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well....am awake early as possible....just cannot believe it....
the reason i was there because to change things around there bring more understanding of islam...erm guess it it didnt wrk or will never wrk...cannot loose hope....can i?....
i have tried my best to provide enough threads on islamic teaching.....most threads of mine were kept deserted.....
i have avoided most of their threads....that creates many unislamic things....wen i spoke something against it..in a polite way.....guess i was being seen in a diff place...
i was checking other forums to see the difference between this forum and others surely.....this forum is way way way better....mashAllah......may Allah(swt) keep it like that..... inshAllah...
telling the mods wouldnt make a difference...mods are poorly organised......
still i cant believe...i knw its via internet.....but still we are muslims rite?......
its just hard to except it........
these days i believed in unity..but when i look around...its not.....is it?......
MAy Allah(swt) forgive them all and lead them to the righteous path inshAllah......
then i read this:
It is the duty of a Muslim to keep an eye on the deeds and conduct of fellow Muslims and to try to help them to stay on the straight path. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) enumerated the conditions to be met in the task of advising others:
"Each one of you is like a mirror to the other. You should rectify the wrong you note in him." (Tirmidhi) In another hadith the Prophet said: "Every Muslim serves as another Muslim's mirror. He safeguards his rights in his absence as well." (Abu Dawud) The following norms emerge in light of the above ahadith:
1. One should not look for the lapses and weaknesses of others. For a mirror does not seek defects. Only on coming face to face does a mirror reflect you.
2. One should not be criticised in one's absence. Once again the similitude of the mirror should be kept in mind; it does not reflect someone in absentia.
3. One should not exceed limits in criticising someone else. For a mirror does not magnify or diminish any feature.
4. Criticism should be forthright and free of any ulterior motive. For, once again, a mirror does not entertain any revenge or grudge.
5. One's criticism should be made with sincerity, genuine concern, pain and love. This removes any bitterness caused by criticism. Sincerity in this context signifies one's concern for the ultimate accountability in the Hereafter. One should help a fellow Muslim in order to avoid any punishment for him on the Day of Judgement. Nor should one entertain any superiority complex. Rather, one should take oneself as weaker than and inferior to the person criticised by him. Humility and not arrogance makes mutual care and advice effective.

the reason i was there because to change things around there bring more understanding of islam...erm guess it it didnt wrk or will never wrk...cannot loose hope....can i?....
i have tried my best to provide enough threads on islamic teaching.....most threads of mine were kept deserted.....
i have avoided most of their threads....that creates many unislamic things....wen i spoke something against it..in a polite way.....guess i was being seen in a diff place...
i was checking other forums to see the difference between this forum and others surely.....this forum is way way way better....mashAllah......may Allah(swt) keep it like that..... inshAllah...
telling the mods wouldnt make a difference...mods are poorly organised......
still i cant believe...i knw its via internet.....but still we are muslims rite?......

these days i believed in unity..but when i look around...its not.....is it?......

MAy Allah(swt) forgive them all and lead them to the righteous path inshAllah......
then i read this:
It is the duty of a Muslim to keep an eye on the deeds and conduct of fellow Muslims and to try to help them to stay on the straight path. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) enumerated the conditions to be met in the task of advising others:
"Each one of you is like a mirror to the other. You should rectify the wrong you note in him." (Tirmidhi) In another hadith the Prophet said: "Every Muslim serves as another Muslim's mirror. He safeguards his rights in his absence as well." (Abu Dawud) The following norms emerge in light of the above ahadith:
1. One should not look for the lapses and weaknesses of others. For a mirror does not seek defects. Only on coming face to face does a mirror reflect you.
2. One should not be criticised in one's absence. Once again the similitude of the mirror should be kept in mind; it does not reflect someone in absentia.
3. One should not exceed limits in criticising someone else. For a mirror does not magnify or diminish any feature.
4. Criticism should be forthright and free of any ulterior motive. For, once again, a mirror does not entertain any revenge or grudge.
5. One's criticism should be made with sincerity, genuine concern, pain and love. This removes any bitterness caused by criticism. Sincerity in this context signifies one's concern for the ultimate accountability in the Hereafter. One should help a fellow Muslim in order to avoid any punishment for him on the Day of Judgement. Nor should one entertain any superiority complex. Rather, one should take oneself as weaker than and inferior to the person criticised by him. Humility and not arrogance makes mutual care and advice effective.
