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    Wa `alaykum as-salamu wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

    In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.


    All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


    Sister, first of all, we’d like to say that we are impressed by your question, which emanates from a thoughtful heart. May Allah Almighty help us all adhere to the principles of this true religion, Islam, and enable us to be among the dwellers of Paradise in the Hereafter, Ameen.

    Paradise is the abode of the believers in the Hereafter. Allah has prepared for His believing servants, males and females, in Paradise indescribable bliss which no eye has seen, no ear has heard of, and that has never ever crossed the minds of people, to the extent that even the person who has the least blessings in Paradise will think that he is the most blessed one.

    In more than one Qur’anic verse, Allah Most High, calls upon His servants to do their utmost in order to be favored with Paradise. For example, He says, (And vie one with another for forgiveness from your Lord, and for a Paradise as wide as are the heavens and the earth, prepared for those who ward off (evil). ) (Al `Imran 3: 133)

    As regards your question, we’d like to inform you that in Paradise believing men and women will be showered with blessings; there is no room for discrimination based on sex in Paradise. The life of women in Jannah will be as pleasant and happy as the life of men. Allah is not partial to any sex. He created both of them and He will take care of both of them according to their needs and desires. Let us all work to achieve the Jannah and then,in sha’ Allah, we will find there what will satisfy all of us fully.

    In his response to your question, Dr. Sano Koutoub Moustapha, professor of Fiqh and its Principles, International Islamic University, Malaysia, states:

    Thank-you so much for your very interesting comments and understanding of the issue of polygamy and the blessings given to men in Heaven.

    I congratulate you for your logical ability and critical way of looking at things. However, I shall also confirm to you the issue of polygamy, be it in this life or the hereafter, it should not be classified as a privilege but rather a solution as you correctly mentioned in your arguments.

    In other words, Islam does not open the door of polygamy for all men as it does not open it to women at all. As you may know well that each ruling or law has an exception and the exception is not the principle, therefore, we can not judge a law through its exceptions.

    In this regard, I shall remind you that rewarding a mujahid with many wives doesn’t mean betraying the female mujahid.

    It simply means there is a such reward for those mujahids who are looking for it. In other words, there is no compulsion upon all mujahids to accept or reject this reward. It is exactly the same thing as the polygamy in this life.

    It is meant for those who want it, not for every single mujahid. Yet every Muslim man and woman who is allowed to enter Heaven is given the opportunity to get whatever he or she wants as clearly stated in the Qur’an and many Hadiths of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). This means that those women who don’t want their husbands to have more could be granted this wish and desire. At the same time if the husbands of those women want to have more than them Allah is great and can satisfy each of them in the way He, the Almighty, wants.

    Therefore, a woman should not be frustrated for a privilege of polygamy offered to men. This is not, for sure, at the expense of woman. Heaven is meant for both men and women, both of them are equally entitled to get what they wish for.

    Certainly, there would be no clashes in their wishes, if any, the Almighty knows how to please each of them. Having said that, I shall inform you that the existing setup of humans in terms of desire, would be changed on the day of Judgment.

    In other words, both men and women would not be allowed to enter Heaven in their existing physical makeup. They will be in a better and greater form as stated by the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Both of them would enjoy living together and having whatever they wish and like.

    Finally, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) describes Heaven as a place where there are many things which no eyes have ever seen, no ears have ever heard before and no heart has ever felt. Let us pray the Almighty to grant us this great and wonderful place. Let us work harder and harder to be in this place. It is only through our full submission to the will and the orders of Allah that we will one day be granted this place.
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    Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

    In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

    All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

    Sister, first of all, we’d like to say that we are impressed by your question, which emanates from a thoughtful heart. May Allah Almighty help us all adhere to the principles of this true religion, Islam, and enable us to be among the dwellers of Paradise in the Hereafter, Ameen!

    As regards your question, it should be clear that Paradise is the abode of happiness; all its dwellers, males or females, will be showered with Allah’s blessings and favors. There is no discrimination in this regard between men and women. It is righteousness and good deeds that elevates one’s rank in Jannah and exalts his/her position. In more than one Qur'anic verse, Allah, Most High, calls upon His servants to do their utmost in order to be favored with Paradise. For example, He says, (And vie one with another for forgiveness from your Lord, and for a Paradise as wide as are the heavens and the earth, prepared for those who ward off (evil). ) (Aal `Imran 3: 133)

    In this context, Dr. Muzammil H. Siddiqi, former President of the Islamic Society of North America, states:

    Jannah or Paradise is not for men alone. It is prepared for both, righteous men and righteous women. All the joys and blessings of Jannah are for both of them. Allah has mentioned in the Qur’an that He put both Adam and his wife Hawwa’ (Eve) in Jannah after creating them, and He told them to eat and enjoy everything (except the fruit of one tree). [See al-Baqarah 2: 35; al-A`raf 7: 19] Thus, all the trees, gardens and rivers of Jannah are made for both men and women and they both will enjoy them.

    All Believers, males and females, will enter the Jannah. Allah says, ( Gardens of perpetual bliss: they shall enter there, as well as the righteous among their fathers, their spouses, and their offspring) (ar-Ra`d 13: 23)

    Further, Allah says, (Indeed, the people of Paradise will be happily occupied. They and their wives shall be in shades, reclining on raised couches. There are for them fruits and there is for them all that they ask for…) (Ya-Sin 36: 55-57)

    In the Hereafter Allah will say to the Believers, (Enter the Garden, you and your wives, you will be made glad. There will be brought round for them trays of gold and goblets, and therein is all that the souls desire and eyes find sweet and you will stay there forever. This is the garden, which you are made to inherit because of what you used to do. Therein for you is fruit in plenty whence to eat. ) (Az-Zukhruf 43: 70-73)

    There are many other places in the Qur’an where it is mentioned that men and women both will find their reward and none will be deprived. [See: Aal `Imran 3: 195; An-Nisa’, 4: 124; An-Nahl 16: 97; Al-Ahzab 33: 35; Ghafir 40: 40]

    The life of women in Jannah will be as pleasant and happy as the life of men. Allah is not partial to any gender. He created both of them and He will take care of both of them according to their needs and desires. Let us all work to achieve the Jannah and then, in sha’ Allah, we will find there what will satisfy all of us fully.

    This verse clearly denotes that those women who do righteous deeds are rewarded with Paradise and given a high rank that is equal to the good deeds they have offered.
    Shedding more light on this issue, we'd like to cite the following fatwa issued by the outstanding Muslim scholar, Sheikh ibn Jibreen:

    There is no doubt that reward in the Hereafter encompasses both men and women. This is based on the following Qur'anic verses:

    ( Lo! I suffer not the work of any worker, male or female, to be lost) (Al `Imran 3: 195)

    (Whosoever works righteousness, whether male or female, while he (or she) is a true believer, We will give a good life. ) (An-Nahl 16: 97)

    (And whoever does righteous good deeds, being a male or a female, and is a true believer, such will enter Paradise. ) (An-Nisa 4: 124)

    (Verily, the Muslims, men and women, the believers, men and women... Allah has prepared for them forgiveness and a great reward. ) (Al-Ahzab 33: 35)

    Allah mentions them entering into Paradise together, saying:

    (They and their wives will be in pleasant shade. ) (Ya Sin 36: 56)

    (Enter Paradise, you and your wives, in happiness. ) (Az-Zukhruf 43: 70)

    Allah also mentions that He will recreate women in Paradise in the following verse:

    ( Lo! We have created them a (new) creation. And made them virgins… ) (Al-Waqi`ah 56: 35-36) That is, Allah will recreate the elderly women and make them virgins; the same will be done for old men, Allah will make them youth.

    It is also mentioned in the Hadith that the women of this worldly life have a superiority over Al-hur Al-`In due to the acts of worship and obedience that they performed in this world. Therefore, the believing women will enter Paradise just like the believing men. If a woman had a number of husbands, she, upon entering Paradise with them, would choose among them the one with the best character and behavior.

    Excerpted, with slight modifications, from: http://www.uh.edu/campus/msa/article....html#paradise

    Thus, rest assured dear sister that Allah never wrongs anyone, male or female, nor does He, Almighty, deprive any person of his/her work’s fruit.
    SOURCE:
    http://www.islamonline.net/fatwa/eng...hFatwaID=57582


    In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

    All thanks and praise are due to Allah and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

    Dear questioner, we would like to thank you for your good question and we implore Almighty Allah for His help in furnishing you with the best answer.

    In the very beginning, we would like to cite Ibn Kathir’s comment on the issue of men having Hoor Al-`Een. It reads:“ Almighty Allah tells us that He will provide the residents of Paradise with beautiful wives who have big and lustrous eyes and 'whom no man or Jinn before them has touched' and who are 'Like unto rubies and coral'”.

    In fact, Paradise is the abode of the believers in the Hereafter. Allah has prepared for His believing servants, males and females, in Paradise indescribable bliss that which no eye has seen, no ear has heard of and that has never ever crossed the minds of people, to the extent that even the person who has the least blessings in Paradise will think that he is the most blessed one.

    In more than one Qur'anic verse, Allah, Most High, calls upon His servants to do their utmost in order to be favored with Paradise. For example, He says, "And vie one with another for forgiveness from your Lord, and for a Paradise as wide as are the heavens and the earth, prepared for those who ward off (evil)." (Al `Imran: 133)

    All this indicates that in Paradise believing men and women will be showered with blessings; there is no room for discrimination based on gender in Paradise.

    Focusing more on this issue, Sheikh `Atiyyah Saqr, former Head of Al-Azhar Fatwa Committee, adds:

    [indent]“Here Allah mentions the Hoor Al`Een because in most cases men pursue women and not vice versa. As for women, Allah Almighty may marry them to any of the believers in Paradise, if they did not get married during worldly life, or He may compensate them by making them feel content with their position. It is also said that Allah may grant women some kind of beauty with which they will feel that they are better than the Hoor Al-`Een and that they are their mistress, so they will not love anyone other than their own husbands nor will they feel jealous of the Hoor Al-`Een.”

    Allah Almighty knows best.
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    http://www.islamonline.net/fatwa/eng...hFatwaID=25454



    Question:

    I am a firm believer in the Qur'an and Allah. Thank Allah my faith and trust in Him grows each day. My concern is this: the Qur'an mentions over and over the blessings of Heaven. It repeatedly mentions beautiful, pure maidens as a bounty of Heaven. People often say Islam is a male dominance religion.
    Why is there not mention of rewards for women?

    Answer:
    Praise be to Allah

    Since you believe in Allah and His Book, you must know that (": and not one will thy Lord treat with injustice"), Verse 49, Surat al-Kahf, or the Cave, and ("Allah is never unjust in the least degree: if there is any good done), He doubleth it, and gives from His Own Self a great reward") .

    Allah has meant this Law of Islam (Shari'ah) for both men and women. All address to men in the Quran is address to women, and all rules affecting men affect women as will unless evidence is established that one of them is .

    The evidence that women are included in Verses of the Quran in the male gender is a Hadith by ‘Ayishah who said that the Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) was asked about a man who sees traces of semen but does not remember having any dream of sexual nature. The Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Such man should perform the Ghusul (ritual ablution). He was also asked of a man who remembers a dream of sexual nature but sees no traces of semen. He said: "Such man does not have to perform the Ghusul (ritual ablution). Umm Salim said "A woman may have the same experience. Does she have to perform the Ghusul (ritual ablution)?" The Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Yes, there is no difference in this between man and woman." Narrated by Abu Dawud, at-Tirmizi 113 and others. The last .

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    Um Salamah said: "O Messenger of Allah. I did not hear a Verse in the Quran regarding the Hijrah (migration with the Prophet ) of women." Then was revealed the Verse: ("And their Lord has accepted of them, and ,and fought and were slain – Verily I will blot out from them their inequities, and admit them into gardens with rivers flowing beneath; ... A reward from Allah, and from Allah is the best of rewards."), Verse 195, Surat .

    Ibn Kathir (May Allah have mercy on him) said the Verse ("fastajaba lahum rabbuhum") means Allah replied to their queries ... and the Verse ("anni la udi’u ‘amala ‘amilin minkum min thakarin aw untha") is an explanation of the reply meaning that good deeds will not be lost or ignored. All men and women will have the just reward for their deeds. The Verse ("ba’dukum min ba’d") means you will be treated equally with respect to .

    If any do deeds of righteousness, be they male or female, and have faith, they will enter heaven, and not the least injustice will be done to them.) .

    In explanation of this Verse, Ibn Kathir (May Allah have mercy on him) said the Verse shows Allah’s kindness, generosity and mercy in accepting the good deeds of all people, men and women, provided that they believe, in .

    Whoever works righteousness, man or woman, and has faith, verily, to him will we give a life that is good and pure, and we will bestow on such their reward according to the best of actions.), Verse 97, Surat an-Nahl, or the .

    ,and the Sunnah of His Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him), be they men or women, if they believe in Allah and His Messenger (May peace and blessings be upon him), that He will make them live a good .

    He that makes evil will not be requited but by the like thereof; and he that makes a righteous deed – whether man or woman – And is a believer – Such will enter the garden (of bliss): therein will they have abundancewithout measure.) .

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    Um ‘Umarah al-Ansariyyah said that she went to the Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) and said to Him: "I feel that everything is for men. Women are not mentioned as having anything. Then was revealed the Verse: (For Muslim men and women, for believing men and women etc) .

    In the collection of Hadiths of Imam Ahmad was narrated the Hadith that Um Salama (May Allah be pleased with her) said: "I said "O Messenger (May peace and blessings be upon him) of Allah. Why aren’t we mentioned in the Quran in an equal footing with men?" Then; I was surprised to hear Him call one day from the pulpit: "O people." As I was combing my hair at the moment, I wrapped it up and came close to the door and stood there listening to Him say: "Allah, Mighty and Sublime be He, revealed that (For Muslim men and women; for believing men and women; for devout men and women, for true men and women; for men and women who are patient and constant; for men and women who humble themselves; for men and women who give in charity; for men and women who fast; for men and women who guard their chastity; and for men and women who engage much in Allah’s remembrance for them has Allah prepared forgiveness and great reward.) .

    .

    May Allah have blessing on Prophet Muhammad .
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    http://63.175.194.25/index.php?ln=en...e&QR=608&dgn=4



    Question:


    According to the Qur’an when a man enters paradise, he will get hoor, i.e. beautiful maidens. What will a woman have when she enters paradise?


    Answer:


    1. Hoor mentioned in the Qur’an


    The word hoor occurs in the Qur’an in no less than four different places:


    (1)** In Surah Dukhan chapter 44, verse 54 s


    "Moreover, We shall join them to companions
    With beautiful, big and lustrous eyes."
    [Al-Qur’an 44:54]


    (2)** In Surah Al-Tur chapter 52 verse 20


    "...And We shall join them to companions, with beautiful,
    big and lustrous eyes."
    [Al-Qur’an 52:20]


    (3)* In Surah Rahman chapter 55 verse 72


    "Companions restrained (as to their glances), in goodly pavilions."
    [Al-Qur’an 55:72]


    (4)** In Surah Al-Waqiah chapter 56 verse 22


    "And (there will be) companions with beautiful, big and lustrous eyes."
    [Al-Qur’an 56:22]


    2. Hoor Translated as Beautiful Maidens


    Many translators of the Qur’an have translated the word hoor as ‘beautiful maidens’ especially in the Urdu translations. If hoor means ‘beautiful maidens’ or girls, then they are meant only for the men. Hence, what will the women get if they enter Paradise?


    3. Meaning of Hoor


    The word hoor is actually the plural of ahwar (applicable to man) and of haura (applicable to woman) and signifies a person having eyes characterized by hauar a special quality bestowed upon a good soul, male or female in paradise and it denotes the intense whiteness of the white part of the spiritual eye.


    The Qur’an describes in several other verses that in paradise you will have azwaj which mean a pair or spouse or companion which means you will have spouses or companions pure and holy (mutaharratun means pure, holy).


    "But give glad tidings to those who believe and work righteousness, that their portion is gardens, beneath which rivers flow. Every time they are fed with fruits therefrom, they say: "Why, this is what we were fed with before", for they are given things in similitude; and they have therein companions pure (and holy); and they abide therein (forever)".
    [Al-Qur’an 2:25]


    "But those who believe and do deeds of righteousness, We shall soon admit to Gardens, with rivers flowing beneath – their eternal home; therein shall they have companions pure and holy: we shall admit them to shades, cool and ever deepening". [Al-Qur’an 4:57]


    Therefore the word hoor has no specific gender. Mohammad Asad has translated the word hoor as spouse and Abdullah Yusuf Ali as companion. Therefore according to some scholars a man in paradise will have a hoor that is a beautiful maiden with beautiful big and lustrous eyes and a woman in paradise will get a man with beautiful big and lustrous eyes.
    4.**** Women will get something exceptional in Paradise


    Many scholars say that in context, the word hoor used in the Qur’an refers only to ladies since gents are addressed. A reply that would be accepted by all types of people would rather be the answer given in the Hadith when a similar question was posed that if a man gets a hoor, a beautiful Maiden in Paradise, then what will the women get? The reply was that the women will get that which the heart has not desired for, the ear hasn’t heard off and the eye hasn’t seen, indicating that even the women will get something exceptional in Paradise.
    SOURCE:
    http://www.drzakirnaik.com/pages/qanda/29.php


    This should be enough info to clear up misconceptions.

    What will women get in Paradise?

    The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
    "Surely I was sent to perfect the qualities of righteous character" [Musnad Ahmad, Muwatta Mâlik]


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    I have always thought that it is unfair that a woman in paradise must share her husband with 70 or 72 hour al-ein. I Dunno.
    Anyways, I live in an arab muslim society (Tripoli, Lebanon) and I asked about this and most people I asked don't belive in this and some didn't even know about this.
    The people I asked are religious and they practice Islam...so if the idea was correct they would agree with it.
    Then I asked a mufti and his answer was that in the Quran it is not mentioned that a man gets 72 virgins. In The Quran it is mentioned that there are young boys who will serve the people of paradise and the Hour Al-Ein are also mentioned. Maybe they are also servants?
    The mufti I asked said that the people who believe that a man gets 72 virgins in paradise quote a hadith from the prophet (PBUH) that is weak.
    Oh and I wanna say that the people I asked r from 3 different generations...now personally this idea that we don't know if a man gets 72 virgins in paradise made more sense to me. I never liked the idea of a woman sharing her husband even if u say that God removes the jealousy from her heart. Why does God remove the jealousy from a woman's heart instead of removing lust from a man's heart? Ur thoughts plz...
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    Re: What will women get in Paradise?

    asalam alaikum wr wb,

    format_quote Originally Posted by Lara View Post
    Why does God remove the jealousy from a woman's heart instead of removing lust from a man's heart? Ur thoughts plz...
    What would be the point in having even one wife if Allah was to remove lust from a man's heart? The jannatees hearts will be one, so you might actually be over the moon (lol literally) about your husband having another wife

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    Interesting thread...only one question comes to mind;does a woman have to be with her wordly husband in Heaven,or can she marry another?

    Not every woman on this earth who gets married is completly and madly in love with her husband,maybe they married each other out of responsibility,maybe she married him because he was a proper husband,but was never really attracted to him,and she never really "clicked" with him.She only gets her husband in jannah,and that means she gets him,and him only for eternity.Does she have an option,or is it her husband right away?


    I'd imagine that if he mistreated her gravely,then he would be in Heaven..

    Sorry if I sound a bit pessimistic,I've just been surrounded by a lot of "blank" marriages,where women and men do not seem happy,just...o.k.They married because it was "there time".I do believe that a woman should be the happiest with her husband,but not everyone gets a perfect fairytell ending on this earth.And since we are talking here about jannah and eternity and complete bliss,I wonder if it would be allowed for her to marry another man in jannah.

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    "In this question there are two mistakes and a misunderstanding. The first mistake is where the questioner says that in Paradise a man will have seventy hoor ‘iyn. What is proven in the saheeh Sunnah is that the martyr (shaheed) will have seventy-two hoor ‘iyn. The least of the people of Paradise will have two wives, and some will have more than that.

    It was narrated that al-Miqdaam ibn Ma’di Yakrib said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: [COLOR="RoyalBlue"]“The martyr has six blessings with Allaah: he will be forgiven from the first drop of blood shed; he will be shown his place in Paradise; he will be protected from the torment of the grave; he will be safe from the greater terror; a crown of dignity will be placed on his head, one ruby of which is better than this world and everything in it; he will be married to seventy-two wives from al-hoor al-‘iyn; and he will intercede for seventy of his relatives.”

    ------------------------------------ If the ppl of paradise will be given two wives from the hoor, and the shaheed receives 72, then what about this hadith: And more than that has been narrated. Abu Na’eem narrated in Sifat al-Jannah from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A man will go to one hundred virgins in one day – i.e., in Paradise.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 367. ??
    How will they go to one hundred if they only have 2 while the martyrs have 72? I'm just curious lol
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    Re: What will women get in Paradise?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Sahabiyaat View Post
    JazakAllah Khair. good post
    now i can anwser my sisters never ceasing question 'why cant i have 70 husbands, its not fair!'
    why she wants 70 is beyond me :|
    LOL sis IDK why anyone would want 70 husbands.. but then again I also don't know why any man would want 70 wives... =/
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    Re: What will women get in Paradise?

    What I wonder about is how the prophets would have other wives, as in from the hoor.. Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. already had many wives and there was significance in each marriage.. He used to love Aisha r.a. the most so sometimes I wonder how he would have other wives from the hoor, and if he would have them. Idk, like they say, curiousity killed the cat =X
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    Re: What will women get in Paradise?

    I'm sure that the Muslimat will have many times to do things which other men aren't much time consume with it. For example: talking with Malaikat, talking with friends, making a game or an adventure with their friends, reading stories which they make, displaying their work of arts, talking with Jin etc.

    Because to men, Jima'(s.intercourse) is like no.1 in their mind, while for women is not no.1 obviously, there are so many things which they will do, like wearing various make up, different fashionable outfit, seeing Allahu Ta'ala etc.

    Hadits said that Allahu Ta'ala will give Huurin Iin every time a Muslim(man) hold his anger.



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    Re: What will women get in Paradise?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Abdul Thayyib View Post
    I'm sure that the Muslimat will have many times to do things which other men aren't much time consume with it. For example: talking with Malaikat, talking with friends, making a game or an adventure with their friends, reading stories which they make, displaying their work of arts, talking with Jin etc.

    Because to men, Jima'(s.intercourse) is like no.1 in their mind, while for women is not no.1 obviously, there are so many things which they will do, like wearing various make up, different fashionable outfit, seeing Allahu Ta'ala etc.

    Hadits said that Allahu Ta'ala will give Huurin Iin every time a Muslim(man) hold his anger.


    Assalamu'alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh.
    Wa alaikum as salam,
    yes I know brother most men are like that, unfortunately.. Anyhow, my question was about the prophets. Since their wives knew about this, didn't they ever ask about it or show some sort of disapproval? Not disapproval in a sense that it's wrong or anything but most likely they might've not liked the idea..
    What will women get in Paradise?

    "Kind speech and forgiveness are better than charity followed by injury. And Allah is Free of need and Forbearing."
    Al-Baqara verse 263 (2:263)


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    Re: What will women get in Paradise?




    sis confused, whenever u read about the rewards of jannah - they will differ in number depending on the reward the person is getting. i.e. the number 7/70 etc. means 'alot' in arabic, so it is true that a person in higher levels of jannah will have more rewards than a person who is of a lower level.


    about the wives of Allah's Messenger (sal Allah alaihi wasalam) not asking, they just wished they could get to jannah. besides, there are no ill feelings in jannah like we know from many verses from qur'an [Hijr 15:45], and alot of women get used to the jealousy in this life, but it [polygamy] is for a greater good [i.e. so the wife can be supported financially, intimately, and in every other way for marriage.]


    I'll paste an article on a new thread and link to it here insha Allah on how Allah's Messenger treated jealousy with his wives.

    http://ahlalhdeeth.com/vbe/showthread.php?t=519
    http://www.ahlalhdeeth.com/vbe/showthread.php?t=1362
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    Re: What will women get in Paradise?

    Jazak Allah brother.
    What will women get in Paradise?

    "Kind speech and forgiveness are better than charity followed by injury. And Allah is Free of need and Forbearing."
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    Re: What will women get in Paradise?

    I was mostly wondering about how they reacted to the concept of hoors.
    What will women get in Paradise?

    "Kind speech and forgiveness are better than charity followed by injury. And Allah is Free of need and Forbearing."
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    jzakom Allahu khyran
    What will women get in Paradise?

    Our prophet (pbuh) said: “Haya does not bring anything except good.”
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    Re: What will women get in Paradise?

    So it's like "What so big about love to husband or whatever, Allah's reward and meeting with Him are bigger than that, so what do I mind about Polygyny, I only mind if he does not have the capability and does not able to be fair and treat his wifes as equal. When he does so, I will remind him."
    Alhamdulillah, Polygyny is essentially blessings from Allahu Tabaraka Ta’ala.


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    Women and Men are not Equal. Islaam doesn't regard them as equal.
    Islam regards them as different but no gender is better than the other!!
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    Re: What will women get in Paradise?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Kahil_Aws View Post
    Women and Men are not Equal. Islaam doesn't regard them as equal.
    Islam does regard Men and Women as equals. They're equal but different. Like the brother said, no gender is better than the other.

    The first Muslim other than the Prophet (saws) was actually a woman.
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    all men will get 72 beautiful women, hoor ‘iyn or only martyres will ger ?
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    Re: What will women get in Paradise?

    I feel like I am doomed as a sister because I have had 3 muslim husbands and although there were some good times, I was also abused by them. Is there anywhere that states that a woman can have a husband that is better than anything they had on earth? Also, I thought the hoor al 3ayn were not just women.
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    Re: What will women get in Paradise?

    format_quote Originally Posted by moosa View Post
    all men will get 72 beautiful women, hoor ‘iyn or only martyres will ger ?


    The martyres get a special rank (so they get 72 hur ul 'ayn) because of how much they sacrificed for Allah's sake.

    The average man in jannah will have two wives according to other ahadith. And Allah knows best.


    format_quote Originally Posted by Haleema1979 View Post
    I feel like I am doomed as a sister because I have had 3 muslim husbands and although there were some good times, I was also abused by them. Is there anywhere that states that a woman can have a husband that is better than anything they had on earth? Also, I thought the hoor al 3ayn were not just women.


    There will be no enmity between people [in jannah/paradise] nor ill-feelings:

    “And We shall remove from their breasts any (mutual) hatred or sense of injury (which they had, if at all, in the life of this world).” (Quran 7:43)

    http://sisters.islamway.com/modules....rticle&sid=407
    The women who go to jannah from this life will be better than the hur ul 'ayn because they did good and sacrificed in this life for Allah's sake.
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