Umm♥Layth
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lol, I notice a pessamistic trend on the board. People trying to stop a good conversation because they don't believe in what is being discussed or because they choose to be "realistic" (whatever the heck that means really) and because we all have to be sad an mourning every second of every day for the tragedies in the world.
Some of us have a very difficult life, some people here have major disabilities, some people come here for a BREAK, some people actually spend their nights in sujood praying for the world....so really it isn't fair to impose that we all cork it because of XYZ reasons. Life goes on. It is difficult enough to smile these days, let's not make it even harder.
Worrying actually doesn't make people proactive whatsoever, it makes people paralyzed. What makes people ACT is INSPIRATION, hope and good news. Very rarely does anger and grief lead to real, permanent action and changes. Most people who have depression don't act, they worry all stinking day. To worry is to not have trust in Allah. I have to pull people out of this mindset on a regular basis, so believe me when I tell you that wallowing in pitty, despair and regret brings nothing good.
We can care about things, cry, make dua and make changes, but we never stop living, looking forward to a better future and using our gifts. We continue until our very last breath. period.
It is a good idea thread on a to start a thread on this topic, but please, lets get back to the subject at hand. I was actually looking forward to it.
Some of us have a very difficult life, some people here have major disabilities, some people come here for a BREAK, some people actually spend their nights in sujood praying for the world....so really it isn't fair to impose that we all cork it because of XYZ reasons. Life goes on. It is difficult enough to smile these days, let's not make it even harder.
Worrying actually doesn't make people proactive whatsoever, it makes people paralyzed. What makes people ACT is INSPIRATION, hope and good news. Very rarely does anger and grief lead to real, permanent action and changes. Most people who have depression don't act, they worry all stinking day. To worry is to not have trust in Allah. I have to pull people out of this mindset on a regular basis, so believe me when I tell you that wallowing in pitty, despair and regret brings nothing good.
We can care about things, cry, make dua and make changes, but we never stop living, looking forward to a better future and using our gifts. We continue until our very last breath. period.
It is a good idea thread on a to start a thread on this topic, but please, lets get back to the subject at hand. I was actually looking forward to it.
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