As a new member I have spent much time reading through old threads and something that seems to jump out at me is the difference between the female and male responses. Women appear to discuss, then leave a thread when it becomes aggresive, whereas men 'go at it tooth and nail'. Are men naturally aggresive?
Why? because men are men, they do not have the capability to accept what others tell them and they certainly don't want to be tromped over by others.
I'd say its because most men are too proud. They have their honor and it is just natural for them to not dismiss a remark made by someone else.
If we look at the Prophet's life, we see many characteristics present in him that much so resemble how females are today. However that is not to say that he was 'female', All I'm saying is that men, over the centuries, have once again hardened themselves through these so called arguments that never end up going anywhere.
I do believe that I've learned more from many females on this forum than males. Am I aggressive? most likely not. People provoke me, yet I just ignore because most likely they do not have full knowledge of the subject. Some times I stand up for myself, if it does fail, I just go on with my life.
Hee hee, that is so funny you say you are not aggresive and your screen name is Alpha Dude!!!!!
Thank you noodles, I have been on just one thread so far and have already been told I am ignorant, etc, etc just because I don't want to bomb people. Think I will take a leaf out of your book and just walk away from such things.
yikes..men? well agression is their 2nd name...and sis ignoranc is of those who say that you are wen they fail 2 notice their own. lol ooops ive just contadicted myself here.well u get th point ryt?
but then theres the cliche of women being over emotional...how can u be ove emtional?
Okay I will admit to being over emotional sometimes but I would rather that than be so aggresive all the time. Perhaps it's true, men are from mars and women are from venus!!!
Scientifically...Men are more aggressive then Women due to difference in the hormones. thats what make them more aggressive than US women. :scared:
Culturally...Men tend to be more aggressive then women generally....because the cultural upbringing and norm & values brings them up to be ..that little tougher ...therefore...they take that step forward & act all tough!
Islamically...Men & women should be equal ; mood wise. But sadly due to the above 'facts'...men tend to be slightly more aggressive then women! but alhamdullilah that should change soon.
Realistically speaking....men tend to show they are more tough and agressive then Women! ....but when it comes to real stuff...we women are more tough then them! not agressive tough
I wonder if there is a scientific way to remove mens aggresive hormones at birth? lol
As for Islamically, my husband is arabic and whenever we have a 'discussion' about west/m.east issues I think he is going to burst into flames, talk about aggresive. Of course this just makes me laugh which makes him more angry. lol
We have to be tougher than men, they are dying if they get a cold, imagine if they had to have a baby!!!!
I wonder if there is a scientific way to remove mens aggresive hormones at birth? lol
oh no sister! that wouldnt be a good idea! :eek: ...because this hormone doesn't just account for their behaviour! it also accounts for their physical appereance, physical ability, voice, musculinity...etc...can you imagine them without that?
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We have to be tougher than men, they are dying if they get a cold, imagine if they had to have a baby!!!!
see sis! thats proves their all fluff inside while they act tough outside!
I wonder if there is a scientific way to remove mens aggresive hormones at birth? lol
As for Islamically, my husband is arabic and whenever we have a 'discussion' about west/m.east issues I think he is going to burst into flames, talk about aggresive. Of course this just makes me laugh which makes him more angry. lol
We have to be tougher than men, they are dying if they get a cold, imagine if they had to have a baby!!!!
This is why I thank Allah every day that he brought me into this world as a male
This is why I thank Allah every day that he brought me into this world as a male
oh....some1s admitting they wouldnt be able to cope! :X wel do u no why im happy allah made me a female? because 'that' pain we go through washes our sin away...lovely aint it? so the pains worthit in other words
As a new member I have spent much time reading through old threads and something that seems to jump out at me is the difference between the female and male responses. Women appear to discuss, then leave a thread when it becomes aggresive, whereas men 'go at it tooth and nail'. Are men naturally aggresive?
Men tend to be more obsessed rather than aggressive. The aggressive part comes from how they are raised rather that by their genes.
And a man can show obsession by talking endlessly rather than by demonstrating aggression.
However men are less likely to have a grudge and therefore any aggression they do show isn't likely to be permanent. But it is likely to be instant. But this factor can be found on some women as well.
So not everthing is a specific rule between the genders. It is really a general rule.
I bow to your better judgement sister, I don't think I would like my husband to become all girly overnight, I will just have to put up with his aggressive style of discussing. It would be a boring world if we were all the same.
LOL I love the fluff comment, think I'll show that to the hubby!!
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Re: Are men naturally aggresive?
...therefore...they take that step forward & act all tough! 
But sadly due to the above 'facts'...men tend to be slightly more aggressive then women! 
but alhamdullilah that should change soon. 
not agressive tough 
so the pains worthit in other words
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