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    One should contemplate over what may bring him on good terms with allahbserving His Rights and the right of his slaves,pleasing all muslims,and abstaining from arrogance and pride in dealing with them all.
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    Re: good manners

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    How does one abstain from arrogance ?

    How does one control his temper ?
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    Re: good manners

    format_quote Originally Posted by al_islam View Post
    How does one abstain from arrogance ?

    How does one control his temper ?
    One can abstain from arrogance by thinking himself no better than any other Muslim. Pride is disliked by Allaah Ta'ala, and as Muslims we must be humble.

    In regards to controlling one's temper, leave wherever you are and think to yourself, pray two rakats, or read a Surah from the Quraan.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by Sister-Ameena* View Post
    One can abstain from arrogance by thinking himself no better than any other Muslim. Pride is disliked by Allaah Ta'ala, and as Muslims we must be humble.

    In regards to controlling one's temper, leave wherever you are and think to yourself, pray two rakats, or read a Surah from the Quraan.
    Shouldnt this mindset extend to unbelievers as well? Cause of noticed arrogance for merely being a muslim.
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    Re: good manners

    format_quote Originally Posted by Isambard View Post
    Shouldnt this mindset extend to unbelievers as well? Cause of noticed arrogance for merely being a muslim.
    Whats stopping an Atheist from praying ?

    Just cos u pray differently.

    If you dont pray you ... then you have other ways.

    Either way you have a way, derived thru islam to help you.
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    Re: good manners

    format_quote Originally Posted by Sister-Ameena* View Post

    In regards to controlling one's temper, leave wherever you are and think to yourself, pray two rakats, or read a Surah from the Quraan.
    Thats the hard bit...When Im there....I cant walk away.
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    Re: good manners

    format_quote Originally Posted by Isambard View Post
    Shouldnt this mindset extend to unbelievers as well? Cause of noticed arrogance for merely being a muslim.
    I guess. One shouldn't be arrogant at all, it shows a sense of pride and makes one come off as condescending.
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