That is Maryam. You sound a little threatened by her stance. Why would anyone choose to be a slave to a deity? Why would any deity worth worshiping require such obedience under threat of eternal pain? I really don't get it.
You really don't get it, do you? If there really is One God (as ALL Muslims believe), then we are a part of His creation. The Qur'an tells us that the purpose for creating mankind is for them to worship Him. You are completely free to not submit your person to serving and obeying God in the same manner that I am free to submit to His guidance. If you choose to be rebellious and earn the wrath of Allah (subhana wa ta ala), then I hope that you remember to voice your complaints about your perceived 'injustice' on Judgement Day before Rabb il-Alameen, Maliki Yawmi Deen.
I am fed-up reading justifications as to why men should be able to have four wives,
... and how many Muslims do you know who have more than one wife?
why women enjoy hiding themselves in public and why women don't really want to drive.
Oh, I see you want to liberate Muslim women from their hijab so you can oogle over their bodies exposed through tight and revealing clothing.
This is why I am here, to try and get a different perspective. To find out if there is such a thing as a moderate muslim, if people can be muslim without believing in god and what changes you would like to see.
This statement is most revealing. In other words you want us to become a Jew. If you had any understanding whatsoever, you would know that it is literally impossible to "be a muslim without believing in god". I have actually spoken at length with a Rabbi (Reform) and I was shocked to learn that believing in God is NOT a requirement for someone to be considered a Jew. She (yes, the Rabbi was a woman) also wrote/spoke about how the rights of women to pray publically at the Wailing Wall were being repressed by Israel. So Jewish women are still fighting for their 'liberation', too, and you want to see Muslimahs do the same in order to gain the right to dress as scantily as possible (bikinis, tank-tops, lowcut blouses, tight jeans, short skirts, etc.), to marry non-Muslim men, lead men in prayer, etc. In other words you want to separate Muslims from Islam.