Any married brothers here?

so what bro? even romeo and juliet wouldn't have waited for each other forever... she's moved on, which she has the right to do and so should you.

and don't think I'm being harsh bro.. I'm just echoing reality.

(dats big sisters for u!) :giggling:

Just wait, inshaAllah you will find someone who you won't even have doubts about. :)
 
Anonymous Tester said:
inshallah. But it will hurt for a while. It's my fault... wasn't much wrong with her, just me so stupid.
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aww :cry: i feel bad for you, dont worry. for every person Allah has made them a suited partner. feel not sad but just strive to find your perfect girl, in days to come you will find her & thank Allah when you do subhanallah. Please dont beat yourself up about it imsad :cry:

Demonic brutha, mashallah at halal fun ;) i'm feeling you bro :D
gud luk, i pray allah gives you all pious sisters and husbands as partners ameen tke care
 
Anonymous Tester said:
inshallah. But it will hurt for a while. It's my fault... wasn't much wrong with her, just me so stupid.
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don't be sad bro.. if something isn't in our fate then theres nothing we can do about it.. and when sumthin isn't meant to be then that's cuz it wouldn't have been good for either of you. Sometimes people even get married and then lose someone if it isn't meant to be.

Look at this way bro.. you took time to think. Maybe Allah made you stall because He knew this wasn't good in your favour in the long run?

Cheer up or I'll get u a bowl of Cheerios! lol Keep making duaa to Allah and do astaghfaar, give sadka and smile, Allah's given you lots to be grateful for and life's too short for sadness and regrets. :)
 
Muslimah_Sis said:
don't be sad bro.. if something isn't in our fate then theres nothing we can do about it.. and when sumthin isn't meant to be then that's cuz it wouldn't have been good for either of you. Sometimes people even get married and then lose someone if it isn't meant to be.

Look at this way bro.. you took time to think. Maybe Allah made you stall because He knew this wasn't good in your favour in the long run?

Cheer up or I'll get u a bowl of Cheerios! lol Keep making duaa to Allah and do astaghfaar, give sadka and smile, Allah's given you lots to be grateful for and life's too short for sadness and regrets. :)
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jazakallahkhair :)
 
Were you certain of her 100% beforehand?
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I put my trust in Allaah, I didnt even know her but i said yes from what i heard about her. My marriage was not happy until we expierienced a loss together and that was Allaah's wisdom.
 
Prayed istikhara yesterday night.

Had a few dreams.

One was about travelling.

One was about reciting Quran.

Nothing clear though...

Before things were broken off though, a few months ago, I did have a dream where I was praying in jamat with her brothers
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Are her brothers going on Hajj by any chance because that just may have been the call to join them and Allaah knows best.
 
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Anythin specific? [If the bro who created the thread doesn't mind us goin offtopic]
 
:sl:

If you knew her, you would think I was insane to do what I had done.imsad

Feel like biggest mistake of my life. But what's meant to be is meant to be?

But it's still a mistake, doesn't change that. I'm so stupid.:hiding: :hiding: :hiding:
 
Assalmualikum,
confused brother Fisabillah married yes or no? (invitation :p)
&& also what have you done AnonymousGender above me ^
Ma'assalama
 
why all the married guy...aren't replying to this thread.

Are they afraid of their status/share will go down the drain..:rolleyes:

:lol:
 

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