Apostasy invalidates Marriage?? (Please help)

[AntiKarateKid]

I don't understand why people dismiss religion because of the evil actions of so called believers.

For example, yes conquistadors killed most of the native americans in the name of Christ, but... did they do it in accordance with the Bible or against it?

The answer of course is against it. Saying you are for example a Christian doesn't mean that some moral switch suddenly turns on. In Islam, you need to work at the morals you espouse.


So I am puzzled at your distaste of religion due to the actions of people which contradict their religion. It seems to me... for lack of a better phrase... a copout.

 

[glo]

And he says to me: "If I practice Islam then I have to divorce you, because you are a kafir."

I was offended this evening that my husband feels he would have to divorce me if he really wanted to be a good muslim.

My husband literally believes in his mind that he will go to hell for marrying me.

Hi Kafir

I enjoy reading your posts. It is obvious how much thought and consideration goes into them ...

I wonder how you and your husband got on?
Did you go to mosque together?
Did you convince him that it is okay to be married to a non-believer?

When I read your post I was struck by your husband's attitude towards you.
Did it occur to you how - believing he will be punished for marrying you - self-sacrificial your husband really is? To be prepared to sacrifice his after-life for this earthly life with you??
That man must REALLY love you!

(I understand that Islamically his actions may be considered wrong, but humanly they are really quite beautiful!)

I would love to hear how you are doing!

Peace

 

[AntiKarateKid]

Nvm