Annoyed! READ PLEASE!

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Bismilah! I hope u r reading this in the best of health and imaan!


I wanted to say der are somethings that are really annoying me on this forum(i believe I am not the only one bothered by this)

Here it goes, you know sometimes when a person openend a new thread, and has put some effort in. Let this be a joke, or a discorvery(he/she made) or just any comment.... I see that some people when they don't like the joke for example or dont like the comment or the topic, they say stuff which is not really nice... and i know those who do so, that u probally don't mean nothing bad with it! But it does come bad over to that thread opener!

For example a joke been told in the joke thread! People read it... if u dnt like it or u ddnt find it funny... then please dnt go and post.. 'it wasn't funny' or anything along these lines! keep ur not so positive comment to ur self :) Even if u ddnt find it funny, just drop a nice word, put a smile down! These are things that would make the thread opener happier, make him feel more confident!

SOOO PLEASE BROTHERS AND SISTERS!!! Keep this forum a happy place!! Put a smile down when ever u can! It does mean alot, it changes the whole complex of the writing :)!!..... Leave ur negative comments at home (obvsly when negative comments are due, then they have to be given!) Even then, try to PM that person so he/she is not told of in front of peope(which is not a nice thing)

InshAllah on this one, more smiles, more positive comments left:) More importantly less negative comments for things that don't deserve it!

A smile goes a mile :)

Have also more patient to our none muslim brothers and sisters! Sometimes it looks like a battlefield in here lol!

Quran - 16:125Invite (all) to the Way of thy Lord with wisdom and beautiful preaching; and argue with them in ways that are best and most gracious: for thy Lord knoweth best, who have strayed from His Path, and who receive guidance.

InshAllah khair!

:wasalamex
 
Lol @ battlefield.

This is so true tho.
Jazakallah khair for taking your time on this. :)

Smile people :)
 
*SAFA* said:
Lol @ battlefield.

This is so true tho.
Jazakallah khair for taking your time on this. :)

Smile people :)
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lool, my time is of no importance:), I WANNA SEE SUM CHANGES ND I WANT TO SEEE DEM NOWW :p
 
I dont agree at allllllll. Ok here i'm going to ruin the total happy theme of this thread.

This is a FORUM. If i dont like a joke its nothing wrong at alllll to say it as long as i'm not being rude or anything. I mean come onnn...We can take a little bashing without getting offended cant we? I probably am saying that "not nice" word because I dont like it. If we have everyone lovign and being nice I think this would be the most boring forum ever.

As long as there is no disrespect, and its not haram,i think we should say whatever we want.
 
Nawal89 said:
I dont agree at allllllll. Ok here i'm going to ruin the total happy theme of this thread.

This is a FORUM. If i dont like a joke its nothing wrong at alllll to say it as long as i'm not being rude or anything. I mean come onnn...We can take a little bashing without getting offended cant we? I probably am saying that "not nice" word because I dont like it. If we have everyone lovign and being nice I think this would be the most boring forum ever.

As long as there is no disrespect, and its not haram,i think we should say whatever we want.
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Sister by all means feel free to show ur opinion! If u rather b in a more of serious environment than a happy one then thats absolutely fine!

However i stand firm with my opinion, a nice word is good to hear! No denial in that... A smile is nice to see, agian no denial in that! So ofcourse mix it up! When u need to be serious, then be serious! At times when u don't need to, then its better to show a postive happy attitude!

I can't really see, how a nice and loving forum would be boring, thats quite beyond me? So if people are nice and care about one another would that be boring? U have to realize its to an extend! So no extreme loving and extreme nice, cuz to much of eveything will destroy its purpose.

Yep i agree if u don't like it(a joke for eg) u can say so! If u don't like something u can say it in a polite and nice way right? I have seen examples of people being rude to an extent, am pretty sure ther was no intent in doing so! Well thats the reason I have openend this thread to give people a kind yet a much needed reminder:) Well i have to remind my self before remiding anyone else...

Peace be unto u
 
well thats a grt idea... i mean as long as u say it in the rite way .. nothin wrong with that... but we dont want ppl to start being fake though !! SIMLE
 
I'm sure we can all spare a few joules to smile (or type a semi colon':' and a close bracket')' ) just to make a person feel happy and appreciated.
Otherwise just save your energy by simply clicking 'BACK' button.
 
asalam alaikum wr wb,


Q:What's worst then someone saying they don't like your joke/post/comment?
A: Out of hundreds of people no one saying anything at all!

That's gotta be worse - being just totally ignored.

p.s.@ raOnar, I agree a little more sensitivity in general is a good thing

wa alaikum asalam wr wb.
 
we have to understand that some ppl r more sensitive than others.
so,....


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oops wrong one, hang on..






:D Ta daaaa!

happy?
 
Asalamu Aleykoum

Now Iam Gettin Happy :D... if That Happens
 
completely agree with the thread starter. as this forum is a confidence builder/booster for many people , apart from their homes and offices and other daily routine life, this is where they try to excel in a spacious environment. agree at times negative comments where required are a must , but it should not be a general terminology
 
u do reaslise this threads gna get closed cuz the objective has been achieved

oh but im not allowed to think negative :X

im must just carry on smiling :D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D , * jaws are hurting* :D
 
Sahabiyaat said:
u do reaslise this threads gna get closed cuz the objective has been achieved

oh but im not allowed to think negative :X

im must just carry on smiling :D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D , * jaws are hurting* :D
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Think POSTIVE U GOT IT!:D,


Yep, Purpose is done i think everyone has read it. Now everyone has to make it to practise:)
 
Asma Shaikh said:
completely agree with the thread starter. as this forum is a confidence builder/booster for many people , apart from their homes and offices and other daily routine life, this is where they try to excel in a spacious environment. agree at times negative comments where required are a must , but it should not be a general terminology
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BarakAllah Feek, very well said ukhti.

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