A few things that really bother me about some ppl on this forum

[Umar001]

See now I see a different view point to ya piont lol if that makes sense.

See now when you talk about people relaxing too much in view of the other gender thats something different to just saying that people shouldnt try be fake or something.

Well if thats the case (i.e. that through slang people become too relax thus provoking bad inter gender interaction) then I think maybe that should be put strictly, and properly reinforced as in, if someone doesnt type properly, because it may lead to people getting it on, that person should be banned or something. If it is that serious of a thing. And if those measures were taken I wouldnt debate, not that I have any power lol.


As for those 'idiots' my brothers who attend jumma, Alhamdulilah, even though they may have faults, which could range from a number of places, maybe feeling left out, insecurities and some are probably just ignorant, I hope that they keep attentding and straighten up, but you see, I personally have always had this problem, the way I type people dont see it so its ok for me online, but face to face I have had the same problems, people see me in 'unsuitable' gear, but they don't get that I am not trying to be threatenin or trying to be Tupac or something I am what I have been brought up as, and what I feel comfortable in, I hope the Muslims who feel comfortable speaking in their slang which they may have been brought up in, and dont intend to cause harm on noone, I hope they dont feel 'turned' away as such.

If the truth is that speaking in a slangish manner which is natural for some does provoke conversation which may be bad then I say if the forum feels that way Ban it totally, but ban it properly, if someone does it ban 'em.

But if it's just because it get's on people's nerves then I plead that we be a little more tolerant towards each other.

Salam Aleykum sis

 

[x Maz x]

All this shows is that their attitude is lax and that they need to be more concious about the way they are putting themselves across.

Yeh we all do, just cause one abbreviates speach but is sincere and genuine in his/her posts does that apply for them aswell?

Theyre being too relaxed and what happens when people relax? its much easier for them to joke around with ppl, its ok in the gender only sections but when you u have members of the oposite sex you should talk in a professional way, im not saying use big vocab n talk like ur a bank manager, Im simply saying that they need to be more aware of what theyre typing, because when theyre freely typing away without any concious effort to come across as respectful and decent theyre attitude flops and then they talk like this is a doss house and have a laugh and a giggle.

Yes and it causes fitnah, Tobah...InshAllah we have learnt from this mucho beneficial post..JazakAllah Khair

If they paid more attention with what they were typing and engaged their brains before they spoke, they would sound fresher, cleaner, more humble, more respectful and perhaps people would take them seriously.

I take people seirously regardless of their manner of commnicating, at the end of the day...why base my verdict about them when only reading a post written in slang? who am i? :X

Its like those idiots who go to jumah prayers dressed in their most expensive chavved out gear, silver chain, earing, cap, walk with a limp, have their trousers on low so that their boxer shorts are visible a mile away n walk in like they own the place n try to intimidate others and think theyre better then other brothers who are humble out of love for the prophet saw.

CHAVS written all over them Pshhh at 'em...Allah guide them to whats right

How can the brothers then take them seriously when they look pathetic in their eyes? To me its just the same as on a forum, we're all muslim, no ones better then any one else except in piety, so why post with this big stinking attitude thinking ur some g cuz u talk like dis u get me blood/bredrin.

Again its like saying to a Paki drop your accent and speak like I do cause your note better than me you Paki? lol...Its just a manner of communicating get me bwedrin? :rollseyes

All Im saying is that can these ppl inform their brains before their fingers start wizzing away at the keyboard and be more respectful and alert n be aware, other wise theyll start wondering why people dont take them seriously.

InshAlllah, I have and I urge fellow companions of this kingdom to take heed...for the benefit of users including yourself and to save yourself from the hassle just give it up!

 

[Z]

daffodil, i hate to say this, but this has been done over a few times. i've tried myself, i know dude laterus (however he spells his name) has tried, and i believe hasib (who doesn't want to come back here now) has also tried.

the point it, this board is for a chillout. it's swamped with kids who can't fit in anywhere else, or want to show their 'cool'/g side because it can't be shown on any other message boards or outdoors on the streets - whichever the case.

dig into the archives, you'll see the endless banter about it all. you'll be better off leaving the matter and ignoring it. the mods don't seem to be wanting to do anything about it either, and i guess everyone else is either pretty content with it or has learnt to ignore it.

kudos for trying though.

 

[x Maz x]

daffodil, i hate to say this, but this has been done over a few times. i've tried myself, i know dude laterus (however he spells his name) has tried, and i believe hasib (who doesn't want to come back here now) has also tried.

Respect for them then eh?

the point it, this board is for a chillout. it's swamped with kids who can't fit in anywhere else, or want to show their 'cool'/g side because it can't be shown on any other message boards or outdoors on the streets - whichever the case.

Your right, yes it is 'swamped with kids'...but are you to ignorant to realise that these 'kids' wish to gain dawah? Why do you think these 'kids' have joined this site???..
You judge all us 'kids' by the manner of how we converse?? :? Sorry i dont quite get that...
I dont want to be a G and I aint a 'G' i leave that to the Paki breda's cotchin' on street corners taking spliff thinking they rude...

dig into the archives, you'll see the endless banter about it all. you'll be better off leaving the matter and ignoring it. the mods don't seem to be wanting to do anything about it either, and i guess everyone else is either pretty content with it or has learnt to ignore it.

You know what...allow you, you judge us all bout the manner in which we interact in..wow Chears!

kudos for trying though.

Yeh i'll big her up to ma local homies geme bredwin?

 

[Umar001]

daffodil, i hate to say this, but this has been done over a few times. i've tried myself, i know dude laterus (however he spells his name) has tried, and i believe hasib (who doesn't want to come back here now) has also tried.

the point it, this board is for a chillout. it's swamped with kids who can't fit in anywhere else, or want to show their 'cool'/g side because it can't be shown on any other message boards or outdoors on the streets - whichever the case.

dig into the archives, you'll see the endless banter about it all. you'll be better off leaving the matter and ignoring it. the mods don't seem to be wanting to do anything about it either, and i guess everyone else is either pretty content with it or has learnt to ignore it.

kudos for trying though.

Whao man I never knew it was this deep rooted, I never knew people could get so fastruated about such minor things.

I mean I can understand people maybe getting annoyed at others but not to the point that they will leave a board. but Alhamdulilah I mean whats best to keep us from getting angry at our fellow bros and sis.

Well I hope those that can and dont mind speaking 'normal' 'non-black' 'non-50cent' please refrain because it annoys others. InshAllah.

Sorry to hear that people have left over this and I hope you stick around Z, and if I ever annoy ya just tell me and I will try my best not to.


Salam ALeykum


EDIT: MAZ PLEASE DONT SAY BREDWIN ITS TERRIBLE LOL I HAD A FRiEND SAYING IT IT WAS TERRIBLE PLEASE! And I dont think the people mean to get ya mad its just something that happens.

 

[Pk_#2]

geez was rong wiv slang...i int no gangstress but ima ryt howeva ah like...

wats hapnin 2 da ummah?

'tis tym 2 pick on da ppl hu dnt use standard english tym agen'

get a life...N STOP FINDIN FAULTS IN OVA PPL

AM SHO DER R MANY FINGS DAT U CNT GET RYT DAH OVAS CAN

n dis issue is rather small...dnt ya fink?

thnx

 

[Z]

see what comes with the way of speaking, is the attitude, the way of thought. look at the figures, they speak for themsevles.

 

[Pk_#2]

Theyre being too relaxed and what happens when people relax? its much easier for them to joke around with ppl, its ok in the gender only sections but when you u have members of the oposite sex you should talk in a professional way, im not saying use big vocab n talk like ur a bank manager, Im simply saying that they need to be more aware of what theyre typing, because when theyre freely typing away without any concious effort to come across as respectful and decent theyre attitude flops and then they talk like this is a doss house and have a laugh and a giggle.

some people are.....not evryone

yeah bro Isa i'd like to leave it...but da ting is standard english get on ma nerves...so r dey prepared 2 leave it...? c if y'all go wiv dat rule...no one will b talkin...so foget it

 

[x Maz x]

Stop publicising people's sins...get a life and go sit back in your office if you take it to heart Thanks Peace out x

 

[Pk_#2]

wah office...dis person dnt deserve no office jeez...no wayyy am i takin dis noooo way!!!!!!!! *waits fo apologies* (jke)

^^^Fitna lol too much joking around :O

 

[Umar001]

see what comes with the way of speaking, is the attitude, the way of thought. look at the figures, they speak for themsevles.

See, I am sorry to see this type of statement, there are rude people that speak in every manner.

I speak in what may be considered a slang way but I have not been disrispectful to people in here. Not directly and if I have indirectly I apologise.

 

[Pk_#2]

slang isn't disrespectful..tis jus different i guess...

if ur disrespectful...den ur disrespectful...its got nuffin 2 do wiv da slang ya use

duh!

Any normal person wud kno dah

 

[glo]

one word answers
these ppl never have anything interesting to say but always post random little things like, "lol" or "yep" or "no" or other irrelavant boring stuff, its their sigs n avatars that always seem to flood my screen because of their endless free posting of one word answers. do us a favour and say something interesting or nothing at all.

Yep! lol

(Only kidding ... I do agree with you!) :thankyou:

Hope you enjoyed your meal with your husband!

Blessings.

 

[Pk_#2]

Originally Posted by Daffodil
one word answers
these ppl never have anything interesting to say but always post random little things like, "lol" or "yep" or "no" or other irrelavant boring stuff, its their sigs n avatars that always seem to flood my screen because of their endless free posting of one word answers. do us a favour and say something interesting or nothing at all.

Do her a favour evawan n get rid of ur signatures n ur avatars Ta

 

[Umar001]

Argh, although I agree that people should not be seen offensive just because of the way that they talk, I also agree that alot of people that talk slangish tend to be offensive, NOT READ ME CAREFULLY THIS DOEs NOT MEAN THAT ALL OF uS ARE BUT UNFOURTUNETLY SOME PEOPLE ASSOCiATE THAT QUICKLY AND THATS HOW IT IS.

But lets just leave the little comments 'Do her a favour evawan n get rid of ur signatures n ur avatars Ta'

Yall is sisters, so please just dont get mad jus compramise abit of urselfs for each other.

Thanks

Sorry

Salam Aleykum

 

[x Maz x]

Well Z just unique, likes to go in all guns firing and blazing and shouting and beefn harsh remarks..Peace x

 

[Daffodil]

Cause i was bought up in a atmosphere like i was Aint ma fult, blame the people around me ...One does not have to be of black origin to converse and communicate in such a manner

Asalamulaikum

Its the plastic g's that speak like that, remember that we must keep company of those who are good muslims. And also remember that we will be raised on the day of judgment with those people who we imitate and the company we keep.

Lol, this just a common slang term of saying 'Peace & stay blessed'??

The prophet saw told us to say give salam as a greeting and when leaving. Isnt the sunnah sufficient for us that we have to adopt the kuffar way? Remember "Asalamulaikum" is the greeting of paradise.

I take people seirously regardless of their manner of commnicating, at the end of the day...why base my verdict about them when only reading a post written in slang? who am i?

If people are too lazy to speak properly and use terms that we can all understand then Im sorry but your post gets dismissed as from looking at the typing it seems like the person doesnt have anything worthwhile or interesting to say.

Again its like saying to a Paki drop your accent and speak like I do cause your note better than me you Paki? lol...Its just a manner of communicating get me bwedrin?

That is to do with accents and nothing to do with how ppl speak.

the point it, this board is for a chillout. it's swamped with kids who can't fit in anywhere else, or want to show their 'cool'/g side because it can't be shown on any other message boards or outdoors on the streets - whichever the case.

Yep that has become more and more aparant to me after being here for a few months now.

geez was rong wiv slang...i int no gangstress but ima ryt howeva ah like...

wats hapnin 2 da ummah?

'tis tym 2 pick on da ppl hu dnt use standard english tym agen'

get a life...N STOP FINDIN FAULTS IN OVA PPL

AM SHO DER R MANY FINGS DAT U CNT GET RYT DAH OVAS CAN

n dis issue is rather small...dnt ya fink?

thnx

Im sorry lil sis but I didnt even read that as I dont understand a word.

see what comes with the way of speaking, is the attitude, the way of thought. look at the figures, they speak for themsevles.

Yep defo, ppl start giving off bad vibes with the attitude in which they speak n what they say, I tend to blank those posts as like I sed if theyre too lazy to talk properly Im too busy to bother reading the post.

 

[Pk_#2]

Im sorry lil sis but I didnt even read that as I dont understand a word.

PEOPLE LIKE YOU MAKE ME SAD...CAN YOU READ THIS...

jeez tlk bout bein .........

 

[Daffodil]

Im sorry lil sis but I didnt even read that as I dont understand a word.

PEOPLE LIKE YOU MAKE ME SAD...CAN YOU READ THIS...

jeez tlk bout bein spastic

May Allah swt guide u. Ameen

 

[Umar001]

I think we all need guidance to some extent.

May Allah guide us All Ameeeeeeeeeeen. Gangsters or Not lol