4get It!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :@

[AnonymousPoster]

Originally posted by Ibn-Muhammad

6 – It should be noted that what comes after being patient and seeking reward is pleasure and joy that is many times greater than what he could have got from keeping what he lost. Sufficient for him is the “house of praise” that will be built for him in Paradise as a reward for his praising his Lord and turning to Him (by saying Inna Lillaahi wa inna ilayhi raaji’oon (Verily to Allah we belong and unto Him is our return)). So let him decide which of the two calamities is greater: a calamity in this world, or the calamity of missing out on the house of praise in eternal Paradise. In al-Tirmidhi it is narrated in a marfoo’ report: “On the Day of Resurrection people will wish that their skins had been cut with scissors in this world, when they see the reward of those who were struck with calamity.” One of the salaf said: Were it not for the calamities of this world, we would come empty-handed on the Day of Resurrection.

jazakallah khair this helped a lot brother ibn-muhammad

Originally posted by anonymous

May Allah increase their ranks in the hereafter, and give them the Best Life in this world, and the Next. Aameen.

ameen same 2 u inshallah

alth, talents and good looks (don’t argue with me on that one u blind lil….)

lol

jazakallah khair all, feeling a bit better

 

[snakelegs]

do you know what? i don’t believe Allah tests those he luvz coz if u luv sum1 u wouldn’t want to see them in pain and at the end of their patience all the time, so what is this???????? what kind of love is this!!!!! i'm in pain everyday, at the edge of my patience, been praying to Allah for 3 years n yet i've not been answered!!!! WHAT KIND OF LOVE IS THIS???????!!!!!!!!!

is it possible that you have been answered but have not been quiet enough to hear it? just something to think about.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Even this very thread could be an answer from Allaah, subhanAllaah it even comforts me so much...


jazakAllaahu khair to everyone.


Assalaamu Alaikum

 

[truemuslim]

Rasullallah (saw) said to always be patient in order to earn the high part of jannah. you should really be patient, go to hajj, pray, fast, everything, and allah will grant you the great place in jannah.

 

[Umm Hurairah]

Asalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabaraktu,

I was just listening to a bayaan/lecture by Moulana Tariq Jameel and Masha Allah it's awesome.

Like two seconds ago, he just narrated a hadith saying that:

On the Day of Judgment, Shaheed/martyred people will come and Allah (SWT) will say: "Question them"

Pious people will come and Allah (SWT) will say: "Question them."

Sedeeq people will come and Allah (SWT) will say: Question them."

People that had been tested in this world will come and Allah (SWT) will say: "Don't question them. I'm shy to question them after the hardships they have gone through."

Allah (SWT) will question shaheeds and he won't question the people that have been tested in this life!!!

Think about this please.

 

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Subhaan Allaah, can u post that here please?

 

[Umm Hurairah]

:salamext:

Subhaan Allaah, can u post that here please?

Waalaikumusalaam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu,

Aulad ki maut (Child's death) Part 1:

http://fdc.aswatalislam.net/Audios/Lectures%5CTariq%20Jamil%5C/Tariq%20Jamil%20-%20Aulad-E-Nabi%20Ki%20Maut%201%20(www.aswatalislam.net).mp3

Part 2:

http://fdc.aswatalislam.net/Audios/Lectures%5CTariq%20Jamil%5C/Tariq%20Jamil%20-%20Aulad-E-Nabi%20Ki%20Maut%202%20(www.aswatalislam.net).mp3

I hope the links work Insha Allah. btw the bayaan/lecture is in Urdu so if you don't understand Urdu then I'm sorry.

 

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:salamext:

I went to AswatAlIslam n downloaded the Mirror Link

I understand Urdu lol, Alhamdulillah.

Jazaak Allaah Khayr!

 

[Abida]

I have a sister whos in problems but unfortunately shes gone away from islam.. she drinks alcohol etcetc..
Remember that pain will get u closer to Allah, and for every pain and tear youll be rewarded insAllah.. May Allah help u resolve it all soon. Ameen.

 

[Woodrow]

Each of us suffers much more pain than any body else.













Pain is very individual. We have no way of knowing how much pain another person feels for similar incidents we each have faced. We can not accuratly measure the pain of another. We can only learn what pain they feel more then the others.

Pain, Pleasure, happiness, sorrow, grief, anger, these are all things that bring us to the point we are at this very minute. The thing to keep in mind is that if we can complain about it, we know we are still alive and can still achieve much. Looking back at my own life, I can remember many moments of pain, joy, saddness, anger, love, hate fear, strength and more. If any one of those had not happened my views and enjoyment of life would not be as it is today. I am quite content with where I am at this point and because I know that if any one thing in my past had been different, I might not see and feel life as I do today. so although I would not like to relive even one second of my pains and sorrow, I am glad they happened because without them I might not be as I am today. So it is with you, the pains you feel today will be part of what you will experience in old age. You do have options, you can use the pain as a guide to shape your future as is best for you. Do not miss this wonderful moment by getting lost in the pain and stagnating where you now are. Use these moments as part of the building material to form your future both in this life and in the hereafter.

 

[NoName55]

Abû Hurayrah relates that Allahs Messenger (peace be upon him) said: “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak a good word or remain silent. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his neighbor. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his guest.” [Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim]

whenever I come across ignorant people talking trash, be it on internet or in real life, when told of their errors, they almost always resort to this one line ; “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak a good word or remain silent. (implication being that whoever told them of there stupidity is not a believer)

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

whenever I come across ignorant people talking trash, be it on internet or in real life, when told of their errors, they almost always resort to this one line ; “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak a good word or remain silent. (implication being that whoever told them of there stupidity is not a believer)

i understand your aggravation but there is a way in which to rebuke and advise people.

I remind myself before all, close enough to everyone lacks in akhlaq so much..

 

[Ummu Sufyaan]

Many people are mistaken about the issue of du’aa’ in many ways. With regard to your question we want to point out two mistakes:

1 – You think that du’aa’ is answered just because you say du’aa’. This is wrong, because there are conditions for du’aa’s to be answered and there are impediments which prevent it from being answered.

For a detailed discussion concerning this matter, please see the answer to question no. 5113.

In that discussion you will see that one of the impediments to du’aa’ being answered in your case is your being impatient and getting frustrated.

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A person will still be answered so long as his du’aa’ does not involve sin or severing ties of kinship, and so long as he does not become impatient.” It was said: O Messenger of Allaah, what does being impatient mean? He said: “Saying, I said du’aa’, and I said du’aa’, and I did not receive any response, then he becomes frustrated and stops saying du’aa’.” Narrated by Muslim (2735).

2 – You think that the response can only be of one kind, which is getting what you asked for in du’aa’ such as wealth, children, a job and so on. This is wrong, because the response may be of three types: it may be by getting what one asked for in du’aa’, or it may be that evil commensurate with one’s du’aa’ is warded off, or that may be stored up for one as reward for the Day of Resurrection.

It was narrated from Abu Sa’eed that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There is no Muslim who does not offer any du’aa’ in which there is no sin or severing of family ties but Allaah will give him one of three things in return: either He will answer his du’aa’ sooner, or he will store it up for him in the Hereafter, or He will divert an equivalent evil away from him because of it.” They said: “We will say a lot of du’aa’.” He said: “Allaah is more generous.” Narrated by Ahmad (10749), classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb (1633).

Al-Qurtubi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

It was said to Ibraaheem ibn Adham: Why is it that we supplicate and receive no response?

He said because you know Allaah but you do not obey Him, and you know the Messenger but you do not follow his Sunnah, and you know the Qur’aan but you do not act in accordance with it, and you eat from the blessings of Allaah but you do not give thanks for them, and you know Paradise but you do not seek it, and you know Hell but you do not flee from it, and you know the shaytaan but you do not fight him rather you agree with him, and you know death but you do not prepare for it, and you have buried the dead but you do not learn a lesson from that, and you ignore your own faults and are preoccupied with other people’s faults.

Tafseer al-Qurtubi (2/312).
Study this brilliant passage from the writings of Ibn al-Jawzi concerning this matter. He (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

I think part of the test is when a believer supplicates and receives no response, and he repeats the du’aa’ for a long time and sees no sign of a response. He should realize that this is a test and needs patience.

What a person experiences of waswaas when the response is delayed is a sickness which needs medicine, I have experienced this myself. A calamity befell me and I supplicated and did not see any response, and Iblees started to lay his traps. Sometimes he said : The generosity (of Allaah) is abundant and He is not miserly, so why is there a delay?

I said to him: Be gone, O cursed one, for I have no need of anyone to argue my case and I do not want you as a supporter!

Then I told myself: Beware of going along with his whispers, for if there was no other reason for the delay except that Allaah is testing you to see whether you will fight the enemy, that is sufficient wisdom.

My soul (nafs) said: How could you explain the delay in the response of Allaah to your prayers for relief from this calamity?

I said: It is proven with evidence that Allaah, may He be glorified and exalted, is the Sovereign, and the Sovereign may withhold or give, so there is no point in objecting to Him.

2 – The wisdom behind that is proven in definitive evidence. I may think that something is good, but wisdom does not dictate it, but the reason for that may be hidden, just as a doctor may do things that appear outwardly to be harmful, intending some good purpose thereby. Perhaps this is something of that nature.

3 – There may be an interest to be served by delay, and haste may be harmful. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A person will be fine so long as he does not become impatient and says, ‘I prayed but I did not receive any answer.’”

4 – The response may be withheld because of some fault in you. Perhaps there was something dubious in what you ate or your heart was heedless at the time when you said the du’aa’, or your punishment is being increased by means of your need being withheld, because of some sin from which you have not repented sincerely.

So look for some of these reasons, so that you might achieve your aim.

5 – You should examine the intention behind this request, because attaining it may lead to more sin, or prevent you from doing some good, so withholding it is better.

It was narrated that one of the salaf used to ask Allaah to help him to go out on campaign, but a voice called out to him: If you go out on campaign you will be taken prisoner, and if you are taken prisoner you will become a Christian!

6 – Perhaps losing what you have missed out on will cause you to turn to Allaah and getting it will distract you from Him. This is obvious, based on the fact that were it not for this calamity you would not have turned to Him, because the real calamity is what distracts you from Him, but what makes you stand before Him is good for you and is in your best interests.

If you ponder these things you will focus on what is more beneficial for you, such as correcting a mistake or seeking forgiveness or standing before Allaah and beseeching Him, and forget about what you have missed out on . End quote.

Sayd al-Khaatir (59-60).

I advise you to read the whole fatwa, as ive only quoted the relavant parts above.
Source

Things which may prevent du’aa’ from being answered include:

1. When the du’aa’ is weak in itself, because it involves something inappropriate, or involves bad manners towards Allaah, may He be exalted, or it is inappropriate, which means asking Allaah for something which it is not permitted to ask, e.g. when a man asks to live forever in this world, or he asks for a sin or something haraam, or he prays that he will die, and so on. Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A person's du’aa’s will continue to be answered so long as he does not pray for something sinful or for the breaking of family ties.” Narrated by Muslim.

2. When the person who is making du’aa’ is weak in himself, because he is faint-hearted in his turning towards Allaah. This may be either because of bad manners towards Allaah, may He be exalted – such as raising his voice in du’aa’ or making du’aa’ in the manner of one who thinks he has no need of Allaah; or because he pays too much attention to the wording and tries to come up with unnecessarily ornate phrases, without paying attention to the meaning; or because he tries too hard to weep or shout without really feeling it, or he goes to extremes in that.

3. The reason why his du’aa’ is not answered may be because he has done something that Allaah has forbidden, such as having haraam wealth – whether it be food or drink or clothing or accommodation or transportation, or he has taken a haraam job, or the stain of sin is still in his heart, or he is following bid’ah (innovation) in religion, or his heart has been overtaken by negligence.

4. Consuming haraam wealth. This is one of the major reasons why du’aa’s are not answered. Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “O people, Allaah is Good and only accepts that which is good. Allaah commanded the pious to follow the same commandments as He gave to the Messengers. He says (interpretation of the meaning):

‘O (you) Messengers! Eat of the Tayyibaat [all kinds of Halaal (lawful) foods which Allaah has made lawful (meat of slaughtered eatable animals, milk products, fats, vegetables, fruits)] and do righteous deeds. Verily, I am Well-Acquainted with what you do’ [al-Mu’minoon 23:51]

‘O you who believe (in the Oneness of Allaah — Islamic Monotheism)! Eat of the lawful things that We have provided you with’ [al-Baqarah 2:172]

Then he mentioned a man who has travelled on a long journey and is dishevelled and covered with dust; he stretches forth his hands to the heaven, (saying) “O Lord, O Lord”, but his food is haraam, his drink is haraam, all his nourishment is haraam, so how can he du’aa’ be accepted?” Narrated by Muslim.

The man described by the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) had some of the characteristics which help du’aa’s to be answered – he was travelling and he was in need of Allaah, may He be exalted and glorified – but the fact that he consumed haraam wealth prevented his du’aa’ from being answered. We ask Allaah to keep us safe and sound.

5. Trying to hasten the response. Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The du’aa’ of any one of you will be answered so long as he is not impatient and says, ‘I made du’aa’ but it was not answered.’” Narrated by al-Bukhaari and Muslim.

Source

 

[syilla]

whenever I come across ignorant people talking trash, be it on internet or in real life, when told of their errors, they almost always resort to this one line ; “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak a good word or remain silent. (implication being that whoever told them of there stupidity is not a believer)

Please don't judge people just by their complaints on the internet...
i know you have 'the' knowledge...but i'm sure thats not the prophet Muhamaad :arabic5: ways.

You can never know one day she/he will be better than you.

to the 1st post :

Al-Hasan al-Basri said:

people are all the same in health and ease, but when hardship befalls them, true distinction is shown

A strong faith unveils itself in strong hardships.

A believer sees in Yahya, son of Zakariyya, a fine example. He was killed by a tyrant who confronted him, yet He (Glorified and Exalted), who made him a prophet, did not intervene nor defend him.

Musa (peace be upon him) prayed against Fir’awn, who killed children and crucified magicians and cut their hands, for 40 years before he was answered.

 

[sevgi]

it appears we have forgotten abt the initial poster and have begun an argument on the tactics of responding to posts...

so far off topic...

i mite add that i believe the thread starter will be fine.she/he is a very strong individual...

sometimes we feel lonely.we have nowhere to turn to...and we are on the verge of losing hope in Allah. we feel the need to bring this to 'anyones' attention...some people chose to do it the way the OP did.

peace.

 

[al-muslimah]

AnonymousGender,are you even Muslim to begin with.I can't tell.If yes,
then the answer to your statement:do you know what? i don’t believe Allah tests those he luvz coz if u luv sum1 u wouldn’t want to see them in pain and at the end of their patience all the time, so what is this???????? what kind of love is this!!!!! i'm in pain everyday, at the edge of my patience, been praying to Allah for 3 years n yet i've not been answered!!!! WHAT KIND OF LOVE IS THIS???????!!!!!!!!!----------------------

Yes Allah does test those whom he loves and even rasullah would have been ashamed to hear this from a follower of his just like when Khabbab ibn al-arrat came to him when they were being persecuted in Makkah and said " Aren't u gonna ask Allah to pray for us (help us)?" he sat up straight, as he was laying down under the ka'bah and replied" the ones before use to suffer more than this and would be brought before their leader and he would say apostasize form this religion and they eould never do so , a axer would be placed on top of their head and they would be cut into peices and another would be told the same and he would refuse until they place an iron comb on his head and peel his scalp with it.Eww. But all for islam and Allah says -walaqibatu lil mutaqeen--the end victory is for the believers.So yes patience indeed.Musa(AS) and he suffered worse than this and he had patience with banu israil.

 

[tigersabre]

AnonymousGender,are you even Muslim to begin with.I can't tell.If yes,
then the answer to your statement:do you know what? i don’t believe Allah tests those he luvz coz if u luv sum1 u wouldn’t want to see them in pain and at the end of their patience all the time, so what is this???????? what kind of love is this!!!!! i'm in pain everyday, at the edge of my patience, been praying to Allah for 3 years n yet i've not been answered!!!! WHAT KIND OF LOVE IS THIS???????!!!!!!!!!----------------------

Yes Allah does test those whom he loves and even rasullah would have been ashamed to hear this from a follower of his just like when Khabbab ibn al-arrat came to him when they were being persecuted in Makkah and said " Aren't u gonna ask Allah to pray for us (help us)?" he sat up straight, as he was laying down under the ka'bah and replied" the ones before use to suffer more than this and would be brought before their leader and he would say apostasize form this religion and they eould never do so , a axer would be placed on top of their head and they would be cut into peices and another would be told the same and he would refuse until they place an iron comb on his head and peel his scalp with it.Eww. But all for islam and Allah says -walaqibatu lil mutaqeen--the end victory is for the believers.So yes patience indeed.Musa(AS) and he suffered worse than this and he had patience with banu israil.

It's probably best to assume that when someone says they're muslim, they probably are.

 

[vpb]

do you know what? i don’t believe Allah tests those he luvz coz if u luv sum1 u wouldn’t want to see them in pain and at the end of their patience all the time, so what is this???????? what kind of love is this!!!!! i'm in pain everyday, at the edge of my patience, been praying to Allah for 3 years n yet i've not been answered!!!! WHAT KIND OF LOVE IS THIS???????!!!!!!!!!

[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukBX2TvfyQE[/media]

 

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:salamext:

Subhaan Allaah.....This video always make me cry man!!

 

[vpb]

it's a 1st class video