aslamualaikum sistas n brovas...
i jus recently started goin 2 college.....afta persuading my parents soooooooooooooooo much!!! but now i understand y they werent too fond of me goin 2 college.....
its becuz the muslim youth der have seriously strayed from der religion.....and my parents didnt want me 2 go n act da same.....u know start smoking...goin out wit guys n all dat....but alhumdulilah....Allah has given me enuf understanding dat i can differenciate between wat is rite and rong....
2 tell ya da truth it reallllllllly upsets me 2 c da muslim youth at my college actin up....and not paying the least bit of attention 2 der deen.....
im not a 100% perfect muslimah......but i try my hardest 2 be a gud muslim inshallah.....
das y 1 of da most things i ask Allah in my dua's is that this ramadan....these young muslims will becum stronger in faith....
plz make dua aswell!!!!!! thnx
yeh, befreind these guys, say salam, hello, whatever. Invite them to eat at your house. ask em to come with you to pray salaat or something at college. Most colleges/uni's have prayer facilities available. Try finding one on campus. If not - you have a new goal - you can set one up! Hope it works out for you.
I know how you feel. I too am far from perfect and I too carry out mistakes but I do not go as far as some of the Muslims in my college.
I can HONESTLY say that I am the only ONE who wears the Jilabiyah and Hijab. The other girls wear tight clothes, no hijab, talk to guys-NO....they FLIRT and get quite close to them....last but not least.....they SMOKE! :confused:
i go to a college wher 99% of the ppl are English. Or should I say....racist.
But I'' tell you what keeps me going.....
My aims in life (becoming a gynocologist, scientist or a women and kid's dentist).
My love for Allah (praying 5 times a day and listening to Tilawah whilst doing my work).
And....just remembering that if I do anything wrong. Allah will never help me in life and will probably not love me anymore.
Just keep your chin up sister. Keep in mind that you are on the Right Path and if you do good via your actions....others will follow..InshAllah.
If you feel sad. I'm here for you to talk to. If you are depressed, I'm here to cry with you.
Cheer up, sis.
yeh, befreind these guys, say salam, hello, whatever. Invite them to eat at your house. ask em to come with you to pray salaat or something at college. Most colleges/uni's have prayer facilities available. Try finding one on campus. If not - you have a new goal - you can set one up! Hope it works out for you.
I think thats a bad idea, stay away from guys, go see the sisters first, and then approach the guys...
yeh, befreind these guys, say salam, hello, whatever. Invite them to eat at your house. ask em to come with you to pray salaat or something at college. Most colleges/uni's have prayer facilities available. Try finding one on campus. If not - you have a new goal - you can set one up! Hope it works out for you.
thnks 4 da advice sis........
thing is am abit of a shy gal lolz.........i wud say salam 2 da gals....
but they wud most likely giv me dirty luks.....i get weird luks n e way becus i wear da hijab along wid about 3 other gals in da whole college!!
and am not goin 2 say hi 2 n e guys..........der 2 corrupt.....i'll be der saying salaam 2 dem considerin dem as brothers n der'll be thinking sumfin quite different!!
we dont have a prayer thingy......i usually read at home b4 i go 2 college...n wen i get bac.......
but das a gud idea.........thnx..........i'll c wat i can do!!
I know how you feel. I too am far from perfect and I too carry out mistakes but I do not go as far as some of the Muslims in my college.
I can HONESTLY say that I am the only ONE who wears the Jilabiyah and Hijab. The other girls wear tight clothes, no hijab, talk to guys-NO....they FLIRT and get quite close to them....last but not least.....they SMOKE! :confused:
i go to a college wher 99% of the ppl are English. Or should I say....racist.
But I'' tell you what keeps me going.....
My aims in life (becoming a gynocologist, scientist or a women and kid's dentist).
My love for Allah (praying 5 times a day and listening to Tilawah whilst doing my work).
And....just remembering that if I do anything wrong. Allah will never help me in life and will probably not love me anymore.
Just keep your chin up sister. Keep in mind that you are on the Right Path and if you do good via your actions....others will follow..InshAllah.
If you feel sad. I'm here for you to talk to. If you are depressed, I'm here to cry with you.
Cheer up, sis.
m3 salaam :wilted_ro
thnx sis!!!!!!!!!!
das incredibley nyc!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I understand what you saying beacuse i feel the same, well its quite the opposite for me i don't want to carry on with my studies but ma dad's encouraging me to go further on in life...anywhere youngsters nawadays juss wana blend in with the crowd...its really hard 4 dem 2 do good deeds once you've been led astray...im not stiking up 4 dem on anyfin...o well lets leave Allah s.w.a 2 judge us and guide us 2 the right path ameen!
“Whoever puts his trust in Allah, sufficient is Allah for him.”
yea sis ur rite.........
but ur dads rite..........u need 2 go further in lyf.......
dont worri..........wid Allahs guidance we will stay on the right path throughout....
and inshallah Allah will guide those hu are goin astray.... ameen
It looks sick and revolting. I personally think its very unlady like.
In shariah, well, I presume its the same as the man (men and women ahve equal rights in Islam, remember).
Though, the subject of 'smoking' varies within scholars. I personally would not recommend it.
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