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    I've just realised and now I'm wondering
    There was guy working at my place, people come and go. He claims that he is muslim and that he prays 5 times a day. He asked me to exchange mobile numbers with him. Why? What for? My way of life, if he is a muslim, would be incompatible to his. Everything I do is "haram."
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    Re: Just wondered



    perhaps because he likes you...and would like to invite you to islam...perhaps discuss issues with you regarding islam, religion etc.
    whatever his intentions were, we cannot say can we...since we're not him

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    Re: Just wondered

    format_quote Originally Posted by +*Rooh*+ View Post


    perhaps because he likes you...and would like to invite you to islam...perhaps discuss issues with you regarding islam, religion etc.
    whatever his intentions were, we cannot say can we...since we're not him

    lol I asked this from an Islamic point of view. If you were to exchange numbers with a non-muslim, what for? Go out on the pull, drinking, dancing to music
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    Re: Just wondered

    maybe he just wants to know you but like sister Rooh said we don't know his intentions
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    Re: Just wondered

    format_quote Originally Posted by Abdullah2907 View Post
    maybe he just wants to know you but like sister Rooh said we don't know his intentions
    Well obviously, everyone likes me
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    Re: Just wondered

    format_quote Originally Posted by England View Post
    Well obviously, everyone likes me
    *cough*ahem*cough* ...insulting

    lol I asked this from an Islamic point of view. If you were to exchange numbers with a non-muslim, what for? Go out on the pull, drinking, dancing to music
    if i would do it, it would be because i would like to discuss religion.

    Last edited by The Ruler; 03-04-2007 at 03:26 PM.
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    Re: Just wondered

    Or maybe he liked you as a friend, I mean just because someone practicies the fundamentals doesnt mean they're angels


    Or maybe he wanted to invite you to this website.
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    Re: Just wondered

    Muslims are still humans and not everyone has ulterior motives, you know.
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    Re: Just wondered


    Perhaps he just wants to keep in contact with you, because he's a co worker and likes you?
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    Re: Just wondered

    Assalamu'alikum
    Don' trust anyone until you know more. this person may just be telling the truth or maybe lying. If he is a muslim what would he do with your number. Think about it. If he wants to keep in contact with you, because he's a collegue, then he should say so or show it. If he is a non-muslim, and he likes you, be careful. Consider your options. don't be hasty in making decisions.
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    Re: Just wondered

    format_quote Originally Posted by aamirsaab View Post

    Perhaps he just wants to keep in contact with you, because he's a co worker and likes you?
    format_quote Originally Posted by abzs View Post
    Assalamu'alikum
    Don' trust anyone until you know more. this person may just be telling the truth or maybe lying. If he is a muslim what would he do with your number. Think about it. If he wants to keep in contact with you, because he's a collegue, then he should say so or show it. If he is a non-muslim, and he likes you, be careful. Consider your options. don't be hasty in making decisions.

    He doesn't work there now. He asked and then left Friday. If he's trying to convert me.....lol :X
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    Re: Just wondered

    format_quote Originally Posted by England View Post
    He doesn't work there now. He asked and then left Friday. If he's trying to convert me.....lol :X
    lol.....r u scared you may revert if u exchange numbers & talk ?
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    Re: Just wondered

    format_quote Originally Posted by deen_2007 View Post
    lol.....r u scared you may revert if u exchange numbers & talk ?
    lol there is no chance of it happening kay: Hopefully I don't get texts after texts of the verses of the Quran :laugh:
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    Re: Just wondered

    format_quote Originally Posted by England View Post
    lol there is no chance of it happening kay:
    if your so confident ...prove it by exchanging it with someone who wants to give u a detailed understanding about what Islam really is.....i mean there is NO HARM in that is there?

    ........it doesnt have to be that guy from your work place......go to a mosque or something and ask a schollar to tell you as much as he can...give him a time limit of a week if you have to....then tell us how you feel after that....... .......So England..what do you say? you up for challenge?
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    Re: Just wondered

    format_quote Originally Posted by England View Post
    Hopefully I don't get texts after texts of the verses of the Quran :laugh:
    emmmmmmmmmm......i wouldnt say thats the best method of trying to invite someone in Islam..........txt msg's can be annoying sometimes ...*Beep beep beep* :blind:
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    format_quote Originally Posted by deen_2007 View Post
    if your so confident ...prove it by exchanging it with someone who wants to give u a detailed understanding about what Islam really is.....i mean there is NO HARM in that is there?

    ........it doesnt have to be that guy from your work place......go to a mosque or something and ask a schollar to tell you as much as he can...give him a time limit of a week if you have to....then tell us how you feel after that....... .......So England..what do you say? you up for challenge?
    Meh... lol. I haven't got the time. I have got a college course to keep up with in the evenings. Sounds interesting though


    format_quote Originally Posted by deen_2007 View Post
    emmmmmmmmmm......i wouldnt say thats the best method of trying to invite someone in Islam..........txt msg's can be annoying sometimes ...*Beep beep beep* :blind:
    I don't mind texts unless it's something that doesn't grab my interest.
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    Re: Just wondered

    format_quote Originally Posted by England View Post
    Meh... lol. I haven't got the time. I have got a college course to keep up with in the evenings. Sounds interesting though .
    okay....WE understand! ive got a lab report due on tues too.... ....but when you have time .... dnt stop to try out the challenge!



    format_quote Originally Posted by England View Post
    I don't mind texts unless it's something that doesn't grab my interest.
    i assure you ... text messages on Islam WILL grab you're attention (but ul be happy at the end)....But obviously...only if you address it in a neutral manner first
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    He just called me this minute. His accent is bloody hard to understand. I think he said something about going out on Saturday :blind:
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    Re: Just wondered

    format_quote Originally Posted by England View Post
    He just called me this minute. His accent is bloody hard to understand. I think he said something about going out on Saturday :blind:
    im sure u'l get used to the accent.........:zip: ...do what u feel is best
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    Re: Just wondered

    Muslims do have non Muslim friends ya know. So what if things you'll do are haraam? That doesn't mean that some stuff is halaal and we can be friends... Not necessarily is he just trying to convert you. He most probably just wants to keep in touch and be friends.

    lol @ the accent. Should be fun hanging out then!
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