Advice For Da Youth!!!

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jazakallah, but what if you fell you are not doing enough for the rest of the muslims in the school. listen to this, today in the khutbah, this boy comes up in the sistas section. his infront of us. am like excuse me can't you see its jumah. he goes 'dhur.' i am left to feel embarresed
 
Assalamu Alaikum

you'll realise that once people believe your serios about this, and you want to focus on islam - insha Allaah the bad crowd will leave you alone, and by coming to this forum - you'll learn more about islam and become a better muslimah insha Allaah.


we will pray for you insha Allaah.. jazak Allaah khayr.


wa Allaah u a'lam. (and Allaah subhanahu wa ta'aala knows best.)


wa Salaam o 'alykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh.
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ditto :)
yea be more religious believe me it will make ur mind so much more tranquil, cuz you wont be askin urself should i do this, should i do that..etc.
and keep away from the "muslims" who have gone bad lol
they wont be a very good influence unless your iman is very strong where you would be an influence on them. Seperate yourself from them because if you dont you will be getting judged over the fitnah they might be apart of.

fi aman Allah
w'salaam
 
Hey sis thanks for everything. i am now going to go now and hibernate. post more advice and i'll get my other sistas to read it in the morning. May Allah bless you. Aslamalykum
 
o and i am using this scientific word because i am trying to get an A in my science GCSE insha allah
 
Salaam o 'alykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh.


situationz like this happen alot. i think the best way to face it iz to ask the sistaz not to talk back to him, to put him off. this way he'll walk off cz no1 will want to talk 2 him. its important that you do put your point across firmly because he was the one who did the wrong thing. after this, even if you do be put down, then remember you did it for Allaah subhanahu wa ta'aala's sake and because of that - you will get rewarded for it loadz insha Allaah.. just remember to stay patient when things like this happen insha Allaah.


wa you said about doing enough for the muslimz - i think its important that you focus alot on yoself 1st, do the best you can for the muslimz ryt now, for example treat the sistaz with respekt and help em out weneva they need it. but the most important thing ryt now is for you to gain knowledge, then put it into your life.

after this, once you start getting the knowledge and - once you've put it into your life (started practising it) then its important that you start spreading that knowledge and helping the muslims (especialy the ones who want to learn.) telling the truth to them, especialy in your islamic club coz thats where most of the sisters are, who want to learn more about islam.

its important you practise it too, coz otherwise the sisters will proli say that you tell people to do things - yet you never practice it yoself, so its important to be a good rolemodel.


the best place to start off is by reading the lifestory of our beloved Prophet Muhammad sal Allaahu alayhi wasalam.. this is a really good start because you can learn about the struggles they had to go through, and you'll realise the 'Man behind the Message' and you'll realise how they are who you look upto as your muslim role model.

you can read their (peace be upon him)'s biography off this link insha Allaah:

http://www.islamicboard.com/prophet-muhammad-p/1715-biography-prophet-muhammad-saws.html


remember not to take too much things all in one go.. take everything step by step and this is the best way you will gain more knowledge and become a better muslimah. if you dive into gaining all the knowledge - then you will feel over burdened and you'll leave really quick the same way. so its really important to take everything step by step insha Allaah.

i'll stop talking for now insha Allaah, jazak Allaah khayr for lisnin/readin..


wa Allaah u a'lam. (and Allaah subhanahu wa ta'aala knows best.)


wa Salaam o 'alykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh.
 
Assalamu Alaikum

Hey sis thanks for everything. i am now going to go now and hibernate. post more advice and i'll get my other sistas to read it in the morning. May Allah bless you. Aslamalykum
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lol sis...and may Allah subhana wa ta'ala bless you as well :)
i think akhee wrapped it all up for tonight, jazak Allah khair

im gonna take a nap soon, im so exhausted subhanallah..
eh alhemdulilah i have ablitity to rest

fi aman Allah
w'salaam
 
Mashallah great advice from everyone :)

It used to be like that with me a couple years back, until my highschool years where instead of going towards the worst, It changed for the better alhamdulilah. Maybe because I was blessed with a good group of muslims. Me and my friends made a deal to always remind each other if we are to do or are doing something stupid. And just be straight up and lol I must say that's worked. Make dua and try out the suggestions the brothers and sisters gave you and Insha'Allah it'll all go well :)
 
Aslamalykum every one. what do you think is the problem of the youth today that they don't want to practice islam.
 
Assalamu Alaikum

Well theres a lot of things:

1) influence from others to do wrong things
2) School being more important than deen
3) People waiting for the last minute, like waiting until they are old and wrinkly to start practicing or when they get married>>which gets on my nerves cuz u dont know when time will be granted to you or when Allah will take ur life away from you

theres a lot of other things too

how bout u sis
what do u think?

fi aman Allah
w'salaam
 
Aslamalykum. i think because they don't feel involved with islam. to them its boring and drags on, subhanallah
 
wa alykum as Salaam warahmatulahi wabarakatuh.


i think its the media - like you see the media all the time and they've got all this stuff to impress everyone. theres so much fitnah (temptations) that a person forgets about anything else and just wants to enjoy being young, the people get brainwashed that 'your only young once, so make the most out of it.' this affects alot of people and the majority of the teens copy of this.

when the younger kids see this, they see that the older peepz act lyk that and cz the older peepz are der role modelz - the kidz copy the older ppl. so the kidz get affected by what the older people do - so its like a cycle.
whaeva the older people do will affect the kidz cz thats whats 'wkd' or kool, and whaever the older peepz see on tv - they'll imitate that.


but i've noticed masha Allaah, alhamdulilah that alot of the youth are turning to islam now because they feel that the media is going against them - cz of 7/7 and 9/11. they starting to find out what islam is and they feel that its more than just a normal religion and they feel that they gota protect it. alhamdulillah i'm really happy about that and more masjidz/mosques are bringing in english talking imams - these might be young imams like 20yr oldz so they can discuss with each other how they feel about different subjectz - so they feel more comfortable, instead of talking to a imam who might be der dadz mate..


so alhamdulilah gradualy.. thingz are changing but we still need to focus on giving even a basic idea of what islam is to our matez.. at least this way - if they ever do want to ever focus on religion again - they will have a basic idea of what islam is and therefore they will be interested or be persuaded to gain more knowledge (because of that little knowledge they have already.)


wa Allaah u a'lam. (and Allaah subhanahu wa ta'aala knows best.)


wa Salaam o 'alykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh.
 
Assalamu Alaikum

Aslamalykum. i think because they don't feel involved with islam. to them its boring and drags on, subhanallah
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Its wierd though, when you are practicing and practicing correctly, its the opposite, you feel like you dont have time for the rest of the world.
I have a cousin (may Allah guide her) who refuses the hijaab just because she doesnt like it, and i try to explain to her the benefits and stuff, its no use with her, and i blame her mom lol

but when i talk to her bro about it, he told me that he wants to marry a girl with hijaab because he will feel she has more respect, modesty, only for him, etc.. and even though he is younger than his sister, he tells her that it is better for her to wear the hijaab. but i dunno, May Allah guide all those who are misguided ameen.

fi aman Allah
w'salaam
 
Aslamalykum. i didn't want to wear the hijab. my broder started practicin. he tried to force it on me. but as soon as i was out of the door i used to take it of. but then when i use to hear my broder listening to these inspirational talks, i just put it on. now today, you wouldn't see me dead without it. except in my house of course. Allah knows best. wassalam
 

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