually not in good terms with their mother...but what about guys

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**S_87** · 08-25-2006

i think im just about same

**Najiullah** · 08-25-2006

very difficult to answer sis

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmm i guess i am close to my mom

**Samee** · 08-25-2006

Yeah, usually boys are closer with their moms than their fathers, and vice versa with the girls.

**Noor** · 08-25-2006

For those of us with single parents, it becomes very easy to choose: I love my mom like a fat kid loves cake!

My dad died when I was one years old so I dont know him enough to hate him. May Allah have mercy on him.

Peace

P.S. this question differs from person to person, what point are you trying to make? And why is this in Marriage Section?

**Muezzin** · 08-25-2006

Yeah, why is this thread in the marriage section?

Maybe it would be better off in General Chat.

**syilla** · 08-25-2006

Originally Posted by Noor

For those of us with single parents, it becomes very easy to choose: I love my mom like a fat kid loves cake!

My dad died when I was one years old so I dont know him enough to hate him. May Allah have mercy on him.

Peace

P.S. this question differs from person to person, what point are you trying to make? And why is this in Marriage Section?

just to make a survey...i just want to see why girls are always in bad terms with their mothers.

my mother is a single parent too

**syilla** · 08-25-2006

Originally Posted by Muezzin

Why is this thread in the marriage section?

well...there is no family section or parenting section....

so where should i post this?

**Muezzin** · 08-25-2006

Originally Posted by syilla

just to make a survey...i just want to see why girls are always in bad terms with their mothers.

Freud called it 'Electra Complex'. The male equivalent is 'Oedipal Complex'.

I don't like Freud's theories very much, they're too incestuous for my liking.

**syilla** · 08-25-2006

Originally Posted by Muezzin

Freud called it 'Electra Complex'. The male equivalent is 'Oedipal Complex'.

I don't like Freud's theories very much, they're too incestuous for my liking.

are you trying to be the master muezzin...

or is it an actual factual info..

if it is one...then thank you :thankyou: for the info.

**syilla** · 08-25-2006

^^^
thankyou thank you...thank you...

:thankyou: :thankyou: :thankyou:

**Starseeker** · 08-25-2006

I'm a mummys girl all the way!!

**jello** · 08-25-2006

I am closer to my mother than to my father... But, my sister is also closer to her mother than she is to her father. so I am not sure about Freud and whatever else in this case.

**Hijaabi22** · 08-25-2006

Originally Posted by syilla

Just want to check wheter girls are closer with their father and the guys are closer with their mom.

I think girls usually not in good terms with their mother...but what about guys

:

Tho I luv both my parents loads n loads n loads MA A DADDIES GAL

wwwislamicboardcom - Closer to mother or father.

**learningislam** · 08-25-2006

well..........i am closer to my father. I have Alhumdulillah good relations with my mom, but even though i have tried many times.........still we are not close to each other. I wonder why is that so.
I know , some of my friends who are real close to their moms, just like friends.
And yes, my father is like.........very understanding,caring , ......... and well like all girls i am gonna say that "He is the best father on the planet " Alhumdulillah........May Allah give both of my parents long life and health .ameen

**Kittygyal** · 08-25-2006

I HATE ME DAD DON'T KNOW WHERE HE IS HATE MY STEP DAD TOO!!!

I love me mam to bits wish i can go to her so mammy gyal all the way!!!!!!!!!

i love you mam!!

**samiya_06** · 08-25-2006

Originally Posted by Kittygyal

I HATE ME DAD DON'T KNOW WHERE HE IS HATE MY STEP DAD TOO!!!

I love me mam to bits wish i can go to her so mammy gyal all the way!!!!!!!!!

i love you mam!!

i love both my parents but, my mom died when i was 2 years so i am close to my dad
allhamdulilah i love both my parents there's no difference between them

**Hijaabi22** · 08-25-2006

Originally Posted by learningislam

and well like all girls i am gonna say that "He is the best father on the planet " Alhumdulillah........May Allah give both of my parents long life and health .ameen

no my dad the best lol

**glo** · 08-25-2006

Originally Posted by samiya_06

i love both my parents but, my mom died when i was 2 years so i am close to my dad
allhamdulilah i love both my parents there's no difference between them

It's the other way round for me.

My dad died when I was 3.
I can't really say that I love my dad, because I don't remember him.
I respect my step-father for all the input he's had into my upbringing, and for caring and providing for my mother and us children, but I can't say I ever grew to love him.
I am closest to my mother, and I love and respect her loads. She's a great woman!

**Kittygyal** · 08-25-2006

Originally Posted by samiya_06

i love both my parents but, my mom died when i was 2 years so i am close to my dad
allhamdulilah i love both my parents there's no difference between them

but i don't have a dad apart from my step dad whom is a player! never talk to him never wana !