× Register Login What's New! Contact us
Results 1 to 9 of 9 visibility 1783

"This flame is nothing ..."

  1. #1
    Umm Abdullaah's Avatar
    brightness_1
    Account Disabled
    star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Religion
    Unspecified
    Posts
    75
    Threads
    15
    Rep Power
    0
    Rep Ratio
    39
    Likes Ratio
    0

    Arrow "This flame is nothing ..."

    Report bad ads?

    Qari Muhammad Qayyam (may the mercy of Allah be upon him) related that a great deal of fighting and bloodshed had started prior to the Indo-Pakistan partition of 1947. He said that a very beautiful daughter of a very rich man in a certain community stepped out of her house to visit her aunt, who lived no more than a few streets away. Suddenly a riot erupted as she had gone halfway and she found herself trapped with apparently nowhere to go. She saw a mosque nearby and quickly went inside, sitting in the women’s section. The rioting continued late into the night and this girl did not know what to do.

    The custodian of the masjid was a very young student there and late at night when he walked through the masjid before locking up he noticed this beautiful young lady. He was a respectful young man who feared Allah and so politely asked her to leave, saying that if she was found there then both would be dishonored and thrown out. She pleaded with him because of the extreme danger outside and so he agreed that she could spend the night, and sat down to study at the opposite end of the masjid.

    The girl was unable to sleep with the events of the day in her mind and so watched the young man sitting studying by candle light at the opposite end of the masjid. She kept watching him and was very surprised at something she saw. From time to time this young man would extend his hand and keep it over the open flame, only withdrawing it when the flame obviously became unbearable. He then would resume his studies and continued this throughout the night until the dawn broke.

    The young man called the adhan and asked the girl to leave before the congregation started coming to pray since now everything was calm outside. She agreed on the condition that he tell her why he was placing his hand on the candle flame throughout the night. The young man said that that was his own business and so the girl refused to leave until he told her what she wanted to know. The young man gave in and said, “I am at the age of youth and strong desire. We were alone and my desire was increasing, and although I was studying the shaytan would occasionally put temptation in my heart. Hence whenever I would feel any temptation I would put my hand on the flame and my fingers would burn. I would say to myself that this flame is nothing compared to the fire of Hell.”

    The girl left the masjid and reached home, calming her parents’ fears as to what had happened to her. She also confided in her mother that she wanted to marry the custodian of the mosque near their house. She related the night’s events to her parents and said that only such a man with true fear of Allah in his heart can be true to his wife. Only such a man who truly fears Allah can fulfill a wife’s rights properly.

    Hence the poor custodian of the mosque earned the daughter of a rich household in marriage. He received this honor not because of his looks but because of his character. Everything disintegrates and turns to dust but character remains strong. Honor is not bestowed because of handsome clothes or beautiful jewelry but because of what is in the heart. Knowledge is only beneficial when it is captured within the heart, and not merely written in books
    chat Quote

  2. Report bad ads?
  3. #2
    Riya90's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    Full Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jun 2005
    Location
    Fi Dunya :)
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    474
    Threads
    15
    Rep Power
    115
    Rep Ratio
    24
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: "This flame is nothing ..."

    mashAllaah .. jazakillaah khayr for sharing ..
    chat Quote

  4. #3
    Umm Abdullaah's Avatar
    brightness_1
    Account Disabled
    star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Religion
    Unspecified
    Posts
    75
    Threads
    15
    Rep Power
    0
    Rep Ratio
    39
    Likes Ratio
    0

    Re: "This flame is nothing ..."

    ameen. wa iyyaaki =)
    chat Quote

  5. #4
    jzcasejz's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Oldtimer
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Apr 2005
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    1,783
    Threads
    66
    Rep Power
    128
    Rep Ratio
    121
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: "This flame is nothing ..."

    As-Salaamu'alaikum

    JazaakAllaah Khayr! I remember hearing this story in a lecture before, forgot which one though.
    chat Quote

  6. Report bad ads?
  7. #5
    The Ruler's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    Cadavers.
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    7,146
    Threads
    72
    Rep Power
    143
    Rep Ratio
    55
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: "This flame is nothing ..."



    I liked that story. But I was wondering... Isn't harming oneself haraam?

    "This flame is nothing ..."


    chat Quote

  8. #6
    jzcasejz's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Oldtimer
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Apr 2005
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    1,783
    Threads
    66
    Rep Power
    128
    Rep Ratio
    121
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: "This flame is nothing ..."

    ^ Hmmm?...but this 'harm' brought benefits along with it. In that certain instance, I wouldn't count it as harming...rather a way of remembering Allaah (SWT).
    chat Quote

  9. #7
    AmarFaisal's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Senior Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Dec 2006
    Location
    Kuwait
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    949
    Threads
    27
    Rep Power
    107
    Rep Ratio
    38
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: "This flame is nothing ..."

    JazakAllah
    chat Quote

  10. #8
    - Qatada -'s Avatar
    brightness_1
    Spread this Avatar!
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    May 2005
    Location
    ...travelling to the hereafter..
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    11,346
    Threads
    798
    Rep Power
    158
    Rep Ratio
    55
    Likes Ratio
    5

    Re: "This flame is nothing ..."




    Masha Allaah.. deep. may Allaah make us pious, have taqwa and be steadfast upon it, ameen.
    chat Quote

  11. #9
    Umm Abdullaah's Avatar
    brightness_1
    Account Disabled
    star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Religion
    Unspecified
    Posts
    75
    Threads
    15
    Rep Power
    0
    Rep Ratio
    39
    Likes Ratio
    0

    Re: "This flame is nothing ..."

    format_quote Originally Posted by Amatul Malik View Post


    I liked that story. But I was wondering... Isn't harming oneself haraam?

    wa'alaykum as-salam wa-rahmatullah

    Was the benefit or harm greater?
    chat Quote


  12. Hide
Hey there! "This flame is nothing ..." Looks like you're enjoying the discussion, but you're not signed up for an account.

When you create an account, we remember exactly what you've read, so you always come right back where you left off. You also get notifications, here and via email, whenever new posts are made. And you can like posts and share your thoughts. "This flame is nothing ..."
Sign Up

Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 10
    Last Post: 12-18-2017, 06:26 AM
  2. "Fate" and "Nature"--the world's subtlest popular euphemisms
    By IAmZamzam in forum Comparative religion
    Replies: 11
    Last Post: 06-09-2011, 09:16 PM
  3. Muhammad (as) - "The Conqueror" of Apostle John's "Revelations"
    By SalamChristian in forum Comparative religion
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 03-25-2011, 08:53 PM
  4. Replies: 101
    Last Post: 10-03-2009, 05:03 AM
  5. "This flame is nothing ..."
    By - Qatada - in forum Manners and Purification of the Soul
    Replies: 10
    Last Post: 12-09-2007, 06:37 PM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
create