I know this is going to sound bad, but there was a boy in my life before, before i started to practice. When i met him he had also just started practicing and left his old life behind him. Back then he kept asking me and tried to make me start covering and practice, not for himself but for the sake of Allah, and i know that. With him, my life changed like never before.
I never understood him then, but now when i'm practicing i understand him, i miss him and i hope he was around to see me. He was a reason, a motivation for me to start practicing. I tried all my best to keep in contact with him, but it feels like i've lost him forever, although he is still around. Sometiems i feel like it wasn't meant to be and he probably doesn't even remember me, but if that was the case then why can't i forgett him and move on, why did he play such a big part in my life, why did he change it if he was going to leave in the end. But only Allah knows what is best for us all, and that makes me go quiet.
Just felt like sharing my ''lostness'' with my fellow bro's and sis.
Alhamdulilah sister, May Allah make it easy for you and make Du'a for us plz. since the brother helped u so much make Du'a for him. Best way to repay him.
that's great...it's like another chance to come towards the right path again...Allah is the Most Merciful and may he forgive u and all of the Muslim ummah...Ameen...
i don't know if i will be lucky enough to see him again. The sad part is that we had intentions of getting married to each other, but due to bad circumstances there was so much misunderstanding created between us, by our own friends and ppl we knew. By the time i explained myself to him, it was too late, he wouldn't litsen to me. But i don't blame him, distance is a very bad curse for a relationship. As bro/sis in islam we're meant to share each otehr hapiness but there will always be some ppl that don't get the idea.
There are many ppl that come into your life, but only a few leave an impact, and everytime i pray, inevetably words of dua for him comes out of my mouth. Whatever i do, and wherever i go, i can't stop giving him the credit for saving my life, changing my life and bringing me close to my deen, it was Allah's will and he was the source.
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i don't know if i will be lucky enough to see him again. The sad part is that we had intentions of getting married to each other, but due to bad circumstances there was so much misunderstanding created between us, by our own friends and ppl we knew. By the time i explained myself to him, it was too late, he wouldn't litsen to me. But i don't blame him, distance is a very bad curse for a relationship. As bro/sis in islam we're meant to share each otehr hapiness but there will always be some ppl that don't get the idea.
There are many ppl that come into your life, but only a few leave an impact, and everytime i pray, inevetably words of dua for him comes out of my mouth. Whatever i do, and wherever i go, i can't stop giving him the credit for saving my life, changing my life and bringing me close to my deen, it was Allah's will and he was the source.
That's just it hun. It was Allah's Will and he was just the source - nothing more, nothing less. So, all the credit and praise goes to Allah. Fine if you miss him.... spend a few seconds thinking he did some good and thank Allah for making good people in His Creation. Then forget about it and move on. Live in the present and look to the future. Don't dwell on what was before as it stops you from moving forward.
That's just it hun. It was Allah's Will and he was just the source - nothing more, nothing less. So, all the credit and praise goes to Allah. Fine if you miss him.... spend a few seconds thinking he did some good and thank Allah for making good people in His Creation. Then forget about it and move on. Live in the present and look to the future. Don't dwell on what was before as it stops you from moving forward.
salaam
that's the thing with us humans, we don't realise the good of something until we loose it. Just make du'aa and inshallah allah will give you a righteous husband.
wa salaam
That's just it hun. It was Allah's Will and he was just the source - nothing more, nothing less. So, all the credit and praise goes to Allah. Fine if you miss him.... spend a few seconds thinking he did some good and thank Allah for making good people in His Creation. Then forget about it and move on. Live in the present and look to the future. Don't dwell on what was before as it stops you from moving forward.
Agree with u sis, all praise is to Allah. I'm just happy so many ppl actually do understand, i used to think there is something wrong with me feeling this way.
Anyways JazakAllah khair for all the replies. May Allah guide us all rightly and give us what is best for us.
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Agree with u sis, all praise is to Allah. I'm just happy so many ppl actually do understand, i used to think there is something wrong with me feeling this way.
Anyways JazakAllah khair for all the replies. May Allah guide us all rightly and give us what is best for us.
No problem as you welcome! Any problems you can questions to us again and we will be here..
May Allah Ta'ala guide you to right success in your future!
format_quote Originally Posted by Anonymous Tester
Agree with u sis, all praise is to Allah. I'm just happy so many ppl actually do understand, i used to think there is something wrong with me feeling this way.
Anyways JazakAllah khair for all the replies. May Allah guide us all rightly and give us what is best for us.
There's nothing wrong with u hun. We all suffer from nostalgia now and then. No harm in that. It only becomes dangerous when we let it start controlling us. I'm sure you won't let that happen anymore inshaAllah.
Ameen to the duaa. May Allah bless you with something/someone better in return.
^^ you've been given all the best advice here.....
hope you find it easy to go on now....just make dua for him like a bro adviced you above.....if only he knew u are so greatful to him....it dsnt matter...he'll know in akirah how you prayed for him.....thats the best thing ..
^ sis i know i've been given really good advice and i'm really thankful to u all. Now i know a bit better how to deal with things, and it doesn't matter wether he knows i'm grateful to him or not, cuz that is not my purpose. I was only speaking from my heart, and at the end of the day life is a journey, and in ur journey you come across a lot.
JazakAllah for all the sweet and good advice, now i know who i can always turn to in times of good sis to sis advice ( considering mostly sis replied, but i'm sure the bro's would be to a help if tehy could )
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