Always appreciate your husband even on the smallest thing

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Just to be fair ;D

Always appreciate and be grateful with your hubby so that you can live a happier life.

Remember the hadith saying that most women who are in hell is because they are not grateful with their hubbies. (maybe someone can help me with the hadith)
 
I'm a man-woman dating/relationship books junkie....and I can tell you this : appreciate and compliment is a lifeblood to a man just like woman craving a man's love and flower. the biggest mistake woman do is when a man making mistake, she'll act as if he has no good at all and all his past good deeds to her are forgotten (that's what this hadith truly condemn). appreciating him meaning fueling his love to you....and in the end, he'll treat you like queen and love you more (insha Allah) who don't want to be loved?

don't do this because you fear hell....do this for love and see the fruition :)
 
Never offend man's self-esteem, especially if this man is your husband.

If your husband makes a mistake, you may be mad and say what your husband's fault. But you should not say "you've never been able to do the right thing". And avoid comparing husband with another man like "other husbands could always make their wives happy", or offensive about his family like "Your mother made ​​a big mistake when she educated you".

If both the last thing that happens, he will find his wife could not appreciate him. And usually the husband will start looking for another woman who could appreciate him.
 
asalam
Shokran for great reminder
Wow I am guilty, last time I was upset I told my husband you are "NOO GOOD" you never care for me!!!!
And he look at me straight in the eye and ask me, am I really bad to you?
I was trying to get a reason and answer him, no you aint good to me, but I faileed miserably lool
and in the end we laugh together, wow need to control my mouth

Alhamdollellah my husband knows me being an extrovert who needs to say whatever is in my mind/heart lol

Subhanallah women's nature
 
Wow that's great reminder, I have to say sometimes I say things I don't mean in the heat of the moment. But he knows I don't mean them, it's good I don usually lose my cool. You always show ur man how much u love and care for them cos u never know wot will happen this life is not long lasting and every moment counts
 
syilla said:
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Just to be fair ;D

Always appreciate and be grateful with your hubby so that you can live a happier life.

Remember the hadith saying that most women who are in hell is because they are not grateful with their hubbies. (maybe someone can help me with the hadith)
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That's it?

No poems? No heart-felt articles?

The thread dedicated to the wives had an entire blog dedicated to them.

Oh the ingratitude! :heated:
 
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Dudes are fragile. We need to be complimented just like women do. We will never admit that though, because we're dudes, and we're rough and tough and manly.
 
Appreciate your husband in small thing, it's will gives greater effect than you appreciate him in a big thing.

If your husband buy you a jewelery, this is a big thing. If your husband wash the dishes without you ordered him, this is a small thing.

If your husband buy you a jewelery, whatever you will do to appreciate him, it will not surprise him because he has been know you will appreciate him. But if your husband wash the dishes without you ordered him, and you appreciate him with simple appreciation like say "thank you" and give him your sweetest smile, it can surprise him. InshaAllah, it can increase his love to you.
 
Asalamu Alaikum
Jazakallah for the the reminder

And Jazakallah for your posts brother ardianto
 
All these husband/wife posts are making me feel lonely :'(

Jk, I hear they like being treated like babies. :heated:
 
Galaxy said:
All these husband/wife posts are making me feel lonely :'(
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Insha Allah, your time to get married will come.

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Jk, I hear they like being treated like babies. :heated:
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Sometime men like being treated like babies, sometime men like being treated like a boss, sometime men like being treated like Mr.Universe, sometime men like .... sometime .... sometime ......

Men are wonder creature, sis.

When your husband like being treated like baby? when your husband like being treated as adult? .... I don't know. Every man is different. So, after you get married you should learn about your husband. Notice his reaction when you do "this", when you do "that", when you talk like this, when you talk like that. You can also ask about your husband to his mother and his aunties.

If you can understand your husband, you can treat him very well. It will makes him feel comfortable, and Insha Allah, can increase his love to you.
 
ardianto said:
So, after you get married you should learn about your husband.
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Or try getting your hands on a Two Pages Manual that comes with almost every man :X

br. ardianto is special man who gets treatment in so many ways. From the top of my head I can recall similar treatment all the times and that is: They (my wife and 3 daughters [the youngest one is only 7 months but I'm sure she will grow, the same, like her other sisters, so far I consider her innocent]) treat me like their servant :skeleton:

PS: I strongly believe my wife somehow managed to have that manual.:phew
 
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Guys, you're breaking the Brother Code by talking about "The Manual". ;D
 
Tilmeez said:
br. ardianto is special man who gets treatment in so many ways.
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This morning my wife told me while smile, she fried a chicken for me. At noon, she smile again when she provided my meal, in afternoon, my wife was angry because I forgot to watering the plants, after maghrib she smile again.

Okay, I will log out and wash the dishes before my wife angry again. :D
 
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